Wonder Woman? Wonder girl sounds more polite to me, now its better you have settled with a name. care to shed some lights on your new name? you partially answered the questions, however your conculsion was "as Somalis we are recist (i differ with you on this generalisation) and me Wonder girl is a racist too and given the choise between a white and black muslim i will only marry a black Muslim...oh sorry i meant white muslim, even if the balck muslim had the best akhlaq.'' Not only this was predictable but funny. i dont get it, we claim to be a muslim and come from a black race (surprisingly you were even brave to admit this, rarely other somalis would say we are black)why is it hard to marry a black muslim. People can you choose between two muslims and if so on what grounds? Brother Noor would be helpful to enlighten us here.

Somalia is made up five states-namely Northern somalia (now Somaliland) Southern somalia, Djibouti, Orgadenia and NFD. This five provinces make up THE UNITED STATES OF SOMALIA. NFD is one of the states of USS that had long been seperated and lamped into an alien teritory which treats them inhumane and third class citizens. if you remember during the colonial period many of our great heros reisisted the idea of nfd as being part of kenya teritory. You may recall the shifta days where we took arms against kenya goverm. to leave nfd soils. So be proud of yourself because you are somali. Do not be decieved by how things appear today, it is not going to be like this, i can assure you we will be a great nation Inshallah.

Mizz Lexus... girl you have been so elusive with your many names ...lol. what name shall we call you by? Mizz..Auzies are w/come to kiwi weddings, besides didnt you know that we are going to jion to form one nation. I really dont like the idea becaue I dont like Auzies but i think it will be economically significanct for the two to join. I thought you were giving a good advise to the sister until you said you wont approve marrying BLACK MUSLIM. Why? This somehow proves why Auzie are rasist but i didnt know somalis too have been infected by the disease. please tel me why you will mary a white muslim convert but not a black Muslim convert if my statement above is not true. Do you believe the white is superior to the black? Suproir in the sense of inteligence, status, and in the eyes of Allah etc...And what colour are we somalis? i will be waiting to hear your answers to that.

Lateafa, i would be waiting for my invitation on the big day. You may invite few Auzies like Mizz lexus and Muslimah as well. I will represent the nomads here and relate the story to them like they had thier story in another forum. The only difference this time will be a story about new era of Somail marrying white muslim. waw! you can imagne how this will attract all the nomads. What do you think, good or bad idea?

What is smart women? another term for Liberated women?, the ones that we see on catwalks and fashion displays naked and looks all trapped? I despise any woman who refers to her self as Smart woman or men who think a liberated women are smart women.

Kia ora Lateafha. How is the south, freezing? Not Maori and not Kiwi? and hopefully not a PI or an Ausie LOL.(i hate Auises, they are racist) But you said white convert. Anyway, sister my advise is give sometime for him to settle down in the new faith and observe his actions carefully, . get to know him better and do not rush, see his "cultre" and see if you can reconcile on somethings before you take the step to marry him. Think about if your relationship fails what will happen to the children. Definately you cant take them with you to somalia because they are kiwi kids.

Salam Lateafha. Who is the new Muslim brother in nz...and are you from Hamilton. Is he Maori LOL? give me some details I might know him and i might be able to help. On a serious note, once a person embraces islam, his previous deeds do not count. In a hadith it says he becomes like a new born baby without a sin. In saying that however, some cultural differences between Somali Muslim and White Muslim makes it difficult for such marriage to last long. I have witnessed cases where Somalis have married to new white/Maori converts and their marriage did not survive very long. So while i strongly have nothing against a muslim marrying another muslim-new or old, youll need to bear the cultural differences in Mind.

Okay nomads, try this one and let me know..... This is pretty neat how it works out. DON'T CHEAT BY SCROLLING DOWN FIRST It takes less than a minute......and you may need a calculator. Work this out as you read. 1. First! of all, pick the number of times a week that you would like to have dinner out. (try for more than once but less than 10) 2. Multiply this number by 2 (Just to be bold) 3. Add 5. (for Sunday) 4. Multiply it by 50 - I'll wait while you get the calculator................ 5. If you have already had your birthday this year add 1753.... If you haven't, add 1752.......... 6.. Now subtract the four digit year that you were born. You should have a three digit number . The first digit of this was your original number (I.e., how many times you want to eat out each week.) The next two numbers are... YOUR AGE! (Oh YES, it IS!!!!!) THIS IS THE ONLY YEAR (2003) IT WILL EVER WORK, SO SPREAD IT AROUND WHILE IT LASTS. IMPRESSIVE, ISN'T IT?

