Xafsa

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  1. ^^^ yeah..I'm in the habit of stealing men from my gal friends! lol..I could be the woman that was stolen? What am I an object?
  2. ^^^ Naayaa do I sound like a man with a broken heart? :mad:
  3. The Somalian song that Liban sang at his Melbourne audition, which bought Mark Holden to tears, was a tale about a man who wanted to marry a beautiful woman. The man asked his best friend to talk to the woman's family and to get their permission on his behalf for him to marry her. But, the best friend fell in love with the woman and he ended up marrying her instead. The lonely man was left besotted and broken-hearted. I want the words to that song! I love the tune....heart breaking!
  4. I cant make out what the somali song he is singing is?
  5. infact, every woman should take that few years off to give her full, undivided attention to her childen] True...the those are the critical years...but when they do go to school or are all grown up you gotta do what you gotta do.
  6. Liqaye jazaka alaah walaal. Sometimes my wondering mind gets so bad I don't know how many rakcas I prayed! I find myself thinking abouta question of an exam I took, whether or not the gas in my car is enough to take me to work and back, when my next exam is and what subject...did i pay my credit card bill?, the cell phone bill? what about the insurance?...etc...etc...etc. Its sad walaahi even the little time during the day that is supposed to be reserved for allah is not safe. We are constantly worrying about something...It reminds me of an aayah... Laqad khalaqnal insaana fii kabad. Anyways sorry if I went off track there for a minute...but this topic was well needed.
  7. Gediid will you marry me? On a more serious note women do need to start taking motherhood seriously. Its our duty to take care of our children...eve if you have a career your first priority is the tarbiyah and nurturing of those kids....you do wanna raise productive god fearing children right? You have a career that will not enable you to be with your kids then the jobs got to go,provided their father is willing and able to take care of our every financial need. What we women do can never be done by any man...so why must we down play it? Embrace it, be proud of it!
  8. Flying-Still Well, I must applaud you for confessing to female's -you-know-what-ness-. It takes alot of courage to come clean about it, aint it? Jamaal-11 It doesn't take alot fo courage but a knowledge of the truth. we take our share of the blame its about time you men did too!
  9. huh :confused: Is this a new science?, a new cilmi?
  10. I think the mother and father should both be in jail. Her for staying around with a men like that..and him ...(do i really need to say why?) Agreed...The father needs in miyirka loo toosiyo!! Motherlover!!!
  11. Originally posted by JamaaL-11: quote:Men are like tiles you lay 'em down right the first time you can walk all over them. Or was it the other way around, Flying-still? Could be if you men got the skills! qac qaac walaalkiis even though its true that allah did allow men to marry more than one wife...you have to remember that there are a set of rules and regulations that need to be fulfilled. And even if my hubby does meet them...I don't have to be happy about it...I won't stand in his way but I won't be there to see him come home from another womens house. But I have to remember that anything is possible and that what I would do in that situation only Allah knows. guys we all have to remember that men who take the responsibilites of raising a family very seriously would not take up another wife in this day and age. They say it takes a village to raise a child...but now a days there is no village so the kids need the undivided attention of both their parents. Y'all feel me? Ameenah...true, being a b!tch aint gonna help no one! I think its about time we tried the sweet thing for a minute! more of this---> instead of this ----> :mad:
  12. Ameenah well said hon...Its all about where you stand and how strongly you feel about your hubby going and getting another female. I've seen some women make a big deal out of it the first few weeks, then she asks for set dahab ah then all is good!! What the hell is that? As if a piece of medal hangin from my neck and ears is gonna make me feel better about having to share my husband! Lets face the facts though ladies...the majority of us females are nagging b!tches( no offence intended, i'm included in this) and this makes it easier for them to do wrong by us. My theory is nin waxaad rabtid waa ka keensan kartaa....you can make him do what you want. Just play your cards right. Flying Why walk all over them when you can walk beside them hand in hand?? Thats the goal Gediid but you men waa kirif kirif badan tihiin axsaanka aaba idinkaga sii daro!
  13. looooool....That would be a very funny play! Too many people trying to be politically correct makes for a very bland a boring view on things. Let the man do his play....him changing the title or not is not gonna change the way he feels about the subjects of his play.
  14. Topic has been talked to death...there is no solution in this. Its true though..men are easily influenced...dhinacaad rabtid u jiido they aint all that smart. Remember the the old joke: Men are like tiles you lay 'em down right the first time you can walk all over them.
  15. He never called for an ambulance, didn't accompany his wife and baby to the hospital and took a nap immediately after his wife phoned from the hospital to say that Faduma was dead, What the.....?!!!! :mad:
  16. Aaah...another topic thats been talked to death!! But very interesting article!
  17. Xafsa

    Riddles

    This aint fair!! My brain is on vacation during the day in the month of ramdan!!
  18. Faarax jama? and Haliimo? in a nursing home? 76 yr old woman in a pink dress?
  19. was he white? the security guard I mean? Arresting him isn't gonna make anyone feel better...he needs to die.
  20. Security Guard? They be shooting people too? subxaan alaah!
  21. Peter Piper Picked a Peck of pickled peppers A peck of pickled peppers peter piper picked If peter piper picked a peck of pickled peppers How many pecks of pickled peppers did peter piper pick?
  22. qof shukaansi micnihiis sheego ma la waayay? Waraa Lakk---do something about your inbox aight! :mad: