yeah true, That's how somalis meet and most of them go to weddings to meet someone. It's because somalis love to have their other halfs from the same qabil, so meeting in the wedding is a big time chance.

NGONGE Where did u get the book from? and where can I find arabic novels in London? I heard about the movie , it's a big hit i guess.

Thanks for everyone, I know for sure that i will drive an automatic. I got my provisional licence, and am revising for the theory test and at the same time i have to have my driving lessons as Northner said.

what u on about. It's kind of familiar. it happend before hmmmmmm.

Thank u nuune and serenity That was funny MC, but i would of liked if u gave me some advise

This might sound silly,but I need answers. I want to apply for driving license in the UK, but I don't know if I can apply for automatic or manual. Someone told me that automatic is for disabled only, is it true? I don't want to do the manual one cause that will take ages. So answers , i want answers please. And thanks for your efforts.

I don't think it's a big deal to not wear a wig. But don't u like your short hair though. U should and it doesn't matter if it doesn't go wiht the dirac, just wear something else classy.

You all taking the subject into nowhere. I meant from the begining that most somali men I've heard of are mistreating their wives. Money is part of the issue but not the main one. There is a culture in somali society of treating women as second class citizens.

All Justice is trying to do is show you the problem and all of you dudes are defending your self’s and not seeing what you doing wrong. If your work and support your family good and if you don’t maybe you should consider working and supporting your family. Oh by the way Yo-Yo Ma I don’t have any think against you it’s just that you defending Somali men and your ignoring what they do wrong that’s all. Finally, I found someone who feels the same. Yes men can't understand that they are facing a great issue. They are draging themselves and their families down. They don't want to move forward, they just want to be the normal farax forever.

Heavenly sake Justice, who is building those nice bunglows and villas from Zeila to Kismayo, if Johnny-Faaraxs not working his arsse off, I heard that its been owned in great deal by UK residents surley it deosn't pop-up from the ground like mushrooms, as you remeber last we fled the country it was all devasting beriut-like. A good point there, but I don't mean that eihter. It is really complicated and appalling :mad: I havn't came across these men your talking about, and I wish if I can meet one of them... am talking about the young men who are just starting their lives with a new wife. It's true that they need to work together so they can survive, but It's always important for the guy to be the main bread winner. what am seeing now is men trying to act smart and run after girls who are already got houses and who are loaded with money. Sometimes the girl might be earning more money than the guy. This is what really worry me. Men are not the same men anymore. They are lazy, dependent on women, and can't take responsibility. I wish if These men you talked about sharmarke were the majority, but they are not, and maybe they are not young in their twenties.

HOw about getting a job, and supporting yourself? What I meant dear is that men think that they can have a family and still rely on the government handout.

^^^ there is no solution Am becoming a fiminist cause men are treating women like another peice of furntiture, used and abused. I gave up on men in the UK, unless they start acting like real men.

Am a new feminsit already. why all men can't be like my dad. If I find someone like dad, ooooooh I'll grab him and keep him and kiss the ground that he walks on. what i really meant is that guys in UK especialy, don't take the marriage responsibilties seriously. They think that the government can pay for everything and still live happily ever after. Well they don't , they don't I wish if i can see one somali couple who don't depend on benefits. that will prove that am wrong about men. and if u know someone who does not want to live like that, then please tell him that I salute him.

Do any of you girls, who live in the west feel ashamed or disturbed by the way men are treating women? Seriously, am on my way to become a feminist. if your man is not giving you the money that you cash every week from the bank , and he didn't pay for the house that you both live in,didn't pay for your health, etc, etc , etc Then why do we still have to repect them??

guys want to get women for free, well it wont happen. This is marriage, so take the responsibility ..

^^^That's fine, count yourself one of the lucky ones, as you had the chance to go shopping abroad. I would love to do this next summer.

^^^ Will I watch khaligi drama , and that's their fashion. But it depends were u went, cause these designs are only worn in Kuwait , Saudi Arabia. am not sure if it's available in Dubai. since u were there then, why havn't u thought about tailored cloths. they alot cheeper, and u can choose the deisgne u fancy...

what worries me the most is that most of them families break up somehow. Maybe because they lie too much about thier martial status, and so many things. in my opinion this money is not Halal.

They wear this desighn in gulf countries, so I thnk that is the most fasionable , modest , practical design ever

What about mixing and matching and being creartive. Design your own outfit, that is gonna look nice. what about this top, this was the fasion item in arabic drama. Just add the scarf on your head and u gonna look, decent and trendy

Principles clothings are decent, I like everything they have. the y might be for old ladys , but that is my style . this one of the things that makes u go ooooooooooh this skirt costs 45 pounds

I hope that this picture would change one day

I love to cook, cooking is my passion. It's 100% true what your friend about the appreciation that she gets from family, I get the same feeling. Have i cooked from someone special. Well not yet , but i consider my family to be so special.

^^^ Don'y worry , there are so many Fish in the sea

^^^I haven't mate