..."but it seems the brother is thinking as any somalian guy would think, oh i took the girl from him he must be heart broken looool......" That was not even funny, i wonder What part of my discussion gave you such an impression. one would only expect such statement from a childish or call boyish person, you were the least person i would have expected who sees things like that sxb. mind you i am too smart for that my friend and i am not here to prey on unsuspecting girls if that is what you were thinking. I am out,

Hold it there my neighbour sister,. You know i am a cautious person and a gentleman as well. I have learn that when a girl praises you like that , you must have done something wrong or something else must be going on. i thought for a while and the picture of you and OG came to mind, may be i was too involved in your conversation that the brother decided to abandon the conversation altogher with hearting heart. That to me wasnt gentlemanly thing to do. Dont take what i said earlier too serious sister, I cant afford to lose a neighbour friend you know. cheers

"I guess I was wrong about Gentleman, he seems like a pretty good bloke" was that The reformed you MIZZ..it looks OG had changed you very much lo. pretty good bloke? shall i take that as a complement or humour?. or some sort of machination?

ssss... zarqa, we are being watched, i am afraid to reply here. others like Hornafrique had already suspected me..lol it is turning out to be me and you, not you and OG..lol You got me on the cricket, i am not fun of that but i think ozi are generally good in cricket. Since you are my neighbour i would be nice to you and you will have my peace always.

Oh Mizz...Did you watch super 12 last night. We beat you (ozis) last night at rugby staduim and sent you back to outpack with bruises lol.

Mizz zarqa,. did you say g'day. I didnt know we are neighbours, waw.... Zaqra, see most of this forumers are Londers or come from states, i was feeling odd one out since coming to sol. we are outnumbered here. But i think with an ozi and few more kiwis i might be able to stay longer and write more here. OG dont you think for a minute that i am taking over brother, i have no any hiden motive sxb. Laakin waan kaaridhey gabadhaa LOOL, waxaan u maaleey hadhee anigu an aheeyn jeebkaad kuridhan laheeydh MIZZ, mise waad laroorilaheeydh mar hore...lol .

Kia Ora Mizz...(that is our kiwi greatings) Ok i leave you in peace sister, i promise i wont even come back to this section again. I was just acting a komatua (another kiwi term-find out).

OG, see you have baited her neatly lol, she cant resist talking to you more, she wants the conversation with you to continue more and more, i beat she must have had some sleepless nights about you already. Now that is what i call magnitising temptations..lol. Anyway sxb, i mean no harm, i am just the big brother watching over her.. , continue the drama, it sure leading somewhere good...to war?...naah..i doubt that.

Waryaa OG- man, i was laughing while reading this. Nin yahoow intee shukansiga kubaratey. You are smart, i liked your engaging and pulling her leg style with every post. You almost made her fall for you LOL. The Mizz is also young and new to SOL( with only 75 posts) while you are a senior with over 800 posts, so you seem to be employing this and take advantage of her innocence. This is not the good approach sxb because you almost made this guilty feeling in the sister and this can affect her phyclogically to deal with latter situations in her life....please brother.

Although i dont write much here, i was compelled and obligated to say may Allah forgive him his sins and give him jannatul-al Aclaa, Janatul Firdows

Salam everyone My first topic since coming to SOL, and i hope i am not causing much intrusion here. (at least this is a new topic Lakkad) I have came to like many nomads signatures here because of its truth and deep meaning. Amazingly this signatures also tend to say something about each of you. With your permisions here is just a few; Jamilah Among the belivers are men who have been true to their covenant with Allah; of them some have fulfill their obligations and some of them are still waiting , but they have never changed (their determination) in the least. Muslimah "o my Lord advance me in knowledge" 20:114 Cnt remember who said this - only in their dream are man truly free

I have been a frequent visitor to SOL for long but seldomly post any article. However one person i have come to admire quite wel for her strong Iman, her knowledge in Islam and who depicted descency in all her writings is MUSLIMAH. You are great sister. You also share a name with my Fiancee. Muslimah is indeed a beautiful name too. Keep your head up sister