Xafsa

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  1. lol...its like they're putting me on display. I should be labled showcase number one. Either i'm gonna join all the people down on the floor having fum or I aint having no wedding. I'm gonna sit there while all the xaliimo's and Xaawo's dance and sing?...heeell nooo!! I would prefer traveling.....but Dawaco I'm not trying to get off the topic...I don't see weddings as fun at all....maybe 'cause I never been to one!
  2. Originally posted by Nur: Question: The above set of believes, what action do they trigger in out behaviour: Believe in Allah being the SOLE Ilaah ( Which we defined as the leader, caring and loving, sovreign lawmaker" what will the belief in these attributes change in our behaviour? Belief in Angels. that they are asssigned to record our deeds Belief in the sctiptures in general and Quran in particular as a code of life Belief in Messengers in general and Muhammad SAWS in particular as a teacher, guide, mercy and a model to emulate The Qader, and the fact that Allah has accounted and calculated everything so that nothing happens out of his order and because of his knowledge that is not bounded by time and space he has knbowledge of what has been, is and what will be forever and accordingly he said about Propphet Musa Aleyhi salaam: " and you came (in time) according to Qader , O Musa" Your thoughts to further elaborate will be appreciated. Walaalkaa Nur I think all those pillers of Imaan go hand in hand and all help to inhance the same action. The heart of it all is believing in your hear of hearts that there is no Allah except Allah....once you have that branded in your heart and in your mind then most of your actions follow islam. Things start to make sense to you....you start to understand why some things are what they are...why allah has ordered this and not that. You have faith that no matter what happens if your niyah is pure than so will be your actions. SO to me every action has a root in those powerful words ( laa ilaaha ila laah)....and it helps you in getting closer to allah. hope that made some sort of sense. Salaam.
  3. Writing big words don't make u a better person! Yes it does.
  4. Bisinka!! He tried to kiss you and you haven't crushed in his balls yet? All you can say is Whatever? You wanted honesty right?....my mother says dhilo isheedaa lagu dhabaa...if you don't want the guy then iska celi.....if you do want him( and it seems that way) then ha is ceebeeyn!
  5. the less food you eat the slower your metabolism will get. And getting up in the middle of the night to eat doesn't help either. Solution: Like opion said don't eat too much carbs and sugars. Don't eat too much either..I have a bad habit of eating Iftar like the food is gonna run out...big mistake!!
  6. Filsan and lakkad...lol. Waraa lakkad any ideas yet?....xaa ku habaaree boss-kaaga?
  7. Barely speak arabic....I understand what is being said if it is kept simple....but can't speak. My mom has been trying to teach me for the past 7 years...nothing...must be missing a gene or something. But alxamdu lilaah I can understand the hadiths.
  8. U have to take what most women say or do with a pinch of salt because 90% of the time they themselves dont know what they want from you Can't figure women out?...I call that being lazy. Its all about taking the time to listen . But y'all being men its kind of hard on you to listen to someone else and be self absorbed at the same time.....tricky aint it!
  9. Yes, I can and I will make love to you from midnight to the dawning of the sun… midnight?.....c'mon now...you gotta do better than that.... On the real...that was well written....touching really....to answer the question heell yeah I qualify! :cool:
  10. looool @ bee!!! petite---lol that was a classic!!
  11. Xafsa

    Male or female.

    what do they new nomads think about this?
  12. Xafsa

    FOOD

    Originally posted by Lakkad: What is food without BARIIS AND DIIQ? Alla kanaa!!! lol you funny walaahi....it took me a few minutes to figure it out...but I finally got it! My food....baasto....canjeero iyo shaax. No hilib unless its chicken and even then it has to have no sign of baruur or seedo...yuck!! Lots and lots of sambuus....anything dhanaan...like the salad at olive garden.....damn its good! Oooh how can I forget chocolate!!!
  13. I love that show..... but most of the time they do dress the guy to look like a freakin' homo...but I love the way they do the decor!! This show has changed my life!!......When I see a somali brotha wearing all the colors of the rainbow as if he's afraid he'll get lost....I know theres hope for him
  14. Originally posted by Lakkad: Bee Yu gat tha right MAMI!..lol Aint none special abt this Lakkad...just a rebel thas all yeah....riiiiiggght! ar kan xaa ku been ah!!! naah...he aint all that......just an average faarax....
  15. Originally posted by Nur: " Lawlaa 1. An asiira fii sabilillaah 2. Aw adaca jabhatii fil turaabi lillah 3. Aw Ujaalisa qawman yaltaqiduuna adaayabil kalaam, kamaa yultaqadu ataayabal tamr, la axbabtu an alxaqa billaah. I love that!!!
  16. Originally posted by Nur: 2. Modern implication of some selected verses 3. How to integrate Quraan into our lives 5. Key words in Quraan that Open Huge doors to Knowledge Very interesting topics...would love to know more! I;m also interested in danbi dhaaf during the month of Ramadan...if you can fit that in somewhere. Salaam
  17. Furuq labo jir ah ha ku dilo!! Eedadaa iyo doofaartii cidiina daad ha qaadee kaalay! Dhimo oo ha noolaan! Inkaar laba jibaaran ha kugu dhacdo! Markaan saxdo: Ku dhimo ilaahay idinkiis! Wadnaha nabar kaaga soo bax---only to the gaaloos. I will try to remember some more.
  18. He or She.. made you feel so high in love,, emotionally secured, understood your needs and provided them….. treated you with the outmost respect and love… What more are you looking for? :confused: Remember there are no perfect people in this world....everybody has something wrong with them...the question is how do you feel about this person...how strong are those feelings?
  19. ^^^ I'll be fine when I can be allowed to b!tch slap some people.....
  20. Xafsa

    Need advice!

    Tell your parents how you feel and what your logic is. listen to them...don't ever talk back to them....always speak with respect. Remember that at the end the choice is yours all you have to do is take their concerns into consideration thats all. good luck hon.
  21. I am glad that that articel has inspired so many changes.....I guess we all needed that. I can speak for myself and say that to me salah has just become another task to be done....but now alxam dulilaah I realise that it is what you make of it. Nur thank you walaal for the inspiring article. Very well written.
  22. ^^^^I feel you! Are we supposed to finish the rest of our Existence in this world trying to erase that deep torturous dull pain until we eventually die? Is it too much to ask for to be left alone to figure out my porblems my own way?...and in my own time? Can I be left alone to take my own risks? at my own risk? And can somali females pleaaase mind their own freakin' beez wax?!! The next b!itch oo afka igu soo tagto gafuurkaan jabinaa!