^^^is it the programme (Kteer Axla) with the beautiful blond, were men and women get prettier.. What is wrong with that? I love the programe

Captain Majid, what a cartoon Everybody loves Raymond Knots landing Beverly Hills 90120 Mexican series

or you could come and watch Batchan's new movie with me in the cinema. I have seen it once, its worth watching......

Oh that was Tash Ma Tash, my favourite comedy of all time. they reached the 12th or 13th series now..

Shahd for a girl(means: honey) Sami for a boy(means: the unique)

NgoNge, you are so sweet, but no thanks you don't need to deal with anyone. These parties are not my thing, the DVD will do.

Cambaro sis, again don't you get tired of suadi sheeko.....

hey buy the DVD and rest your head, no need to waste hours of your time for a party.. the truth is , I can't go, am not allowed..........

^^^You have to trust some somalis, they will milk anything if it was about money

Does he have lectures in English, I think he only have in his website.. He has this programe on Abudhabi TV, I can't remember the name of the programe. Such an influential figure...

^^ Am still in the singlewomanmarket.com and I involved religion cause its the sound of reason, and the solution for everything as long as you still believe.

I remember this lesson I had back in school, it was in arabic, but I found the same peice in English. this lesson was about an advice by Omama Bint Alhareth to her daughter, Um Iass on her wedding day. Some of the meaning got lost in translation, but I can remember one phrase in this meaning: Be his maid, an he will be your slave. the following advice given by Omama Bint Alhareth to her daughter, Um Iass on her wedding day. This is considered to be among the most famous pieces of advice given by a mother to her daughter throughout our history. She said “Oh my daughter, your are about to leave the nest you were born in and raised in to a nest that you are not aware of, and to a companion you have not been acquainted with. Remember these ten things; you will be better off, and he will be very appreciative to you – submission with satisfaction; be a good listener; be obedient; be careful where he looks or smiles, do not let his eyes fall on a filthy thing of you; be careful of his sleeping time and his food, hunger is upsetting and sleep disruption is annoying; be careful in spending his money, the best in money management is moderation; do not ever disobey an order of his and do not tell his secrets, because if you disobey him you will annoy him and if you tell his secrets you should not feel safe from his tricks; I warn you of showing happiness when he is sad or showing sadness when he is happy.” http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?c=Article_C&cid=1157365802626&pagename=Zone-English-Family%2FFYELayout

Cambaro you talking from experience, Allah bless your marriage.Ameen this article for all of you men and women who want to live in harmony...... A Husbands Tale By Du`aa' Hamdy Translated By Mostafa You thought you never knew the taste of suffering until you met a grumpy woman who is mean and makes your life like hell. Is this the woman you married? Do you feel that you will not make it to the following year? Read about the trials and tribulations of one. * * * When it was my time to marry, despite was what was being said, I made-up my mind to marry a woman from my community. Of course I recognized the implications of marrying locally. I had a very bad life — the home was permeated with a cloudy atmosphere which was full of sadness and sulkiness. Breakfast time consisted of my wife yelling, and I dined to her wailing and weeping. At supper and bedtime, I was assured nothing remained unchanged by her cursing me. We never talked, but battled. Our home was gloomy with pale colors and mysterious features. It had no life and there were two life-giving aspects: the sun and visitors. * * * One day, a friend of mine invited my wife and me to lunch at his home. I was so scared that my wife would refuse, or that she would go and be at her worst, which is not much different from her best! I asked her gently and kindly to come with me and she agreed without a second thought, and she was polite … I wondered why! We made the journey to my friend's house. We were welcomed to a home that was full of light, joy, and happiness, the reason for which was the harmony between him and his wife. Happiness was their way, respect was their motto. Love guided them and brought light into their life. They were like Shahryar and Scheherazade of The Thousand and One Nights. No, they were like lovebirds that do not speak, but chant and warble. Their words to each other were those of a father and mother, a brother and sister, a husband and wife, a companion, friend, and healer. I never wanted to leave, but we did, and I was filled with confusion. My wife was so different with my friend. Her face was softer, and she was calm to the point that she became a part of that harmonious unit. In fact, she was nothing like the she-devil that had come to make my life a misery. I did not know this woman that I have lived with for what seemed far too long. "Allah guide my wife and make her like the wife of my friend," I thought. I became obsessed with it all, thinking about the reasons day and night, over and over. I was never able to figure out why they were so different from us. So I decided to go to my friend and ask, and he surprised me with an unexpected reason: "Whoever ignores, forever loses; and whoever knows, wins the world and its bliss. A woman is a gift from Allah," he said. He continued, "Her heart is a spring of kindness, her bosom is the center of warmth, and her blood is a river of fragrance. She gives for no return, and she is tolerant with the love of good deeds. She respects her husband and guards his entity. Her beauty is in her spirit. Her charm and attraction are in her enlightened mind, awareness, and wise opinion. Had the case been different, grand men of letters would not have said 'Behind every great man is a woman' or 'Women are half the society.' So think, what happens if a man does not appreciate or respect his wife? You have no idea what the return will be if you embrace her with your kindness, with even one word!" I left my friend in a thoughtful and light mood and returned to my wife seeking her forgiveness and regretting the life I had wasted without ever trying to understand her. From that moment, love blessed our home with respect. We lived more joyously and no less so than my friend and his wife. * * * And so ends my nightmare, and I pray to Allah Almighty that every man will come to know the true worth of his wife and to put an end to the life that he has wasted with his mind and his heart away from her and their marriage. web page

and don't you hate it when it actually shows, face blushing red......... so embarassing. its true these feeelings saty with you for a life time .

That's true Cambaro, dating is hard work and if you want something you need to work for it, if dating is going to get us to the next step then why not? Xanthus, Internet is a bless and you get the chance of anonymity, you could share as much information as you like, but if you feel that something is not adding up , you can stop it there.

If you are single, and you tried and tried to be with someone and nothing seem to work, then wouldn't you try the internet. I know a lady who met her hubby through internet and they are happy now with a child. yeah Cambarro, dating is a no no for me as well, but how would you know someone if you don't date them. Xanthus, If you are still around in 5 years time I will let you know.

to tell you the truth, I have somehow find someone through this website....

Opheera had stayed indoors and been vigorously scrubbed for two hours every day to make sure her skin was perfectly soft and smooth. That is the best part of being a bride, I like their traditions.Sudani ladies, especially married one's are always glowing.

^^ that's why it wouldn't work for YOU, but it will work for someone else.....

^^ they are not crazy , they just trying to find their other half in modern way. It does work for some, but not for all. Beside, muslim ladies have limited chances to meet guys, so these websites are serving their cause and you don't have to post a photo....

How do you know????

Well there is this website www.somalina.com that offers the same service, but am not sure if it has the same success rates as the singlemuslim.com

yeah it is sunna to remove uwanted hair, but what about facial hair,hands, legs

^^^tell him please

Roobleh are you alright walal. and I thought that this was women issue, like women are supposed to be posting their own experiences with hair removal rituals. I remember back in Khaleej waxing was a big thing, but here you hardly ever hear girls talking about it.