A woman who fallows her duties, as islam told her... is the most beautiful inside and outside... and most open minded... a Mu'minah.

Shabeela u r right? Cawrala. what u saying man? i didn't get it. Caramel Kisses. who is from the push sis?

to answer your question Caramel kiss. The other prophet is Zakariya.... lucinuu calaa lisaani zakariya.... am i right... Sayfullah, the sahabi was Ali bin Abi Talib. the reason he was the only guy to get up for the challange, doesn't mean they were scared... and ali was some sort of super heroe... you see in many challanges that one of the sahaba takes the challange, and this time was ali's time...

all of u masha'allah answered it well. but to answer your question Darman. For a girl to wait a man to be more romantic is really dump, idea, because the man who ever it is. could only be romantic to his wife.... so the other girls won't see if he is really romantic or not. and to waste your whole life waiting for some one to be romantic. i really think. it is waste of a time. garab tuujiyo, gabdha fiyoore ha iska rabaan. laakiin in ay noloshooda dhan ay u fadhiyaan hal fiyoore way ila fool xuntahay anigu... laakiin waa runtaa ha iska baashaalaan.... but i have to admit, the women is why we still as a somali nation have hope. with out women, all kind of them, sisters, mothers, aunts. i think we men would kill each other.... and in western countries you see there are more somali girls in universities then guys... the only knock against them is when they see being romantic as from the TVs... that's all...

are we?... now adays i see, somalies turning to shia, somalies turning to christianity. somalies saying is ok to take off your hijab. is ok to date. is ok to call 911 on your family if they abuse you? most of the somali ppl in north america only live maybe 20yrs the most in these countries. and look the drastic change we made. look how we are thinking now... boys after 50 cent and gang related stuff.. girls all want romantic life, waiting for mr. right. is all about how we could consume, do u get the lates jersey, did u see that car?... what is happening to our ppl. we only here 20yrs.... imagine 40yrs down the road. we just be like the black americans... afro americans... now they start calling the black ppl in canada Afri canadians... see the trend... i am surprised?

Muslim Queen sister.. u taking off the hijab doesn't make u coming out of the old days, like the 7th century... sister hijab allah ordered it. not by men or your family... so becarefull of what u say ok. dating ppl, showing your hair is beautiful, have nothing to do with this... it looks like u r little bit confused, or you are extremely young to make these kind of remarks in here.

i couldn't agree with you more Truely blessed, well said. if u wanna get married, honestly, stop playing games/dating/looking. just make duah and go for teh man or the woman u want. simple as a b c.

majnoonah joke huh, anyways waad ku mahad santahay, jawaabtaada.

if u seen the topic discussed before, is simple don't read it just jump from it, and the let the knew ppl discuss from it.

and say al-xamdulillah, that u r not one of those ppl

brother stand up, and be a man, don't do everything for her, because u r a nice guy. yes u have to be a compassionate person, but at the same time u have to draw the line, or else she would walk all over you. brother to brother advice. i hope we are not talking about girlfriend/boyfriend relationship, we have no place for this, in our culture or in our religion both.

yeah yeah we shouldn't be cheating, everybody knows, muslim or non muslim, but in university everyone cheats, that is a fact, and to make this sister suffer because of one quiz to me is really wrong go after him, make sure he has bad time, don't let him relax. but don't just sit there, and say it was my fault, because he would some other somali person to the same thing, so fight him now, and he will know not to bother who ever that next somali student, or black for this matter be.

the other 2 sahabis, Abdullahi bin Rawaaha, and Zaid bin Harith, who grew up in the household of the prophet scw. the battle was called if i could remember, ghazwat al-mu'ta

bismillah raxmani raxiim. Gabdha xishooda ayaa la arki jiray, gabdha ka bilaabaya he is hot hot hot. loool have fun girls, but keep it halal.

