Xafsa

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  1. Xafsa

    Somali

    Originally posted by CLOWN: Flying-Still, Waa laga Qeyliyey Noo, laakiin fiiri adiga aniga maa rabtaa inaad Carabka Muruq iga Geliso waa ogtahay inaa Af-Soomaaligaan aan isku wareereeno maxaa iigu jilcin weese? Mise waxaa iska Jeceshahay inaa mar walba ku tuug tuugo oo aan ku dhaho Macaaneey ii sharax kan iyo Kaas? Adiga inaa igu Baashaasho aa iska jeceshahay haye, xaasid aa tahay! you know I love you... BAtuulo---Thank you hon those were beautiful....I love Sayid max'ed.
  2. Xafsa

    Sea Barriers

    Lucky thanks for sharing that hon. Subaxaana alaah.
  3. ^^^^ That actually made sense!
  4. Originally posted by harmonyangel: I can honestly say NO. My mom is a great lady, very nice, but we are completely different. I dont think nor act the way she does, and we have different dimensions on life. These are mostly brought by the differences in our lives. I have mainly grown up in Europe whereas she is from the "old school" back home. Even though she has give me the values of religion, morals, etc, I still wouldn't choose her method of bringing up children. And yet, I still love her As for my dad :rolleyes: (Nuff said) I agree with you...I feel the same way about my mom. She did alot for me raised my well. But we have different views on life. I will still pass down the morals and lessons she taught me...but I would change of alot of other things.But the thing is will be able to go ahead with the changes? I know my mom felt the sameway about her mom....she was doing fine raising us different from the way she was raised then bam!! she changes. She did a 180 degrees and went back to the old school way...which we know is not very favorable on women/girls. So do you think you can stick to your plan Harmony?
  5. Nefertiti-- I love your signature...thats so true. At that moment I was thinking about how satisfying it was to pop the middle bubble last. I have this thing about doing things in order...I'm like Monica in the show Friends. Athen maybe if you put the whip down just for a minute you can concentrate.
  6. How I missed this topic..I don't know. I think the whole problem stems from the fact that women don't think that what they do at home has any importance. The truth is no man on the face of this earth can do what we do at home. Taking care of the kids, the house the husband...thats alot to deal with. We can survive in the men's world but they can't survive in ours...thats just a fact. I don't think that a women who goes out and gets a career is better than a women who stays at home...its just a matter of personal choice. Raising those kids could be the most imortant thing you will ever do in your life...thats just something we need to keep in mind. These western countries are built so that you have to choose between a career and a family? Why should I have to choose? Why can't I have both and succeed at both of them? It is true that alot of somali men are stuck in the dark ages...but make no mistake that has nothing to do with religion. Like someone mentioned before..the prophet (SCW) used to help his wives with the house work. It just all depends on how comfortable you are with your manhood...washing the dishes is not a threat to that man hood. We all need to realize that marriege is a partnership...you make decisions based on what is good for the family unit not the individual. The woman in that article needs to sit down and think about this " european culture" she keeps raving about.
  7. ^^^ something big? we shall see what is to unfold.
  8. Kaafi and Scorpion sister---congrats! Safia is a beautiful name..insha alaah I will name one of my daughters that. I also love Kaafi---thats gotta go down in my book of "names for my future sons" Anyways good luck you two....1luv
  9. Originally posted by JamaaL-11: Naa ii akhri warqada adaan far ku geliyee By Sangub himself .. LoL looool I remember that one.
  10. Walaahi soomalida qac waaye. There is this friend of mine at work...if he calls me and I want to say call me back I say " war caawa isoo geli" And being the guy that he is he translated it the wrong way....Naa yaa lagula yaabin kulahaa. Naag weeyn oo leh war isoo geli intee lagu arkay. This also reminds me of a story a friend of mine told: It happend between nin reer waqooyi ah iyo koo iska reer xamar ah. Kii reer xamrka ahaa baa soo galay dukaan uu leeyahay mid reer waqooyi ah markaas wuxuu yiri " war nin yahaw xalwo aan rabaa" Kii reer waqooyiha ahaa " xalwo? Xalwo yaa ku baray? Reer xamar: xalwo yaa ku baray xeey tahay? War xalwo anaa aqaan ee keen adi. Waqooyi: war dee xalwo intee ku baratay baan kuu idhi. Reer xamar: xalwaa? xalwo xalaa cunay nooh...xalay dhan aa dhuuq dhuuqaayay. Ar xalwo saan u cuno lee hadda arki laheeyd. Translation.... ninka reer waqooyiga ah naagtiisa aa xalwo la dhahaa...kalmada Cunid reer waqooyiga wax kale beey u yaqaanaan/. Kii reer waqooyiga ah wuxuu is yiri ninkaan baa xalay dhan naagtaada la baashaalaayay. When I say reer xamar I don't mean reer xamarka cad cad.
