lol @ lucky, Lucky it seems 2 me that this gets under your skin,what is the truth about it?

This is an awfull, inhumane and disgusting,use any adjective you want.I for one am ashmaed to see ppl use in the name of Allah to commit such horrible Acts for an innocent Human being. Time will tell.

lol, well what do you know now we are in a mood of talking about Single moms, well i personally never dated a single mom, because the word itself Mom scare the hell out of me, everytime i hear single mom, i do give respect,how on earth will you even consider going out a women who passed another gentlemen. So in a definition who is single mom when one get divorced once, or when one get diveorced second ,third, we kind lump sum all divorcee into one category, single mom. But to taste the water i am about to date thistime around single mom, that is single mom , and divorced once, but not twice.And then i can give my decent opinion.

imho,all i see are "Material Girls",with the exception of 2 of the sisters.

None of the above, Jamila it seems that you have an issue with the site, the best way to deal your dislikes ,is to take directly to them.But the rest of you are just a followers, i migh add i do go and see sometimes that site, and i liked it ,you find ppl with different taste, not like Mules that is being tapped their noses with a single threat and follow the lead.Why on earth Jamila you have to spread this hate ,or your intension is to cause Hatred even among the Somali Nets don't be a Hate mongers who are disguising behind this site, and why not take your issues to the admin in that site.I never liked ppl demeaning any somali site, yes you can criticize but you can't demean,it is wrong un-somali and shamefull, this threat shoud be deleted completely, and it is time that the admin in this site take this nonsense ,and protect the names of the other somali sites,unless we are creating here East v West,or North V South? you get my drift.Why belittle another Somali Site?

Infact i Hate somalis more than i have hatred toward Ethiopians, atleast i know where they stand. We have wars b/w us and them and they hate our guts to death no question about it,they still control part of our land,and they know as long as we claim that piece of land, they will hate us regardless. But the somalis are worser then they are now days, so why not look at the mirror before finger pointing .We have wars with Ethiopians and whatever happens is a fair game. How about the thousands of Rapers who are disguising to be a good somali citizen, while we know they have raped grand mothers, children and etc, and pretend that nothing ever happen. So i don't hate ethiopians, but the fight of our land is still on, if you are a true somali.

Bisharo, why r u making a big scene out of nothing,if he don't pack ur bag then ,its aight dog.My suggestion 2 u be happy for the man,he is working and trying to do right,look at the bright side,or perhaps he knows you make every bagging he has done before a big issue. Ezy dog

Well i am only speaking for myslef , i am much better off in here then will i had been back home,in any aspect of my life it is better in here,am still with my family ,do get their wisdsom at no cost,there is no hardhsip or nepotisim in here, it all depends how well you study and choose the right subjects,of course with some luck ride with you,it is sure you succeed in here if you shoot the stars. Remember when i left back home,there was no civil war ,but we immigrated due to the Dictatorship at that time,and then there were not somalis in the states at that time, you can count them,time have changed, so my advise don't loose hope make life ,don't let life makes you.

For those of you who Celebrate mother's day, do you also celeberate ,Thanksgiving,Christmass,Fathers'day,Columbus day,Ash wednesday,Valentine day,? If you do i have a news for you, these are not truely celebrated whole heartedly, it is just a Comercial to selll and buy,no less no more.

Baadiya_gurl, first of all i like your Nick , i hope it still means ,purity. Secondly issues like this have been raised over and over,and they die quickly,you have groups who are the gate keepers and you have those who initiate controversy,but you never have intellectuals who ask and contradict their peers politely, you will be considred trouble maker,without even ppl getting the time to get to know you. So here is my suggestion,come in blind folded and open the topics you seem to like, and blv me you will learn quickly whose thread you want open and read and whose you want ignore ,just sit tight and you will be marked. I am all ears to hear your opinions.

Kynda ,remember the catch pharase you used here is the word "LOVE",and if you love him back, then i don't see any problem for him asking you about your "Anjelata's well being",lol if he asks tell like it is,if you have been circumcised then say so proudly and might add, ask him if he would like to take a peek at it, lol just a joke.but really if that is one thing that is holding him up to propose or make a final decision in his life then you have every rigth to tell him so.Remember he might be asking you bigger then the question .He perhaps one who values his Culture,and want find out if you still hold intact your Culture or it evaporated in the air.For conclusion tell IT!!!!!.

Don't y'all think it is wise first to discuss what is "Perfection" brefore we even mention who can we say a "Perfect Person". I blv if one is sure he/she is perfect, then they will never claim to be perfect,cz the road to perfection is rough going, it needs patience. so here is what i am putting up, if y'all can fill in these questioneries,then perhaps there might be a window of opportunity finding your so-called perfect human being. Here it is. THE PERFECT PERSON Complete the following descriptors with the characteristics of your idea of a PERFECT PERSON. Be as specific as possible, and be prepared to negotiate with your group about differences in opinion. The perfect person has ..... Family_______________________________________________________________________________ Job__________________________________________________________________________________ Education____________________________________________________________________________ Salary________________________________________________________________________________ Material goods________________________________________________________________________ Other possessions_____________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ The perfect person does ..... Society_______________________________________________________________________________ Politics_______________________________________________________________________________ Recreation___________________________________________________________________________ Religion_____________________________________________________________________________ Family_______________________________________________________________________________ Career_______________________________________________________________________________ Other activities_______________________________________________________________________ The perfect person values ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ HOW WELL HAVE YOU DESCRIBED YOURSELF?

