big mom, beautiful story. story we could really learn something from, as a matter of fact i'll save this story some where. thanks sis, again beautiful story, i hope our 10 yrs old, get up from tv games, and read and learn stuff knowledge, islamic knowledge and normal knowledge. so that we could built that imam hanifa masjid again, and many more great masjids back in the future.

brother the only thing i could say to as a brother who cares for u. go to her parents and marry her, end of argument. love happens to everybody both kuffars and muslims. and for us muslims the only solution is marriage, no way out. and if u really love her, u would care for her, meaning u wouldn't commit zinna with her because u don't want to take her to hell fire because u love her, also u would keep her dignity and u won't have sex with her before marriage because she is not a *** , she is a somali girl who is muslim, so u would fellow the respectful manner of asking the girl from her family if u could marry her, and insha'llah the family will give her to u, and that is way good for both of u.

first jamaal thanks for ur writings it is very helpful, and made it very clear. then secondly Barwaaqo sis, i didn't mean to disrespect u, or to make ur opinion any less then the other ppl's opinion. is just was the way u attacked the brother wasn't right. that's all. because if we all quote each other i am sure we all find lots of mistakes from each other. so in conclusion every one is entitled to his/her opinion.

in to this argument, t-mac is way better than Koby, they not even the same. t-mac is carrying a team by himself, where koby is carried by shaq, yeah koby looks good when he is scoring that is only because he is playing with shaq, he doesn't have to face double teams, koby is always guard by one defender ex. like boby jackson, where t-mac the detroit pistons are trying to stop him and they still couldn't stop him. scored 43, and 46pts in his first 2 games. so that proofs that. who is better, t-mac is.

to me i don't even think, that Iverson should be compared to t-mac, yeah t-mac is taller. but that doesn't proof anything buddy. Iverson is only 6 foot tall, and no one could stop him in the whole nba. Shaq and Iverson, r the best players in the nba. period, fellowed by Garnett and Tim Duncin, then is t-mac and koby.

salaan to all of u all of u replied nicely, but only one person made me mad, when i was going through all the writings that everone wrote, and that person is Barwaaqo. first of all Barwaaqo, if the brother tells something it is his opinion, u have no right to imbarrasse him like that and qoute all the things he said, secondly it looks like that u r one of those girls that the brother is talking about, since u got so offended. thirdly i thought u said, only God judges the ppl, what r u doing when u call him ignorant, huh. so if u want an advice girl, wear the hijab like all the rightous ppl are telling u to wear it. put it in style is not what allah asked u to do, and no doesn't matter for how long u lived in western countries, it doesn't give u right to wear it like fashion statement ok. u could be so gaal washed or cadaan washed but still doesn't give u right to tell or to give excuses for the girls who wear the hijab like erika badu. that brings me to the erika badu when u say we should respect the way erika badu wears the thing because she tried to be different, what is that, i thought u not supposed to be narrow minded. actually u r worth than that. because u think u r on the right path. we won't respect erika badu because quite frankly she is not like malcolm x, she is not being different that i am sure, but the reason she wears we don't know, and we don't care. but we will respect for all the muslim sisters and somali sisters who in North America or in Europe still wear their Hijab and fear allah. so next time, don't plah pluh at me or anyone else, pls right some fact. not statements from emotions, ok. and don't be so narrow minded, and try to quote my writings like u did on ur previous post ok. peace p.s. don't hate me, hate the trueth

i am actually amazed, that u actually used to read crap novels like that. but anyways mom thanks for writing. it is helpful to the girls who live in a western life, who have western feeling, touchs, minds. as for us, all the things u mentioned above are not considered romantic to us. just because it is a cadaan think or shall i say, a western thing. and only stupid ppl will fall for it. p.s. pls mom don't think i don't appreciate ur writing, i do. but i know a lof of chicks that believe those stuff in the novels. not uuuuu.

suuban sis r u shiat, sorry for answering ur question

i can't agree with u any more than this, hijab and tight close have nothing to do with each other u r right bro, keep breaching

yeah u could say jihad, has altered a little, when u include the tech part in it. But my friend the concept of jihad still there and we have to fellow the tatactics that the sahabah used even though is not sword vs.sword anymore, but the point is the techniques and why the sahaba reach that way, it was not that they had more techniques then romans or persians when they destroy them, but they had more iman, that is the key. I believe those sahabas at that time could defeat this powerful country that the world call America not because they (sahabas) have more techs, or nuclears but the companions had imam, and that will always grunteed a victory for the muslims as long as they have that.

well man if u vince is not a considered as b-ball player... come on man, what planet r u on. vc# 15 is down now but not out. But most definately a lot of coaches will take him b4 double P. but hey could hate the guy.. if hating is what u doing, but if u wanna see the reality, ask the nba player who is hard to cover on defence peirce or cater they tell you honestly.

just to rebuttle on your last statement bro/sister khayr, it is good that u fellow a school of thought i have nothing against it, but i think there is a language gap here, when u say we see allah through his attributions of the 99 names yeah u right, but u only see those attribution that's all, u don't see the actual way of allah subhanu wa ta'ala how he looks like, but u coud see that he is al-razaq, cause u see all the time ppl eating food, that doesn't mean that u saw him though ok. and the other point is u said, allah is everywhere when u say man, careful cause u could confuse ppl. Allah is not everywhere, but he is everywhere with his knowledge, since he sees and hears everything we say or do, also he is the creator so he knows what is happening everywhere in his universe that he created. ok. so he is not everywhere in your presence, but everywhere with his knowledge. also muslims all of us say allahu akbar every time what is that mean, that means allah is biger this whole universe so therefore he can't be in there ok. allah knows the best, i am not a scholar i am just stating what i know, if i made mistake pls ppl correct me, cause that mistake is from me and satan, and if i didn't make mistake then that is from allah (cazza wa jal).

