opinionated, u said we all know the man should ask his first wife if he wants to get married to a 2nd one. ok. now show me that from the quran or the hadiths of the prophet scw. pls don't just say things because u wished it was like this. again sisters, i said this before ama say it again. it is easy to fellow islam, when it agrees with u. but really hard when it is against you. true believer says the trueth, even if it is against him/her. flying still, what u mean, when u say i would never share my husband, your allah, allowed to share your husband if he wants another wife. no one is above the law of islam, we should all know this atleast. asraa masha'allah, if all the sister in here tought the way u think, no man will ever even consider to marry another wife with u. coz u actually ready, and believe what allah said no matter what, even if it against you, your family, your qabiil. masha'allah

Ameenah what is your answer based on sis, my answer was based on a fact. and historical stats, and also from our religion. barwaaqo when u say, for some of us it never gets old, do u really think, u so educated when u take the ideas from the west, and reject your husbands rights. it is no pt of talking from this pt anymore, coz it looks like u guys, are not seeing with your eyes. so remember u guys are educated, smart and beautiful, who grew up in western countries, u guys should now all, should even know more than the girls in somalia, coz u guys in western countries, could use computers, and cell phones, and drive cars, IS THAT, why u guys think, u guys are better?

as majo said if the lady treats her husband the right way he has no reason to leave. but if u bring western carbage ideas to him, ofcourse he would leave coz he believes that u wanna change his calture. no sister, if the husband wants to marry another wife, he doesn't have to ask his wife, that is what our religion telling us. coz think about it, all u girls here if u guys were the first wifes u will all say no to the 2nd wife. so why should man ask u guys, when he already knows your answer it will be NO. THAT IS WHY ISLAM SAYS IT DOESN'T MATTER TO ASK YOUR FIRST WIFE'S PERMISSION. p.s. sisters we all claim to be muslims. but true believers are those who believe the religion when it is against you. it is easy to believe when it is with u.

hey sayfullah pls bro are u suggesting that ali should've being the caliph after the prophet. r u shici bro. r u saying abu bakr, and omar couldn't lead the army, so when ali did they won. this all are shiat ideologies, so pls don't bring this to us. coz i study shiats, i read books that ibn katheer, and abu hanifah wrote about shia and how corrupted they are. explain this to me bro, do u know that ali gave alliegence to abu bakr. or u saying that is a lie. now pls bro don't hide under the pushes, and just tell us if u r a shiat, then maybe we could have debates, if you r not. then your friends are shias. so careful bro coz shias believe that if they are lie to a sunni person, they will get ajar from it. they might have lied to u

my other qustion. who was the FRECHN CHIEF, who defeated the army of the amir abd ar-rahman Gafiqi and the muslims. at the battle of Tours in France. conquest take ur best shot bro, i think u know. i want the name

lucky sister no u got it wrong. conquest u got the answers right bro. and also thanks for defending me from sayfullah sayfullah, bro becareful all the umayyad leaders were not all bad, Muwiyah the 2nd, was a buis person too, he only had the rule for 6 months. because he was so religious that he left the rule. so pls bro make sure u know ur stuff. don't be like so emotional like the muslims are shown on cnn. talking out of anger and look bad.

Conquest bro thanks for starting this, one my favourite things to do is, to read about islamic history in debth, and learn in details from it. u see that the mistakes the muslims did before we still doing it. which means we didn't learn from our history. anyways since i see no one, had asked a question. i will take this apportunity to ask if u all don't mind. under the Umayyad caliph Walid bin Abdalmalik, his time was considered the Golden times for the Umayyads, he had 3 GENERALS UNDERHIM, FAMOUS GENERALS. WHO COULD TELL ME THEIR NAMES, AND WHERE THEY WERE FIGTHING... SIMPLE QUESTION.

solution. Lucky, fellow the sunnah way of our beloved prophet muhammad scw. he ate less food, 1/3 food, 1/3 drinks, and 1/3 for air, then go for a walk. after you eat a meal. make sure u call someone needy to eat with u. so that u don't finish that big plate. 3. don't become like the muslims today, and eat the most food you can. and sleep on it. the trueth is, ramadaan makes us fat, and lazy, the sahabas and the good muslims that were before us. used to work, in ramadaan, make them all skinnier, it supposed to make u skinny.

