alla sthml-lady xaasidsanaa...lol...str8 to the point. I normally use the line " i'm not trying to get into a realtionship right now..I need to concentrate on my books ..but i'll put you on the list for sure." peace and luv oh yeah I miss Ladyfatima too..I wonder where she went :confused: BArwaaqo we missed you too where have you been these days?

My dream job is working for either the UN or the WHO as an Epidemiologist. This would enable me to travel. The trick is finding a husband that is willing to travel with you...'cause y'all know I need my fix .

Originally posted by Buubto: Xafsa (an open girl with cool personality) Thank you girl.... you know I love all mu sister in here. Waryaa clown you be kissing people behind my back huh? waa noo talaa....to add insult to injury you gotta say that her lips are sweet. ok..its like that huh? :mad:

Mother! My best Friend by Muhammed Al Shareef Aseer ibn Jaabir narrates: Whenever people would come from Yemen, Umar would ask them, “Is Uways Al-Qaranee amongst you?” until, one year, he met Uways. He said, “Are you Uways Al-Qaranee?” He said, “Yes.” Umar continued, “From Muraad, then Qaran?” He said, “Yes.” Umar then asked, “Were you once afflicted with leprosy and your skin healed except for a dirham’s area?” Uways said, “Yes.” Umar finally asked, “Do you have a mother (that is alive)?” He said, “Yes.” Umar then said, “I heard the Messenger of Allah - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - say, "Uways ibn Aamir will come to you with the delegations from Yemen, from Muraad, then from Qaran. He was once afflicted with leprosy and his skin healed except for a dirham’s area. He has a mother, and he treats her kindly. If he was to ever swear by Allah (for something) Allah would fulfill his oath. If you can, request that he ask forgiveness for you.” Umar then requested from Uways, “Ask forgiveness for me.” And Uways Al-Qaranee did. Allah - Ta’ala - commanded us, And your Lord decreed that you should worship none but Him and that you be dutiful to your Parents. If one of them or both attain old age in your life, then do not say to them uff (a word of disrespect), nor shout at them, rather address them in terms of honour / And lower for them the wing of submission and humility through mercy. And say, “My Lord! Grant them Your Mercy as they brought me up when I was small.” [Qur'an - Al-Israa’ 17:23-24] Ad-Daylami collected from Al-Husayn ibn Ali, that the Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “If Allah knew any smaller than uff (tsk) to be disrespectful to parents, He would have decreed it to be Haram!” In Bukhari, a man came to the Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - seeking permission to go for Jihad. The Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - asked him, “Are your Parents alive?” He said, “Yes.” He - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “Perform Jihad (in you kind treatment) of them.” If someone came to you today and offered you a free lunch, what would be your response? No doubt you would smile, speak kindly to them, and reserve a special place in your heart for their memory. Why is it then that our parents receive only cold stares, harsh words and bitter treatment and they are who they are in our lives? For twenty or thirty years they fed us, clothed us, washed us, and showered their mercy on our soft skin. Their love for us never dies even if we do, love that goes even beyond us, to our children and even their children. Dear Brothers and Sisters, we all have parents – whether they are with us or not – and many have not understood the severity of their position in our lives and their right to be respected and revered. Today I want to remind you and I of the true position of our Parents, may Allah have mercy on them all. Birr Al-Waalidayn is a characteristic of the Mu’min. Al-Hasan Al Basree defined it saying, “Al-Birr is to obey the parents in everything that they ask so long as it is not to disobey Allah. Uqooq is to disown your parents, denying them all of your goodness.” By the Ijma’ of the Ulamaa’, being respectful and obedient to ones parents is Fard! Ibn Hazm said, “(Obeying ones parents) is Fard!” and he quoted the verse: And your Lord decreed that you should worship none but Him and that you be dutiful to your Parents. To better understand what is meant by Birr Al-Walidayn (kindness to parents), the scholars set the following conditions: · One: He should place the pleasure of his parents above the pleasure of anyone else, including himself and his wife and kids. Everyone. · Two: He should obey them in everything they command or