lol @ Rudy, you sound like politician in their first 90-day ,but yours happens to be shorter 30-days in marriage,and found ease at it. Well this is a tricky questin one might stumble,but here is an idea about how men nowdays search their ideal women. check this site and it might shed a hint what some of us looking, and how some women respondeded. http://www.harlemclub.com/pages/5/index.htm

Rudy,here is the site and plz i would luv to see what their response will be? http://www.bbc.co.uk/somali/index.shtml

,Originally by Soyaal nomads here should not scared about that Wow that is very serious soyaal, if you know any nomad in here who have participatead the killing fields of innocent somalis,both young and old , its your duty to inform us,so we don't have to chit chat with them,if not then don't raise an issue if you can't back up .After seeing those horrible videos that are floating around,i blv only the death penalty is suitable in these cases,no matter what tribe or clan you belong to.An Eye for an Eye, no mercy at all,or forgiveness.

This war tribunal court,in my view will only be successfull if it prosecute not only the few they had in mind set, but to all those who worked under the former dictator,who supported day in day out the killing of all somalis during what i hear about 30+yrs of rule.They must have known the killings that was going on, if it does that,then i think even the current Prez of somaliland is subject to be prosecuted and but to death!.If not then it is another porpoganda tool.

First ,my condolonce to her family and friends.Secondly somehow i can't add the dots,so many question to ask,but i leave it alone.

I know ppl who are vivid listerns of BBC,and i might add if you are over 30yrs of age then pehaps you understand this holliganism Radio, cz i don't,i tried several times to sit along my family and listen but i can't comprehend at all what they are talking about,i even hear ppl caling BBC(Been Badana Ciyaalka),time has changed,BBC somali section need to change dramatically,they need to mix ppl from different part of somalia, as it stands now,only northern ppl control most of the broadcasting ,aren't there any other somali broadcasters in the world,and who do the hiring,i guess not the British,but the Few .Anyway still support cz they are keeping our tongue still alive.

garab tuujiye, good story dog, but let me flip the coin in its Tail.Yeh i can picture the tallnes which by the way most somali women aren't, so i am guessing she is about 5'9 not 3'4 or 4'4.So for that you lucked out. But the sad thing is Garab tuujiye, now days ladies bet on by playing games and video taping, so i am going to look your video very soon to come out, a somali lady palying a decent somali guy,lol,or perhaps she is a memeber of a gang, and that was her initiation to lower you the kill,at any cost good luck and stay away from her,she is no good.

Kuwame was the winner, no matter what, he did gr8 and he should have gotten the offer, but this is not perfect world,especaially if you live in America,no matter what, but i give it to you he did his best and have the knowledge to back up.But in real life A White women never likes to see a successfull ,well educated black man period.So kuwame for all the things that was going for him he has to deal the dealmaker of the show the so called Lady "D" she is the killer, and yes this damn big mouth black lady Amorrossa, did u see she was dancing for Jessica while kuwame was trying to reach her, damn at that point i knew he is going to loose it,kuwame i am sure Oprah will offer u a job, and Donald he sucks. I think the show will go to the bottom. Well if you see the word Apprentice, it means nothing more then "an inexperienced person",so the inexperienced person won the show,and the real one lost.

we don't need to fibble in here, the best Tv Series ever ,is "ER". no show even come close to its Rerun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bashi true, that some of us has the power to change the presidencey in this country,but i don't feel the muslim society are upto their interest,reason being ,i remember last vote , most of the muslim society were against Gore just because his running mate we know who he is, and i was telling them all along that it is the president who makes the decision in this country not the VP, but they never listen and most of them voted non other then BUSH,just becuase of that, i am determined to give my valuable vote to Mr Bush to punish those hard headed muslims in Michigan, i want once for all that all muslims feel the end of bush bluff, let him bring peace to the arab world as he said, and i want next time around ppl to use their head seriously. My vote goes to "Bush" hate it or love it i see him win this coming election.!

Khayr, everything you told the readers of this post is a way of cheating! if you work The Govt will find out ,or perhaps you don't file your tax return too Khayr, if you don't then not only you owe student loan , you also owe tax return to pay back.The sure way not to pay back your student loan is, if you can stay at school for the rest of your life, as long as you are in school and taking atleast six credit hours ,you will be immune to pay back any student loan , even if you are working and making a lot of dinaros.But plz pay back your student loan, so others will get the same chance you got.If not join non profit organizations who tuitor children,in an exchange for reducing or wiping out your entire student loans!

Khayr, everything you told the readers of this post is a way of cheating! if you work The Govt will find out ,or perhaps you don't file your tax return too Khayr, if you don't then not only you owe student loan , you also owe tax return to pay back.The sure way not to pay back your student loan is, if you can stay at school for the rest of your life, as long as you are in school and taking atleast six credit hours ,you will be immune to pay back any student loan , even if you are working and making a lot of dinaros.But plz pay back your student loan, so others will get the same chance you got.If not join non profit organizations who tuitor children,in an exchange for reducing or wiping out your entire student loans!

Passport, huh,well it is hard to believe making an issue about a Passport, when i found out that , i can get Somaliland Passport without even putting a foot in Hargeisa. I can buy that passport by giving the bribery org,$100. and they will bring it to my doorsteps in USA, so what is the point?