Ar kan xuu dad isku diray!!!

I have often said we somali women are the most fortunate women in the islamic world. Thats not to say that somali men don't have their faults.....but relatively speaking we can't really complain. Its sad that people are using islam as an excuse to take a life!....but Allah will take care of his religion. I remember watching a report on 60 minutes a few years back and they were talking to this Jordanian guy about the death of his sister. HE said he shot his sister in the head before the whole family 'cause she was raped and was not "pure" anymore. HE was asked if he felt any remorse for killing his sister...his answer was no because he saved his family the agony of knowing that their daughter wasn't a virgin anymore....he said a girl has no value if she looses her virginity before her wedding night! 1luv

Originally posted by runaway^virgin: Strawberries and Champagne...from Victoria's secret's Garden Yummmmmm That scent is the best!!!! damn....brings back memories!!!! Now I use heveanly angel by victoria secrets.

Juxaa and barwaaqo------lol.....me ungreatful? nooooo!! unpossible!!! Haddaa xaar ii qastid waa cunaa juxa...you know that lol....mujaahid....naa barwaaqo wiilka adi xayeeysii maa lugu yiri?...wiilka noo qari intaan idinka soo gaaraayo....

When I say bind women together I don't mean against men. Its a well known fact that women hat on other women....if we can just get beyound that and see that we are all the same then I think we can reach our goals of being seen as productive memebers of any society. The whole divide and conquer perspective is a tactic most often used by men....not all men thought....just those lost souls looking to make themselves feel better. Her is one question for you underdog and all the other males......when it comes to picking a potential partner do you go for the educated, succeful woman that if need be can take care of her self and her family. Or the traditional woman who is looking for a man to take care of her in everyway....and is not capable of doing things for herself outside of the home?

Here is a question for the guys....why are you so threatened by the whole concept of a women trying to better herself in everyway? The thing is the whole feminist agenda has been twisted and turned to make it seem like its about men. It isn't....its about equal rights, and respect....and both these things can be reached by women and having them ralize their own potential and binding all women kind together. And not but bashing men....and thinking that we don't need them....those are the lost souls. I agree with somalien...not everyone who is "muslim" acts accordingly. We all know the Islam has given us rights....but these rights don't realy mean anything unless they are practiced. Ya feel me? anyhow i'm getting a brain cramp...I gotta go. 1luv

^^^ thats what I want to know!! Mr Mill: Are you saying that in order for a someone to get married they have to worry about the wordly aspect of it more than the AAkhiro part? You do realize that marriege is half your Iman?

juxa and barwaaqo....you know what they say ...talk is cheap. Markaan imaado lee la'arkaa! Juxa---I don't care what you cook as long as there is no hint of hilib ari in it...haddii kale waa dagaal!! BArwaaqo: ya xaa tiri? Mujaahid the cutest wadaad ever aa? Now there is another reason to visit london.....

The name of ****** brings opportunities for success in business and financial accumulation. It fires you with ambition and promotional ideas, ideas that are original, progressive, and large-scale. With this name, success to you is a foregone conclusion, for you cannot conceive any reason for not reaching all your goals, as you have self-sufficiency, supreme confidence, boundless energy, and enthusiasm. As long as you have a sense of freedom from monotony and drudgery, and can see progress being made, you feel buoyant and optimistic. However, obstacles and frustration can give rise to feelings of impatience, intolerance, and depression. The ever-present desire to progress does not allow you proper relaxation or the proper expression of the softer feminine qualities of sympathy, encouragement, and affection. Others see you as rather shrewd and calculating. Looool....The whole bottom part is true!! ar wuxuu underdog sheegaaya ahaa?....softer feminine qualities kulahaa!

I didn't know there were so many london folk!! Libaax--- You used your moderator status to your advantage huh? Maskiinto anoo kala ah hadeey imaato ma lasoo dhaweeynaa reer london?