forbid, whether it agrees with his desires or not, so long as they do not command the disobedience of Allah. · Three: He should present them with everything he feels they desire, whether they ask for it or not. He should present it with kindness and mercy, understanding – no matter what he does – his shortcomings in fulfilling the true kindness that his parents deserve. Allah’s love comes when our parents love us. And Allah’s anger comes when our parents are angry with us. Ibn Abbas raa said, “There are three things that will not be accepted if it’s mate is not fulfilled. (And he mentioned), Thank Me (Allah) and your Parents... [Qur'an - Luqmaan 31:14] Ibn Abbaas continued, “Thus whoever thanks Allah and is not thankful to his parents, Allah will not accept from him.” The Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “the Pleasure of Allah is from the pleasure of the parents, and the anger of Allah is from the anger of the parents.” Let us think about how many of us treat our parents. We shy away from them when they may need something. We never visit if we are away from them. In fact, many people dispose of their parents in retirement homes. And when an argument ignites between our parents and us, many of us shout at them as if we were arguing with our evilest enemy, May Allah protect us all. Compare this to those that came before us. Dhibyaan ibn Ali ath-Thowree (ra) used to travel with his mother to Makkah. There – in the scorching heat – he would dig a little pool and fill it with cool water. Then he would turn to his mother and say, “Ummi, sit in this water to cool yourself.” For many of us, our friends are more precious to us than our Mother and Father. Forgetful we are of the time a man came to the Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - and asked him who is more worthy of his dear companionship. He - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “your Mother!” The man asked again and again, and the Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - replied, “Your Mother! Your Mother!” Until on the fourth time he - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - said, “Your Father.” Today, when the common question is asked, “Who is your best friend?” How many people would say, “my Mother!” But this is how the question should be answered and implemented. What pleases our parents comes before everything, so long as it is not in disobedience of Allah. The scholars understood this and set the example for us. Haywah bin Shurayh (ra), one of the Imam’s of our Ummah, used to give classes in front of his home. During the class, his Mother would call him to feed the chickens. He would stand up, leave the Halaqah, and go feed the chickens. We all want Allah to accept from us, we would all like to enter Paradise. Look down – dear brothers and sisters - and you will find paradise at the feet of your mother. Narrated Ahmad and An-Nasaa’ee, from Mu’aawiyah ibn Jaahimah As-Sulamee: My father, Jaahimah (raa) went to the Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - and asked, “O Messenger of Allah, I would like to go out and fight for the sake of Allah, and I have come to you for advice.” The Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - asked him, “Is your Mother alive?” He said, “Yes.” “Then stay near her,” advised the Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam, “For at her feet is Jannah!” On the other side, making our Parents sad or even making them cry is one of the many ways to earn Allah’s anger. Imam Ahmad narrates, from Abdullah ibn ‘Amr ibn Al-Aas (raa): A man came to the Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - to give him his pledge of Allegiance. He said, “I have come to pledge allegiance to you for Hijrah! And I have left both my parents behind crying” The Prophet - Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam - commanded him, “Go back, and the same way that you made them cry, make them laugh.” Ibn Umar (raa) said, “Making ones parents cry is amongst the Uqooq, a major sin!” Shaykh al-Qaasim once said, “Subhaan Allah! How can we leave our parents sobbing, tears that the throne of Allah shakes for, tears that unsettle the Angels in the heavens, and then we claim that we want to go for Jihad so that Allah will be pleased with us? Go back and make them happy with your visit as you made them sad by your departure. If they laugh and are pleased with you, Allah will be pleased.” During the funeral of his mother, Al-Haarith Al-Aklee (ra) weeped. When asked for the reason of his tears he said, “Why should I not cry when one of my doors to Paradise has now closed?”