this will always happen to us. us students, somali students because we have no strong community that will back us up, from the dean or the professor. coz our communities is from this tribe and that tribe, until we leave in this situation we'll always be abused. sister i know, all the white kids cheat too, oh my i think, they cheat the most, even the chinese ppl, but there is a stereotype against black ppl, they just can't see u successful, maybe they just wanna ruin your record since u already said, u r a good student who knows. but my pt is we always gonna be abused coz we have no back up from our communities. so we ought to stay infront of our communities and tell them what is happen to us, even the police abuse us now adays. no one is helping the somali ppl period. whether they are students or civilians. p.s. the best thing u could do is, just the do the course in summer again. since u have A on it anyways. but fight them, don't let them relax.. bye.

ROMANTIC ROMANTIC, cajaa'ib. always this word romantic this and that. who cares, FOCUS ON YOUR EDUCATION AND YOUR RELIGION BE SOMETHING, and stop thinking about wasteful stuff. Ameenah said it all.

Sister take your friend aside, and tell her in the nicest way possible, that hijab is fard, and it is a must thing to do, because our allah ordered us to do it. it is not something that we take off when we like, and put it on when we like ok. teach her the benefit for her in a good manner. tell her don't worry about the peer pressure, who cares what the ppl think of you, if u know u r not bold, and doing it for allah. who cares what they say. make duah for the sister to see the islam the right way ok.

Magnoon or any other sister in here. when i said women doesn't have to cook islamically, i didn't want u guys to come after me and tell how much u love me, that was not my intensions. my intension was all of us to learn, that it is our culture for the women to cook. in islam, u see omar bin khattab telling a sahabi that if she ( his wife) yells at him, is ok. to him coz she cooks, cleans for him, which in islamically she doesn't have. she does it out of love. so he let's her yell at him couple of times. even thought he was the amir al-mu'miniin. it is very important that we learn our religion nomads peace.

caamul xuzn. or the year of sorrow, to answer your question sayfullah. hey it looks like we are asking yrs each other. that is hard to remember. p.s. caramel kisses, abaayo i wasn't dissing you, i just meant it was ceeb to us all of us, to ask simple questions like this. sorry if u took it the wrong way ok.

NORF thanks man. u broke it down to us. may allah gave you some ajar from this.

was it SUHAIL, 9TH YEAR OF HIJRIYAH. am i right sayfullah al-maslul. Caramel kisses... good idea to make it easy. but to ask prophet's dad, and mom's name, is really ceeb, that is like 1+1=2 u know. so maybe in the middle ground. p.s. sayfullah al-maslul, i thought the prophet died at 632AD. MAN.

it is good that she is supporting the hijab. and we know hijab was part of their religion christianity. not anymore though, they took it out. but to be honest, is doing nothing for her, if she is not muslim. i know she said it makes her feel free. if not muslim, and not doing for the sake of allah. then your act is really nothing, is just a waste. but she is close to islam, she needs those muslim men that she said, she had relationship with her, to give her dacwah, and try to make her muslim. coz she is almost there. also i hope those men themselves practice islam.

who cares if she is black or white. to it has nothing to do with this. first of all it was her body, even if someone pulls the bra she could've stopped him, and the next thing is, look the time in superbowl everyone is watching. men,women,kids, children, old ppl. come on. p.s. this is the media games. first time they were introducing gays to tv, they did it on a conterversial way, and that gave the gays lots of attention. and in couple yrs after it what u know, they own their own channels, queer tv. shows like will & Grace. so this will in 3 or 4yrs coming up, it will be ok. to have a complete naked women performing in the half time of superbowl. the more u talk about it, the more famous.... that is the america way..

i would be so shame, that i wouldn't meet him in this condition. and would ask him for duah.... but seing his face, is everything too.

I would just add one thing. I think we all agree to be married to a religious person, or a religious person with akhlaaq or good manners. but i would say, u have to first make sure u r religious if u want a religious person. or else it is really s t u p i d.