  11. Lucky--exactly my point. The basic morals we learned from our parents will be passed down to our kids. We just may end up changing just the minor things. Imperial lady- I agree there are two aspects to this ...the genetics of it all and the learned behaviors. Magnoona- I know what you mean. My mom tells me she sees herself in me and that scares the sh!t out of her. So she tries to teach me what she has learned since she was my age so that I won't make the same mistakes she made. But I try to explain to her that I can't learn from her mistakes I gotta make my own. My mistakes have a more lasting effect on me. So the lessons stick with me longer. Where are our nomad brothers...don't they have something to say about this?
  12. I just came across this article. Do you guys think what their doing is called for. Do you think somalia is going to face an AIDS epidemic if they don't take action now? SOMALIA: First-ever AIDS awareness campaign NAIROBI, 16 Jul 2002 (IRIN) - A group of campaigners against HIV/AIDS in Somalia, called AIDSOM, last week held the country's first ever public awareness demonstration in the coastal town of Marka, south of Mogadishu. Riding in trucks draped with banners carrying Somali slogans such as “AIDS is real, don't ignore it”, and "get a blood test before marriage, the group of young men drove through the streets spreading their message over loudspeakers, one of the campaigners told IRIN. "We did not experience any harassment and were mostly welcomed by the local population", said AIDSOM head Abdullahi Jama Hassan. However, he acknowledged that in some places the campaigners were forced to leave the area. "It is going to be very difficult to convince Somalis, but we are going to try," he said. Abdullahi explained that there was very little awareness of HIV/AIDS in Marka, as elsewhere in Somalia. "Our biggest problem, since we started this last year, has been ignorance, mixed with denial of the disease", he said. "People, even educated ones are likely to say - This disease can not happen here." There is very little information available on HIV/AIDS in Somalia, as the war-ravaged country was left without an effective administration or health service after the collapse of the central government in 1991. Abdullahi told IRIN Marka seems to be more open than most places in Somalia. During the group's three-day campaign, civil society groups, religious leaders, women's groups and youth groups were encouraged to become involved. "In some areas it would be next to impossible to bring together these groups to discuss openly AIDS," he pointed out. AIDSOM was first started in Mogadishu in June last year by a group of "like-minded" young people, whose lives were touched by AIDS, he said. "In my case I lost two very close relatives to HIV/AIDS, that is why I am involved," he said. "I know it is real and it kills." Abdullahi added that AIDSOM organisers would continue with their campaign throughout the country before the disease spreads, because, he said, people did not understand the dangers. He said AIDSOM had not received any assistance from aid agencies working in the country. "We would like to appeal to the UN agencies and other agencies to help with the awareness campaign," he said.
  13. ^^^^ well said BArwaaqo Couldn't have said it any better.
  14. lol Og moti. waraa adi naga daa hadde. I would like to thank you for the picture of will smith though....
  15. loool @ underdog. War waa luguu raaxeeyay ee maxaa rabtaa? joking
  16. you know I lived in VA for mos of my life and I never went to go see the white house...I should do that someday.
  17. ^^^^^yeah I heard that they caught the murdering mothaF^^^^. They should let me at him. War wadankeeni yaa nabad ka dhiga.
  18. I think deep down inside he must've known that something wasn't right. If you spend time with a person for the past 2 years you should know whether or not they are being honest...at least thats the way I see it. Its wrong to think that only guys cheat...we females have just as many cheaters in our ranks as males. But it takes a real man and a real women to stay loyal and true. lool @ athena's whip...Athen I knew there was something strange about you
  19. looooooooooooooool....ar kan ciyaal suuqsanaa. waraa isku xishoo.
  20. Originally posted by somealien: the 1st couple of hours id prolly be laughin at myself. i dont wanna sound crude, but i dont know how men take themselves seriously with that thing jangling between their legs all the time. looooooool. I feel you on that.
  21. Originally posted by CLOWN: quote:Originally posted by flying-still: full mail boxes? Mine aint full...I made sure I cleand it out yesterday. **^^^Luuq luuq marow laasin laa'migoo imaanaa Clown c'mon now...you actually believe I have eyes or anyone else but you? huh?
  22. AQUA* Your feelings change suddenly and easily. You are always lonely, and like traveling. You are truthful, but listen and believe other people too easily. It's hard to find love for you, and get lost in love easily, Sometimes get hurt by love That does not describe me at all!!! If anything i;m the complete opposite.
  23. Xafsa

    Somali

    Originally posted by MIZZ-UNIQUE: huwaneyso baroo , barkaneyso qaro igu beerdilacsee and it goes on and on...now help me out with the singers name please Isn;t that the song " Balad weeyn" by hassan aadan samatar.
  24. Silent sistah...loool.I', not being selfish... How about I let you borrow him for a month and if you like him we can talk about the price? See you get a free 1 month trial