Taqwa, I did not talk about having sex before getting married..so check yourself brother. We all know that to sleep with a guy that is not your husband is haram. PEace and luv

I for one would love to be my husbands first...but then again the thought of having a man that is good at what he is doing is tempting..but i would go for a virgin. I know he hasn;t sinned in that way, and he sees and undertands how great a sin zinnah is..and that is priceless! peace

If you are getting married to a guy would you prefer that he was sexually experienced or would you want him to be a virgin? As we all know sex before marriege is wrong..but when you are answering this question assume that the guy has repented from all his sins and is now a very sound muslim. PEace and luv

What are your opinions on female reputation? Its so easily ruined but yet so much depends on it. Let me know what y'all think. Peace

lol..that is funny!!

Hey I know how you feel...hang in there though its gonna be worth it at the end.

Hey I know how you feel...hang in there though its gonna be worth it at the end.

C/nuur If you are changing your life around then gacan baan kuu taagay..that takes alot of will power..may allah help you with your journey. The best feeling for me is knowing that everything i've done in my life is something that will not shame me on judgement day. And hoping My actions in my everday life are according to the teachings of the prophet SCW. And also knowing that someday I will pay my mother back for all she has done for me...insha alaah I will be able to.

Naasir..when I take you home? lol when did we reach that agreement? In my eyes everyone should be able to choose the person they want to spend the rest of their life with..its such a big decision it shouldn;t be made by anyone but you.

Finally someone who gets what i'm saying!! I know my mom will always love me no matter what i do...Even though i dont have a man to bring to my mom yet..if i did i wouldnt be scared to take him home. my question was intended to show ppl that parents are human and that they are not always right they make mistakes too. But you learn to love them even though they make mistakes and they arent the perfect beings we thougth they were when we were small. My mom and every parent out their expects thier children to be perfect in everthing they do. Anyway i guess i'm not making any sense.. Ayaanick iyo Hibo..hooyadeey aa u fafakanaysiin waa idiin jeedaa...haye waa lasoo dhigtay walaahi.. [This message has been edited by xafsa (edited 01-25-2002).] [This message has been edited by xafsa (edited 01-25-2002).]

War walaala yaaloow reer MSU waa waa sheen!!! Ari iyo cariish aa? Hibo iyo Ayaanick garabkiina alaha galo. Marki caruurta iyo ninkaba idinka jiradaan you know where to find me!! salaam [This message has been edited by xafsa (edited 01-25-2002).]

I go to Minnesota State University in Mankato ,MN. My major is biology and pre-med.

I go to Minnesota State University in Mankato ,MN. My major is biology and pre-med.

Ok everybody...where do you hope to be or where do you see yourself 15 years from now? What place what career? For me i see myself in somalia with like 8 kids a great husband. I'll be doctor up there with my own clinic helping my people. So my fellow nomads put your dreams here. salaam

Raula..i'm glad to here that you are in pre-med..to me its just such an exciting field to be in..There is a need for good qualified doctors back home. So what school do you go to..where do you live? I'm in minnesota. so hit me up with your 411. salaam [This message has been edited by xafsa (edited 01-23-2002).]

Raula..i'm glad to here that you are in pre-med..to me its just such an exciting field to be in..There is a need for good qualified doctors back home. So what school do you go to..where do you live? I'm in minnesota. so hit me up with your 411. salaam [This message has been edited by xafsa (edited 01-23-2002).]

lol...hibo...duq cambaro aa?

Lulla girl...walaahi waa iga fiicantahay!!! next to you girl waan isku qurmay..I should try your secrets girl. thanks..keep them coming.

Always happy to help a fellow somali sister. I'm doing premed and I hope to go to med school. But girl you don;t have to become a doctor to be in the medical field. There are all kinds other things to do like..biomedical research,medical technology, public health..adn the list continues. Anyway girl..you got to research what it is that makes you happy and at the sametime do good for your people. I wish you all the luck in the world. salaam.

Always happy to help a fellow somali sister. I'm doing premed and I hope to go to med school. But girl you don;t have to become a doctor to be in the medical field. There are all kinds other things to do like..biomedical research,medical technology, public health..adn the list continues. Anyway girl..you got to research what it is that makes you happy and at the sametime do good for your people. I wish you all the luck in the world. salaam.

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Girl i hardly spend anytime on myself...but every morning and night i wash my face with st.ives apricot scrub...to moisturize it in the witer i put olive oil on my face!! sounds strange but it works..it keeps my face smooth. Then theres the hair...thats not my field cause sometimes i just don't give a damn!! Sometimes i jell it and keep it curly other times i blow dry. Before i wash it though i put alot of oil(hot) in it so that it wont break from being so dry. Like i said...waxaan ku fakaday xijaabka...tintiyoo isku quruntay baan xijaab nab ku siinaa..and i'm done.

This topic is just for fun! Ladies what features,ideas must your dream man have? For me its a little trimmed beard...I think no matter how unattractive the man if he has one it would make him look so sexy!!! And then there is the hands...I hate hands on man that look like he never used them before!! All soft and smooth.i admit it helps if his hands aren't so rough..but i want to feel like he can use his hands when he has to. anyway ladies.....take it away!!!

thank you all for your thoughts. i know for a fact that what ever i do my parents will always be there for me. I dont have man to introduce to my parents yet...i have never done anything other than what my parents tell me to do. I'm just trying to see what all of you would do in a situation like that. thank you all agian..salaam

All your life you are expected to do this and be that and then you realize that what your parents want for you is not what you might want for yourself. Deep down inside you know this is not something that will make YOU happy..only your parents will be happy. This may sound like a bunch of mumbo jumbo to you guys but think about it... for example..you fall in love with a fairly descent guy but even as your talking about getting married you know your gonna have to fight to be with the man you want. But for the life of you don't know why their so against it. The kind of man you want is not the kind your parents would like you to want. So your stuck!! My question is do your parents really know best?! I'm at the point where i just wanna swear myself to a life of being single!! all i ask for in a man is that he practice his religion...pray daily..fast. I would appreciate your thoughts on this. salaam