Originally posted by Darman: Waraa Shayshay.. you are not in my list.. laakinsa.. midoo xun oo Minneapolis joogto oo Xafsa la yiraahdu aa ayaantaan handadaaad darteed meel aan ka galu aan la'ahy .. laakinsa filinkeeda aan qarxina hadii ay isku kai waasho wa ogtahy nooh Ileen meeshaan anaa leeygu war haayay...waraa darman maa joogtid.....feer japan dacas la'aana kula dhici doonaa...joog. Besides somalidu waxeey ku maah maahdaa nin kuu digay kuma dilin....So I aint at fault here

By Andy Rooney "Stupid people should have to wear signs that just say, "I'm Stupid". That way you wouldn't rely on them, would you? You wouldn't ask them anything. It would be like, "Excuse me...oops...never mind, didn't see your sign." It's like before my wife and I moved. Our house was full of boxes and there was a U-Haul truck in our driveway. My neighbor comes over and says, "Hey, you moving?" "Nope. We just pack our stuff up once or twice a week to see how many boxes it takes. Here's your sign." A couple of months ago I went fishing with a buddy of mine, we pulled his boat into the dock, I lifted up this big ol'stringer of bass and this idiot on the dock goes, "Hey, y'all catch all them fish?" "Nope. Talked 'em into giving up. Here's your sign." I was watching one of those animal shows on the Discovery Channel. There was a guy inventing a shark bite suit. And there's only one way to test it. "Alright, Jimmy, you got that shark suit on, it looks good... They want you to jump into this pool of sharks, and you tell us if it hurts when they bite you." "Well, all right, but hold my sign. I don't wanna lose it." Last time I had a flat tire, I pulled my truck into one of those side-of-the-road gas stations. The attendant walks out, looks at my truck, looks at me, and I SWEAR he said, "Tire go flat?" I couldn't resist. I said, "Nope. I was driving around and those other three just swelled right up on me. Here's your sign." We were trying to sell our car about a year ago. A guy came over to the house and drove the car around for about 45 minutes. We get back to the house, he gets out of the car, reaches down and grabs the exhaust pipe, then says, "Darn that's hot!" See, if he'd been wearing his sign, I could have stopped him. I learned to drive an 18-wheeler in my days of adventure. Wouldn't you know, I misjudged the height of a bridge. The truck got stuck and I couldn't get it out, no matter how I tried. I radioed in for help and eventually a local cop shows up to take the report. He went through his basic questioning ...okay...no problem. I thought for sure he was clear of needing a sign...until he asked, "So, is your truck stuck?" I couldn't help myself! I looked at him, looked back at the rig and then back to him and said, "No, I'm delivering a bridge...here's your sign." I stayed late at work one night and a co-worker looked at me and said, "Are you still here?" I replied, "No. I left about 10 minutes ago. Here's your sign." Anybody you know need a sign today? Send this to all your friends. The next time someone says something stupid, ask them where their sign is.

Silent sistah I feel you..I must've bored out of my mind for me to come to the teen section..oh well. Why y'all being so hard on the brotha? All he did was express his Appreciation for 2 nomads. Kharaarka iska daaya nooh Don't hate Congratulate!

Silent sistah I feel you..I must've bored out of my mind for me to come to the teen section..oh well. Why y'all being so hard on the brotha? All he did was express his Appreciation for 2 nomads. Kharaarka iska daaya nooh Don't hate Congratulate!

Silent sistah I feel you..I must've bored out of my mind for me to come to the teen section..oh well. Why y'all being so hard on the brotha? All he did was express his Appreciation for 2 nomads. Kharaarka iska daaya nooh Don't hate Congratulate!

Silent sistah I feel you..I must've bored out of my mind for me to come to the teen section..oh well. Why y'all being so hard on the brotha? All he did was express his Appreciation for 2 nomads. Kharaarka iska daaya nooh Don't hate Congratulate!