my bad mr.jeenyo for not answering sooner, i thought one of u guys will answer it. but nobody did, anyways the answer is SUURAH al-ANFAL. I WON'T ASK A QUESTION, I'LL GIVE U GUYS A CHANCE. assalaamu calaykum yaa ahlul musliin

muraadoo, waan aqaanay jawaabta laakiin waan kabaqay in aan khaldo lol. anyways i am asking this, which surah that the sahabas used to read when they are going to jihad, or getting prepared for it? who knows it.

ilhaam r u from dixon loool bro i really respect u for what u doing, and if u did it for allah's sake u will find big time reward cause u got tested, with one of the biggest weapon of the satan, zina, and if u didn't do anything u passed, thank god. for make u that person who passed, cause the hadith says one who gets offered to have sex with a women specially he likes or loves, and leave her alone he will be shaded in the day of judgement the day there will be no shade, so congradulations. if she really wants to get physical, tell her bring ur parents and will get married, then she could be all physical if she wants ok. 17 is a kid in this world, but in muslim world she is grown women, or maybe man put her in the islamic lecture so she get educated ok. tell her life will change after those few minutes, and she'll have to live with forever. ok. sorry if i preached u, but man somebody has to tell the trueth. peace out.

damn girls why don't u girls just let the girl slip out, i was confused too, when i read it, but i didn't want to be rude, so i wanted to slight it down, but since u guys mentioned anyways, why not share it, anyways to clarify the topic, yeah first u will like the sexy girl, who is skinny slim, at first glance but if u see her personality is ugly, then that will kill it. so i agree with ppl who said personality matters, and yeah who ever is fat girl in here, sisters don't worry cause now a days man is becoming more more and more out existance, girls everywhere, the ratio between women and man in this city that i live is 3:1, and as the hadith said it would be one time 50 women to one men, so as far as i see it u all are in compition, doesn't matter fat or skinny

man first i didn't really understand, what u mean, cause when u say the nick name of the suurada do u mean a nick name that the sahabas used to call the surah, or do u simply mean what we used to call in somalia our dugsi, so anyways if u meant the name we used to call this surah in the dugsi was (laa tuqaddim). since i am not sure if that is the right answer i won't post any question, i'll wait for ur reply. assalaamu calaykum

oh man, what a nice story that is, man that guy who rejected the deal, really got tested, and he pass masha'allah, better be poor in this world and go to heaven

i just wanna say is that guys, a character in a novel or a movie, who is he, where is he, huh? do u want a fake man, or a real man girl, don't dream on, wake up abaayo, all i wanna know is what the man is getting in return, i believe eye for an eye.... thooth for a thooth...

i can't agree anymore with u sis, u said it all, u all that.

hey maybe u should check urself, what kind a person u are, if u r a good person then u'll find a good person don't worry about it, but if u are reero party (clubing) then u only find ppl like that cause those the only ppl u'll meet right, but i agree with the bro who said check ur local masjid, cause there is a lot of good guys there

this is just out of curiosity, i want to know who is b-ball fan, or a soccer fan, of all the somalies in here, cause i used to like every soccer game, but know i only watch worldcups that's it. i am really a basketball fan, specially the nba. but u all tell me which one of the sports u guys like

since nobody answered my question, that i posted at least 2 days ago, i'll answer it myself, the sahabi's name is Qa'Qa' bin Amr Al-Tameemi, and i won't ask a question i'll give some one else to ask,

u all left the most important thing, the guy u marry should be a good muslim (u left out religion) which is really mistake. as lateafah said, skin maybe old money may run out. also heart with out iman, is empty house no matter how much love he has for u. propthet (scw) said, marry someone because of his religion. not because of his money,nor beauty, nor which family that person came from ok.

let me start by stating first, my intention of writing this is not to offend anyone ok. now let me break it down. Girl u could marry anyone u like as long as he is muslim, ok. for the ppl who were calling black ppl slaves (adoon) waa khald wrong. why because man come on, u gotta read the black african histroy and u'll see why they are like this, if u were like them u wouldn't like to be called slave right. but i know where u guys coming from, when u say they mentaly slaved, that could be right. But guys did u see how the black africans become when they are muslims they are the smartest muslims, most eloquent speaker, does anyone of u from NY, do u guys know IMAM SIRAJ WAHAJ AND IMAM ABDULMALIK well may be if u see those 2 imams, maybe u'll call urself adoon, because u the one who don't know your religion, they know what they are talking about. SO AS FOR ADVICE GUYS ISLAM LIBRATES THE PEOPLE FROM DARK TO LIGHT, FROM SQUEEZED AREA TO PROADER AREAS. FROM BAD TO GOOD. so who ever doesn't know he religion he is the adoon, specially if u born muslim, like somali, and wanna live like gaal damn, as for saudi arabia, guys we forgeting that only makka and madina are holy places, not the rest of saudia ok. they could have everything bad in the country because, it is just a normal country just like somalia,sudan,egypt. so if u really think about, the somalis are the real adoons, why, because atleast the blacs were meant to live in this way by white ppl, and they got bombarded with everything the white ppl had, BUT I HAVE TO ADMIT, IF U SOMALI, AND U COME TO AMERICA, AND U ACT LIKE ADOONTA OR THE BLACS IN NORTH AMERIA WALAAHI U R THE REAL ADOON, because u were librated long time ago from being slave to free man, by Islam, and u wanna go back to being slavery by acting like the blacks. blink blinking like them, hip hop calture made u a nigroe, so next time u wanna say someone is nigga check urself with islam, if ur religion is bad, then u r a nigroe. peace u all