There are some things in this article that made some sense. We women have yet to learn to balance a career and children. The mistake that is made often times is that having children or getting married is going to complicate things....but thats another topic for another time. Addressing that "fact" that women don't need sex....all I can do is laugh!!! One thing I've noticed is that men don't really understand what faminism is all about...I men true femenism...not the " don't open the door for me I can do it myself" type. But the type that is really trying to make the women themselves realize that there is nothing they can't do for themselves. Its all about educating the females and not "hating" men! True feminist realize that men and women DO need each other....their union is the foundation of life on earth...with out it where would the human race be today? The way I see it there aren't alot feminst in this world....just wanna bes that have lost their way. I don't understand where the movie in the article comes to play in all of this? :confused: 1luv

This should come as no surprise to us...did we not know this already? America is the ***** of israel....but nothing is more powerful than the will of Allah. We muslims need to wake up and realize that if we don't help ourselves then no one will!

^^^ are those books found in any general bookstore?

^^ wlc back hon! Thought you decided to boycott us.

Originally posted by Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar: [QB #3: Yaakhee maya idinka maahin nooh rabshada dhan waxay ka socotaa ninka bidaarta leh oo meeshaan intii noogu soo galo maalin kasto oo hadaneh baxaayo markii u maleeno inaas baxay hadaneh soo noqohaayo ilaa candhuuf eber aas nooga dhigo, kaasaa u dhaarsanahay, kalabka hasoo noqdo lee mar kale haddii inta hore ka bedeli waayi waa isku joognaa oo candhuufta ku celi waayi wec-elka..." _________________ Macsalaama. [/QB] loooool...AR kanaaa!!!!!!! CAndhuuf eber ah kumalahoo...loooooool

^^^ thats not the point. The point is do you eat donkey meat?

Aamiin. Thank you muraad walaahl for that, sometimes we just need a reminder.

Originally posted by Continental Batchelor: she launched a stinging attack on Islam, a religion she herself has rejected, Calling Islam a 'backward' religion 'the unacceptable side of Islam' She explained: 'Sexual abuse in the family causes the most pain because the trust is violated on all levels. The father or the uncle say nothing, nor do the mother and the sisters. It happens regularly - the incest, the beatings, the abortions. Girls commit suicide. But no one says anything. And social workers are sworn to professional secrecy.' Opinionated---The woman is clearly attaching the religion itself and not the way it is practiced...Calling Islam a backwards religion?...c'mon you can't ignore that. SExual abuse in the family?...I can't but think that that was her own personal experience in a neurotic family.

Originally posted by Lakkad: FS--we gettin a lil shakki on the weight we have eh>? loool....that happens about once a month all that water retention and bloating :mad: Juxaa....macaanto I agree with you somali females don't look good when they're skinny. And no matter what teh guys say...they still want a female with curves. But what I don't understand is where this thing with big chest came from?.....RUDY 34D? Yaa neefta ku celinee adi?!!

Consistent Companion By and large, you're a giving and thoughtful pal. Occasionally, however, you put your interests first and your friends' interests second. That's appropriate some of the time -- the question is: How often are you really there for your friends? Read on and see how you could be an even better friend, in bad times as well as good.

I agree with you 100% Nur. loveing allah and being loved by his is our goal in life...and as you said this involves following his word and in aad ka cibro qaadatid calaamaadkiisa. With that being said don't you think that loving allah will cause you to love someone for the sake of allah? I don't think someone who doesn't love allah can really truely love another human being. What do you think?

Originally posted by Lucky: What do you think? What do you suppose is an ideaL body? Me? People have different body types..it all depends on the person's bone structure. A person with large frame can be 140 or above with out being fat....where as some one with a small frame will lookbulky. but ideally A person should be healthy looking, no extra meat hanging out from the sides or any other place. Diam. princess hon confidence is everything!!Girl I used to hate my hips and my booty!!! I would work out like a mad woman...but still my booty and hips are in tact!! Now i've learned to appreciate my curves.....and my child bearing hips!!

Ar kan maxuu hater yahay! War kharaarka iska daa saaxiib. If you had half these qualities then you would be praising the woman....instead of talking trash!

looool....maxaa saas indiin diiday? Ar maxaan ninkeeyga ka ooysiin doonaa!!

That was very well put....hats off to the sister. As shaqsi said...it goes both ways...we all need the same thing.