Originally posted by kisha: Yo i'll reather have some off that chicken chests and insect legs that i can brake, then a built men that would brake me everytime i'll piss him off na mean! I'd like to see either one of them try to lay a hand on me...I think silent sistah mentioned this in another post....God created objects and they even things out. He got his fists I got my sambuus frying pan...so bring it on. Entrepreneur --- Oo hadda ma naag cadaanaa i shukaansatay baad ku faanee? war anaa ku maqlee yaa lugu maqlin..bisinka My somali brothas..all that we ask is that you put a little effort into your bodies...if you expect us to look good..then you gotta return the fava....And we all know somali girls in ay kala xiran yihiin...so don't even go there. peace and luv

^^^^ lol..your joking right? "Most of the world would pay millions to have the body of the somali man?" who have you been talking to? On a more serious note...although a well built man with a big chest and large biceps would be nice...(sigh)....we just have to work with what we got. But not all somali brothas have chicken chests and insect legs...I;ve seen some sexy brothas with six packs and nice pectural....but these creatures are hard to find in our breed. peace and luv

Don't even mention credit cards around me...I have a love hate realtionship with that little plastic thing. I'm in the process of paying it off right now and its really putting a dent in my bank account...ouch...I should have known all that spending I did in college would come back to bite me in the a$$. But enough of the drama...If I could do it all over again I would max out my credit card at....thats a trick question right...I'm a female I can't stick to just one store....Its like asking a brotha to stop staring at other women....its just impossible.... ( I just had to slip that in :rolleyes: ...sorry guys all this war of the genders thing thats been going on here lately has just gotton to me..thats all ) Peace and luv

I think I just found a new love....the brotha is talented...dang...thank you all for sharing that web page. peace and luv

Silent sistah...nice to meet you... sheyhem...29 aa? bisinka...by 29 if I haven't found anyone then waa is ka fariisan lahaa.... peace and luv

Silent sistah thanks for keeping him in check...he tends to stray sometimes....clown come on boo focus....Only one girl at a time...ok? peace and luv

I found out on friday that the girl is indeed somali and that she was living alone...They posted her picture all over the somali malls to see if anyone would recognize her. They said the girl was being treated for deppression and Schizophrenia....One of her friends is saying she thinks it might be suicide...but who really know except allah. Like all of you said its dangerous living...for more than just the obvious reasons....its important to maintain human contact. Its depressing coming home to a dark empty home everynight...at first you might enjoy the freedom...but after awhile it gets to you...you gotta have family and friends around you. I'm not saying everyone who lives alone gets depressed...you just have to learn to balance things and make sure you have human contact beyond just work and school...after all we are social creatures. Anyways i'm rambling too much....gabadha alaha u naxariisto...aamiin yaa rab peace and luv

Originally posted by Shyhem: xafsa very mature and cool personality Thank you..I was thinking the same thing about you... you know I got a crush on your personality By the way this is xafsa...I just changed my name thats all.... peace and luv

Did you guys here about the body of the muslim girl that was found in the minnesota river? She was wearing a hijab so they don't know if she's somali or oromo. What shocks me the most is the fact that nobody reported her missing....she lived alone and I'm assuming her family is not here or they would have missed her. modesty I read your post about that somali guy thats stalking you...you better becareful....there are some real scary people out there. peace and luv

og moti thats so sweet...thank you for wanting to meet me... here's my list: og-moti shyhem underdog-he's strange..in a good way kool-kat somalien thats all folks peace and luv

shyhem...horta naagaha maxaa lagaa siistaa? Naag this...somali females that...war nin yahow maa joogtid somealien happy b-day....20 aint all that bad....I was excited when I turned 20 and 21...now the excitement is kinda wearing off :rolleyes: peace and luv

Wlc proud son.....Its nice to see new member make their home here. peace and luv

shyhem....didn't mean to shock you there...just being honest....thats all....

Originally posted by Shyhem: 5-I love children and i won't mind turning u into a factory,hey we got try to break that record,we can't let the neigbours have 9 kids while we have two,remember we ain't losers. shyhem....you seem to have answered the question very well..good job...now....I like your ad and i'm willing to buy....so...how about I have my people contact your people? Of if you like we can meet and come to a mutual agreement... peace and luv.

Og-moti ...lug iyo gacan baan kuu taagay!!1 You got talent....but what I wanna know is how come you didn't cast me in a movie? How do you expect any of your movies to sell if you aint got the fly sistah making an entrance? peace and luv