^^^ girl i feel for you. My best bet is to take Aleve as soon as I start to feel the cramps coming on. I'm telling you aleve works wonders!! I'm not really a home remedy type of girl so the xabadsoodaa and the filfil thing doesn't work for me. Just aleve, a heat pack on my lower tummy, and lots of sleep...alxamdulilaah that has worked for me. my cramps are managable....but My sister ends up trowing up and crying herself to sleep...so luck try the aleve hon it works for her too.

Lucky and angeleyes----I feel y'all. I put my chapstick on every 2min...If I don't have it I can't finction. One day I lost it on my way to work and I had no time to go buy one so I called afriend of mine to bring one ASAP! Man was that a relief! The other thing is my powder...my face gets really oily so I need to powder it down a bit.

didn't come up with the jokes...I have skills in finding them.......which isn't really a skill......darn it!!! It sounded nice when i was typing it

I'm sorry walaal I should have giver you my feedback right away. This article touches on the essence of islam...alot of times we put so much emphasis on the orders instead of the heart of islam itself...which or coarse is the belief in one god. Once you have that down then everything else shall follow. What I really got from this artcle is that we as muslims take the shahaada too lightly...we say the words " ther is no god but god" but we don't really understand the meaning and the duties that come with that. This reminds me of an argument I had with my mom when I was 10, I was trying to say that I can still believe in allah with out having to actually obey his orders...that the two had nothing to do with each other. I told her that I believe she exists and that she is my only mother but that doesn't automatically mean I will obey her. ( I was so chidish). Anyways...after along discussion my mom explained to me that you can't really believe and love allah with out also believing in his word. I think I went off track....anyways Nur brother...your article made perfect sense...masha alaah you have a way of simplifying things. Thanky you for that. About my Tagline---I'm glad you understand...some people mistake it for being an attack on men. Salaam

glad to see I ain the only one...I've been tricked into that webpage since 1999...thats a shame really.

^^^ I know what you mean...There are lot more people here than before...which is nice. We started several topics about you...we thought you got married and had kids!!

Captivating soul---valley fair is childs play? That goes to show you just how much of a fulay I am. Asraa--- I would love to go with you...but your gonna have to check up on me...make sure I don't loose my mind and run off..ok?

Originally posted by underdog: Flying, the suave value is very easy to miss when its not directed at you. But, make no mistake about it's existence. I'd probably have to prove it you and show you how smooth I really am by treating you to some pure unadulterated romance.....but in respect to your feminist manifesto that frowns on such activities, I may have to save the debonair for someone who won't think it's a trap That must be it....darn it!! I missed out on the romance....c'mon one more chance Maybe I should rethink my feminist views huh? Maybe all men aren't out to cut off my leg...hmmm I'll run with that train of thought and see where it leads me

I always get sucked in like that...when will I ever learn ?!!!! :rolleyes:

^^^^^ ku laabta aa? war maa joogtid...haye markaan oohin caadi ah aa kaa imaandoonto!!1 I'm still scared to valleyfair...I aint trying to die of a heart attack!!!

Looool.... Can't wait to have kids....

Originally posted by MIZZ-UNIQUE: Malaika ofcource we gota teach her how to do it or else she would feel left out when we Niiko Niiko around her .........Xafsa now tell me who the Wiilo is ....Wiilo knows how to niiko ......am starting to feel like am not the Wiilo type anymore and gues who is filling the empty seat that i left Malaikah--- Girl I need those classes...but you'll have your hands full...my behind is stiff as heeell!! Naayaa Mizz unique---anaa wiilo ah miyaa? walaahi...thats not what mr Dejabouti thinks MMA---loool...you are non stop...I would love to see you actually move to that...thats gotta be a site

Originally posted by OG_Moti: Nin yaaban dhaqan beeel, jeel jire .. dhaqan uun baad sheegtaa, oo hadaad dhaqanka sidaa ujeceshahay maxaa kuyaabiyey, war ileen tanookale .. nin yaaban waa nin wareersan, nin wareersan waa nin dhibaaateesan, alaha ku caawiyo brother .. dhaqan buu yiri dhaqan beel peace loool...lool you got jokes. Ameenah---well said sis!!

Hold up let me rub my eyes....is that really lady fatima? Girl where have you been?

Originally posted by G0ldenchild: LOL som what religious huh, ok! not all the way but some what relgious girls just don't know what they want Confused individuals [/QB] Confused? me? I'm trying to be alittle flexible here...so some people may actually have a chance!! I really don't mind if the brotha is religious...but who am I to know exactly how " religious" he is?

Raxmah thank you sis. That article was really needed. May allah reward you for that. Salaam

^^^ exactly...if the men are all skinny..somebody gotta have meat on their bones. Haddi kale theres gonna be friction....think about

Originally posted by underdog: Flying-Still: Bullseye??? me??? No way!!! I wouldn't do that. You might make me feel guilty and that I have to make it up to you some way or the other. 416 is "prefered". I know secluded, romantic spots all across the GTA. I'd be a tourist if I ventured outside those borders and that diminishes my Suave value. No need to feel guilty....I can take it...I'm grown a$$ women and a feminist at that..remember 416 prefered huh? You can't just stick to your comfort zone you know... live and learn...thats what life is all about. Sauve value? must've missed that quality...my bad

wlc back loyan..i've been here a while used to be known as Xafsa. things are done a bit more different now...you'll get used to it. peace and luv

I have no problem with paying... but i've seen alot of brothas who feel all manly and in control when they pay....and I have no problems with that.

Originally posted by king_450: Since i have joined the SOL, i hear about ,how misfortune are the sisters who live in minnesot.specially when it comes to the "Men". are Somali men in the state that dump. I am sorry but i am about to bag and move to minnesota. Watch out Washingtonians are moving in. they aren't dumb...their just...how should I put this.....pre-occupied with ballin' and pimpin'. but we will wlc you with open arms.

Flamboyant---I'm glad you decided to join us...we are all a big family here....and we alway wlc new comers. SO make yourself at home..don't be shy. peace and luv

^^^ lool...good answer Instinct poet---faanka iska daa adi.... I go with captivating soul's list...except I would add..some what religious.

^^^I got skills

Originally posted by MIZZ-UNIQUE: I go to Free Kick boxing class every wednesday and thursday.......XAFSA tapes aa ...heheheeh Naayaa qosol aa kaa soo haray...Now me using tapes is funny to you?...I'm coming down next semester anaa edeb kuu yeeli doono...isug lee yaah Raxmah---lool...ka qaleey nooh.