funny how this summary has so many "i" in it...

is the sunni way permitted? i personaly think no one has any right goin into a lil girl's business and deformin it, whether it be a big change or not . But i was talkin to my aunt bout me goin back to ethiopia this year, and she said how her little daughter would be goin with me too, and for what? to get the sunni way done to her!! the sunni? well her definition was " just a lil spot will be removed..nothin big" :eek: nothing big? ya ilaahi help us! anyway, is there are some hadeeth allowing this? or is it one of them "culture" things? **perhaps i should cancel the trip all together**

spain?

Two girls: Noel and Nadia Two boys: Naiim and Nimaan Boy and girl: Nabiil and Nabiila ta ta

Three boys were mutilated and the world (or at least the western part of it) goes into shock, the police and the best of doctors are rushed to the scene. Why is it that when such mutilating practices are done on boys the world responses in such ways? Female mutilations have been going on for decades and yet few people are doing their best to abolish this heinous tradition, I have yet to hear doctors trying to find ways of correcting the damages done on these girls or the police arresting the people who perform these things. I am in no way condoning what has happened to these three unfortunate children, I just find it disturbing that people take notice and take initiative in preventing this kind of stuff when done to the male’s but turn the other cheek when it’s done to females, and blame the cultural differences and justify it by saying that its customs people have followed for numbers of years and therefore can’t be put to stop in an instance. This reminds of an article I read, the author stated that if men were the ones delivering babies, governments, scientists, doctors etc would do all they could to find some sort of drug to take the pain part of child birth; great deals of money would be spent to accomplish this. And had men been the ones experiencing monthly cramps more research would have been done on ways of eliminating such cramps so they could go through those times without pain. This of course was her opinion. GT: perhaps I was wrong to say that they would only go through the pain once, but they got artificial members, does that not some what ease their discomfort? Hmm…I wonder if there are artificial parts for women. oh well..god bless them and allow them to enjoy as much of life as they possibly can. AMEN! ta ta

pain is pain no matter what shape or form, this is alot similar to FGM, at least for these boys the pain is once and the wound heals where as the girls live with the pain reoccuring five days every month as well as other occasions i'm sure you all know about. If you think this is horror, perhaps you should read up on FGM once more. ta ta

hmm, the only 'lost' language i've heard of so far was this aboriginal language, the only surviving person from that particular tribe who spoke that was an old woman age 89, perhaps dead by now. But anyway, i wouldn't go as far as to say that 90% of the languages will disappear by the end of THIS century, later yes, but this century is too soon. if and when these languages are lost we will by then have created and adopted a new one.... so we're never left without some form of language we can communicate in ....then again there's always arabic, the language of the quran...i doubt that will disappear. certain languages are FADING out, true, and an example of that is our own, the somali language,only a handfull of todays young teens are able to speak it, but the language its self isn't lost, its just not present among these few individuals, somali will hardly ever disappear all together despite what the stats say; its survived this long i'm sure it can last a while longer. is latin lost yet?? ta ta

Can you honestly say that this little test wasn’t in fact childish and inappropriate? Can you really justify your actions? Prank calls and games like that were things of the past, games some of us played when we were perhaps young, but this stuff is just down right WRONG. Whether he passed your test or not, you weren’t honest, you weren’t being trusting and you violated something, what that is I have yet to figure out…but the point is it was absolutely unnecessary, but its your life to do as you wish. as for the selling of oneself to others...where'd that come from?? ta ta

Abu Moosa Al Ashari...thats the only sahaabi i know that had a nice voice ...if i'm wrong i give up!

was this study done by men? QUOTE _____________________________________________ women drive the men to act violant towards them... _____________________________________________ please tell me you dont actually believe that. what women want kulaha...what difference does it make if we tell you? it aint like you can fulfill them, if you could it wouldn't be something we WANTED it would be something we would already HAVE...or atleast most women would have it. ta ta

Abdur-Rahman bin awf?

**yawns**...i'd have to be really bored to prank call some guy...but oh well, whatever floats ur boat. Besides bf/gf relationships are quite useless and a waste of time, the thought of someone expectin me to spend a certain portion of my free time every week with them is too depressin way too much drama...and for wat? a lil makin out? i'll pass... :rolleyes: ta ta

had it been a funny remark then perhaps ur lil dry laughs would have made sense... This story is absurd and anyone with half a mind would notice that from the get go also you saying that its some miracle from god doesn’t do this any good. The picture is distorted in some way or perhaps the girl isn’t even eight, she could be a woman who’s a midget, ever thought of that? But then again we could all poke out our eyes and follow the blind... Anywho, If you were offended by my past/present comments I apologize. peace

love in simple terms is an undyin lust for someone. some of these crushes are just really odd...kids these days need to relax! ta ta

^^thank you

thanks for your replies but does any of you have any hadith that talks about this?

take your iron pills, what with aunty red visting you every month ur iron level drops causing all sorts of problems, so just pick up a bottle of iron tablets and you'll be fine. ps. low iron effects memory and other parts of the brain... ta ta

My granddad

Excellent cut and paste…you left out your question though

To make prayer a daily practice, not only in this month but through out the other months as well inshaallah. And to hopefully go to mosque more often..

^^the fact that you brought this story just goes to prove that this story is false...

A/salaam I've been doing plenty of workshops for teens in the past couple of years, girls and boys attend these workshops and i usually get up on stage to talk to them bout different issues that youth face. Well just the other day at the mosque a lady came up to me and said what i was doin was wrong! she went on to say that since i wasn't giving a lecture on islamic topic i had no right talkin before an audience. if this is in fact true then would the presentations one gives in their classes be haraam too?? :confused: please tell me if i am in fact wrong in what i'm doin...thanks ta ta

^^that last thing bout hangin around girls while they're on their aunty red is visitin is soo true!. QacQac...haa it did get on my nerves, their negative comments just wasn't helpin my problems. ta ta

QUOTE: ________________________________________________ """oopz !! I poped into a female territory. Yeah nothin else to talk about but, how a girl feels in her period..I am fasting and almost vomitted. FFs, take this to your private messages, will y? """ _________________________________________________ Must we repeat constantly that you need not be here unless u have a story to share ( which i'm sure u dont) or you have some advice to offer? really, this section is called "women" therefore some discussions will involve these kinds of issues, besides its not like you haven't heard bout menstruation before, i mean you've seen ur mother or sisters go through, and someday your wife and daughters will go through it too... so quit complaining, you could learn a thing or two from reading these replies... As for vomiting while reading this....i suggest you breath deeply, read slowly, understand it and then slowly think it through..no need to rush and give urself a headache or cause upset stomach, else that lil suxoor will go to waste. if i've offended you or rudy in anyway...plz accept my apologies, i dont mean to be harsh. ta ta

its fake!! what 8 year old would smile bout such a horrible predicament? the girl in the photo is awfully calm . chances of this story being true are slim to none. ta ta