^^ thanks sis You sound like you're too happy about the ex-lover coming back than the marriage. Is marriage that easy nowadays? It's not about that at all sis. I tried to see others, and no one could be compared to him, yeah for real. I tried to find what i lost in other guys. that's why am happy. and good guys are hard to find in UK.

^^^ a good technique , I will use it for sure ,thanks Scarlet

^^^^Thanks alot So, JUSTICE, the real question are: what did "he" know and when did he know it? And if he didn't know he was your first and only love, what number did he think he was? numero cinque? vingt-sept? well the thing is that am gonna surprise him and tell him that he is the only love I had and I missed so much. He was number one anyway

^ It's not that "he doesn't know" he's getting married, it is that he doesn't know he was her "first and only love". A little ambiguous, I know. That exactly what I meant, Well done Castro. U are a genius. And yes there was others but he was the first one, but we didn't get along before, so other guys were in the line, but he was always in my mind, and I alwys regreted every horrible thing I said and done to him. And I alwys wished that he will come back to me, alhamdullah , my wish became true. I can't sleep or think staright no more. Am soo happy my dream lover is coming back for me .........

Oh guys, this have to be a dream. Am getting married. I can't believe it. I thought I will never be , but hey I am, and he is my first and only love. but he doesn't know that. so should I tell him, or pretend that am not

I really mean it that a guy have to see my parents before he can talk to me. I tried this dating business, I didn't like it. Too many I love and and stuff , but with no action.

Justice wats ur address then. I'll give it to you if you're serious.

He can come to my house,and ask my father to mary me. That's how I would want to meet anyone.

Family ,Family ,Family It's all start from home. If you are from a dysfunctional home, then you are more likely to have a dysfunctional future. Why mothers and fathrs are not loving each other no more. when kids see their mom and dad they relate to them. IF the father is chewing all night and sleep all day and not concerned about his family, and the poor mom running around trying to fix and mend what is left of her family. Guys all I can see is that the most families in the somali community are going in to the point of nowhere. The problem that I've seen the most os that parents are not willing to spend money on their kids. they save the money so they can spend it back home , to build 100,000$ house that they not gonna live in !!!!!! This make me go mad..........

ok you wanna show your solidarity then show it, and then what's next..... can you control the situation, NO. Where are you now, In the west, not in Somalia, What our solidarity is gonna do. IT's really good to show that you love your country and that you will do and do. I always known people who would talk and wouldn't carry any actions, Somalis come at number one .

do you all know what really hurts about his topic,is the fact that this war, curruption is caused by the somali people themselves, a brother is killing his brother. So DEmonstrations are not going to solve anything...........who's attention do wanna catch with these demonstrations..........

am sorry to say this, but this war has been going for too long now. and what the demonstration are gonna do, what would we get out of it.....NOTHING Soryy to say this

You cannot condone injustice no matter whom, the demise and destruction of Somalia is just started by overlooking justice and tribal exploitation, laluush and squandering people’s money in the xaraam way, which derailed the government and turn people against each other. Somali problems become tradional and a custom of shooting at own foot and self-inflicting tendency. the Remedy is: just love thy Neighbour, and love each other, plus sharing the blessing of Allah and the land will yield more blessings and in abundance (INA). As your name implies(Justice) we are not expecting you less it's true brother ,and that's what am trying to get to , we can always start loving each other so we can become one, because ecnomically Somalialand cannot stand on it's own, it needs many resources... can you imagine that people can't get water and electricity to their homes. Imagine you built this massive huge house without water supplies and elctricity. and to ibtisam am not trying to downgrade your idea, if that what you think it's right then do it. Maybe cause my life is different, I still have my family to sort out so they can rely on themselves. what am trying to say is helping a palstenian means that you don't have anything that worry you anymore .

maybe i don't have any emotions for them, that's what it is. I can't help it

That was so funny, it shows how some need more education

Do you know what is is really bothering me sister, it's the whole idea of talking in the behalf of another nation who we only share the same religion.. Okay, I can talk in behalf of my somali nation since am somali.... once things get better for somalia , i will think about helping other nations... and charity always has to start from home

SORRY SIS am not disrepecting you or anything, but i wouldn't think twice about helping palastenians.. I know them, I've been neighbors with them, classmte, friend.. everthing. Plastenians are the clone of gews... That's what i think. Are you by any chance half somali half palestenian?

Have you seen the silky scarf that women presenters wear in dubai TV, they are really beautiful and suitable for summer. So for the girls who live in UK, have u ever came across one of them scarfs, i did once in welthamstow market, and i regret not buying it now.... so tell me if you got news for me cause am ready to go to all the markets in london to get these scrafs.....

WOW that's a miracle indeed. he must make good use of this knowledge when he groe older... but why german, why it wasn't english, french. Why ??? SUBXAN ALLAH

I wouldn't mind being with an ugly man. Cause the woman should stand out, and beauty doesn't add anything to a man as long as he smart and rolling on money.........

^^^^ that's 100% true cause when my mom is ill and no one is there( like me or my other sisters) my dad cooks for her.... I mean how romantic is that. That's why men and women should learn how to cook, cause it's a skill for life....

well didi I think your right in a way. If you don't understand the language then you wouldn't enjoy it. I do understand the language, and the music is superb, well the old songs and few new singers, omr diab is soooo not in my list he is like what you said..

I believe that cooking is an essential skill for both men and women, so you might not enjoy cooking today, but you have to learn how to cook. Not only for your man , but also for your self. Don't you fancy making a cake, or trying a new recipe.... that's how i did it and now all what I do now is cooking and cooking. I love it .............. havn't you heard about soul food. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

your right. It is so sad.... I always tell my self I will never do this to my mom and dad when they grow older, but how would I gurantee that I wouldn't live in another country in the future.. there are so many what ifs.

I GOT A SONG FOR YOU. I ALWAYS LOVED THIS SONG FOR FYROUZ (KEEFAK), THIS SONG SENDS ME TO ANOTHER PLANET ............. DON'T YOU THINK SO AND WHAT ABOUT NWAL AND FADL (AHAWEL) THIS SONG IS OUT OF THIS WORLD.................