suxanallah, are we still the somalies we knew? i think we changed big time. this is what happens to us, when we leave our religion. sis, i don't know if this helps, and all u nomads here pls check this. out. I KNOW LOTS OF SPANISH,BLACK, WHITE GUYS, who come to us, and tell us all the time, how they are doing this Somali girl. subxanallah. and if u talk to the girl, she is saying hey i am my own woman, learning that from the TV. worst is this girl, somali girl ofcourse, that is going out with a Congo guy, who already had a kid for another white girl. she still with him, and obviously when he comes to work. and sees us he always has a big smile, coz he knows we are good muslims, to make it more worse he is a MISSIONARY for christianity, and she still with him. if i come back to the topic, i am just tell you this sister, Kuffars, are Kuffars, and even in the quran it is said don't marry a kuffar guy even if he is beautiful handsome guy, and vice versa for guys, as many nomads said to u already, he just wants to get that body of yours, you are like a meat to him, doesn't give about your values,personality, intellegence, and so on...

when it comes to marrying some one. you should look 1st the person's deen, if as u said, the person smokes drinks or eats qaat. but he comforts you, to me that doesn't make sense, he or she also came from bad family, which means i won't be relaxing, coz i would always having a conflict with that bad family, i would say, no i wouldn't marry that person. if the person doesn't have a good relationship with his or her God, then what makes you thing, that he or she will have a good relationship with u. yes we all have bad things, but you have to look which one weighs more.

muraad thanks for the story man. the sahaba's honestly were in another league, but insha'allah make duah for us, that we be like them. we should imitate them, coz they imitate the prophet scw.

mahad sanid abaayo. jazak allah khayr

nafisa looool abaydiis adigo kale, waaye kuwa hora laga qaato. sababtu waa, waxaad tahay qof yaqaana real life ka, oo aaminsanayn fertile stories. u funny. gabar oo dhaqan,iyo deen wadata majirtaa, oo nin aan ku guursaneen because of his degree. anyone?

moti, if u have all this characteristics then good for you man. but be humble bro.

abaydiis waa su'aal la iswaydiiyay, ee kajawaab haddad rabtid. ama haka jawaabin, laakiin murax sadashaan aad sheegesid waa la igu bilaabay. ee ku soo dhawoow meesha.

my 2 favouite sourahs are surah al-qamar, and surah al-maryam

it depends, if my parents are the kind of type that want me to marry this person, coz he is from so and so tribe. then i wouldn't if they want me to marry her, coz she is rich too, i wouldn't. other than that. it is cool.

adi cajuus maa tahay? hee marka

waxaan gaalo maloogu tala galay mise anaga.

good advice, ok macaantiis i will. but just tell her, in ay igula imaan afkaas oo kale ever again.

ar iga tak, geed yahay, feebarada qabta, soo tilaabso kulahaa, INYOOO yaa murxinee oo fiiq fiiqee saacaddaan, geedyahay feeraha waa ween. hey u the one who said, phuck not me, so aduu kacsi ku haayaa. marka qofta nakala jihee. ilaahey koo ha kuu sahlo aamiin dheh. xattaa haddaa diidid in aad afka aamiin ka dhahdid, qalbigaaga aa dhahaya.

also rayaana the older the sister gets the more likely men don't want her. just keep that in mind too. opinionated pls sis i know the seerah too, and i know the prophet used to work for khadijah. but khadijah wasn't ur ordinary 2003 charlie angel sisters ok. so pls know the difference then jump to the conclusion. she was rich woman, and when she got married to the prophet. she made the prophet feel like he is the man of the house. tell what woman now adays do that.

opinionated abaayo macaan as i said before u have a problem, u see the whole world black and white. pls expand you knowledge. asraa, sister no, i don't think i am being harsh to her. i am just answering the way she replied back to me, so i had to put her on her position u know what i mean. lefty bro, i agree with u, it is funny question. diomond princess thank u for the explanation. but at the end is only ur opinion, just know that. rudy, i still don't what the hell u r talking about. i am saying r u muslim, not the other ppl ok. and hell yeah we have to respect their religions too. as long as they are respecting ours ok.

I like the fact that u r staying. thanks for the advice, and enjoy ur sol sister ok.

i don't know what it is, but it seems that u guys when u hear HOUSE WIFE, some of u just get mad for no reason. i really agree with concious manipulation. and i wish we had many girls who think like, the devorce rate won't be as hig as it is right now, if we had girls who think the way u do. dimond princess, i really don't agree with u. damn. u r contradiction urself. dawaco good topic u start. at the end only the practicing muslims women, who didn't get brainwashed. will win. now argue all u want girls.