Batuulo that was amazing...thank you hon.

Mobb deep.....waa caytamee walaahi...dagaal maa rabtaa. In most cases your probably right....but halle barry aint got nothin' on me! Or any other somali girl.

^^^ really...you got someone already huh. I'm happy for you. Me.....I would get married after I find a half way decent brotha. Thats the challenge right there

I think most men don;t really understand how almost impossible it is to marry more than one wife. You have to be able to treat all of them EXACTLY the same. Being human I don't think thats really possible..do you? But If my husband wanted more than just me...I would ask for a divorce.

what is this talk about ugly? Og-girl...I think thats your way of rubbing in your beauty...I am on to you

Damn I miss DC....and VA and MD...My home states!! Thanks for that King.

Og-girl..your right but there are 21 yr old guys who are mature for their age.

^^^ cute brothas on SOL?!!! All the cute SOL brothas over the age of 21 drop me a line

Og-girl..you were laughing at me when I said maryamah? :mad: its ok I'll get you for that But thanks for reminding me why i could never manage to learn arabic. Stpaulchick--thanks hon

^^^ so its not the arabic version? So your name is mariam? and not maryamah? The difference is? :confused:

Og girl ..you rname is maryamah? I Love that name..I'm gonna name one of my daughters that insha-alaah. Jam master---thank you walaal. I like my name too To be named after such an amazing women is an honor.

Originally posted by MALAIKA: wow ..that was beautiful flying-still .......now am proud of my black skin.. .. A.A you should be proud of your skin hon...

^^^ finally...you are correct my brotha!!! I thought for sure og-girl would get it right.

^^^^ nope... The 2nd clue was that its the name of the first shadiidah during the prophets (scw) time.

^^^ cab drivers do need love. All you educated brothas are too busy getting educated hardly leaves room for us sisters. So we gotta work with what we got.

Originally posted by OG_Girl: [QBflying still, in Arabic there is alot of words means superior . ur name could be Asma, Fakherah, Rafe'ah. that what I can think about it now [/QB] I gave a 2nd clue

thank you so much walaal...that was really informative and clear.

Ins-poet...thank you so much for the reminder. We all need to ask ourselves what it is that we can do for our beloved country.

kool=kat and nafta thanks for the votes.

My name in arabic means superior one. Its also the name of the first shahiida during the prophets time. And I must say it fits be very nicely

thank you all for replying...all your replies were very interesting. Nur...thank you for explaining what Zindiiq meant. The concept of what a muslim is that I grew up with was very strict.....I personally don't believe that islam was meant to be a hardship placed upon us...but a blessing. Thats why I asked this question. How many people do we have for that Aqeedah class? Just me and Tamina?

^^^ walaahi?!! You got jokes saaxiib.

^^^^^what 5 questions?

heeheehee...walaahi qosolkaa iga dhameeysay. So you don't need my permission to mention my name? huh? That thing about me getting married is a joke...I was just messing with wiilo AKA mizz-unique.

We all know that abortion is haram and that sex is also haram...that hasn't stopped anyone from engaging in either one. So what we need to do is find out a way that we can drive the point home to these lost children. Its already an established fact that the more the parents say no the more the kids will want it. To tell you the truth the way somali parents address sex is wrong....its like a big taboo...what they need to realize is that their kids will be faced with millions of chances to have sex and just saying that its haram is not gonna stop them. They need to have an open discussion about sex and the out comes...and at least try to EXPLAIN rather than ordering them. The only thing girls are told is that no man wants to marry a non-virgin and that she will bring shame to the family. Thats my 2 cents Peace and luv