Aaliyah it is tough but the most amazing thing you will ever experiance. The reward gets sweeter as your baby grows and you will just want more and more and more until you can no longer have them. i was scared the first time and when the baby came out, i was like what is it all over? and i said, wait, i want another one right away. Aaliyah and all those unmarried girls, if you came across the right guy, pls dont postpone until i dont know when coz lator when ur nearing 40 and ur clock ticks to the stop line, you will have many many regrets. avoid that by all halaal means.

Thank you all for your duas. Illaahay hanoo aqbalo adinkana waxaad rabtaan ha idiin sahlo ajarna idinka siiyo.

Malika is something on the way soon? Wax khayr qabo Illahay kaaga baryey.

aniga am planning to have 7 or 11 or 13 or 15. intaas ka badan maba dhali karo in illahay lix lix iisiinaayo ma ogiye. so far only 1 and one on the way. waxaa iigu ducaysaan in mataano kuwaan hada wado iigu xijiyo illaahay kuwaana nabad nugu kala keeno. who knows, some of you might be innocent,righteous and god fearing.

read alot of quraan. i helps alot.

Supremacist walee war baad haysaa. hadeeyba halyeeynimada Puntland iyo guardianshipnimadii ay noqotay **********nimo lugu faano, Illaahaybaa uma maqan shacabka reer puntland iyo inta kale kulayka gumaysiguba gaaray. the day will come when somalia's men and women will live up to their name and reclaim our scavaged country. Meanwhile Somali sujiu, despite all the obstacles and segragations they face, fight really hard for what is rightfully theirs and am proud of the little they acheived and the more they will in the near future insha Allah.

really? i thought a pimp had a totally different meaning and i hope u dont mean that dayuus thing. There is nothing wrong with a husband letting his wife work while he takes care of the home.not that it is a traditional thing but if they concent to it, there is nothing wrong with that. Remember we are governed by shariah and letting the wife work outside the home is not HARAM as long as she adares to the islamic teaching. the man must also provide for his family but what if she is more competent or capable than him?

I think CL, hardline feminist she is, didn't compare daycare with stay at home parents but she compared the outcome. do kids raised by parents at home grow up to be scccessful and disceplined than the daycare ones. Spending those first years at home with your kids and puting their needs first is the best thing a parent especially a mother can do for her kids but if financial burden forces her to be out, then she has no choice. those of us who also opt to have more kids won't find staying home until all kids grow up idea very appealing. i want to be a good mom, iam i think and want to have a career, be productive and be part of society at large. i dont want to be confined in my home. am an adult and believe that we have the capabilities to be more than a mother, wife or just a freaking career women. we can have most of what we want alltogather but if our trains jam, then mom it is gonna be for me.

Val so u got the passion for adventure.good luck.

Malika it was just a hypothetical question.am in school now again on my way to a new career but as i said earlier i really wouldn't enjoy being a trailer for someone. for my kids on the hand, anything and i mean i would give up/sacrifice everything except for my ibaada. CL and Aaliyah what a lively debate. Hayam just wondering if ur considering ur propposed choice number 3?

kkkkkkkkkkixkaaaaaaaaaax. Zack ilkahayga magtoodaa lagaa rabaa saan u qoslaayey. maxaad ku tir gabadhii gabadhii markaas.

Ilax well said brother. But though that would be a nice role, what i meant was would you give up your chosen career for your spouse's career? being in the kitchen cabinet as you put it, is like salbalaarsi for the partner and it may not be ur dream or a role you would other wise choose ma garatay? mida kale does the :power of the bed: apply to you guys also? Aaliyah. Maansha Allah sis, Allaha ku siiyo kuwo baari ah, be accomodating him too.

lol@che. what a good scenerio that would be. I would give up but not entirely i suppose.

If your spouse took a new role like a governer or any other role and there is a conflict of interest between the two of you, would you give up your line of work to support or promote your spouse? if yes, how long? eid mubarak again.

eid mubaarak dhamaantiin iyo eheladiinaba.

if you like her and she likes you, marry her as soon as possible. dont waste time on useless long nights. Illahayna talo saaro. u istiqaaraystana guurka inta uusan ramadaanku dhamaan.

she is such a gentle wifey woman. she went all this way to please her husband. Maansha Allah. May Allah bless her family. it is amazing to see someone from other cultures mastering our cusine like that and sharing with all but dissappointing that no somali woman did the same.

istaagfurulaah. that is what happens when people have no xishood in them. what a sad death. Ilaahoow waan kaa magan galnay.

i think hargeisa is amazing compared to other major cities of somalia. i was there a couple of years ago and was amazed when i couldn't find any single man with a gun strapped on his chest. ee waxaa igu qufulnaa goormaa joogso lugu dhihi doonaa. it however has many shortcomings. dad waalaan baa ka buuxaa and when jaadka soo dhoco, qof miyir qaba luguma arkaad is leedahay magaalada dhan. nimankiina kala roor naagihiina qaylo. acuudka. overall, hargiesa is amazing. welldone somali landers. i hope inteena kalena inaan garano laakiin ha iloobin soomaalis are genrally wellmannered and things like respecting prayers times, trust in trade and returning lost things to their rightfull owners have always been our norm.bless us all.

lol. tiriig. waxaadba i xasuusisay gabar aan waa hore iloobay. i like that name by the way. Iam against that u react in anyway at all in this thread coz it is not for MEN, secondly who would she write a private message to? for all we know, she knows no one. she can't assume someone has used before her, if she did that, she may have offended others. all in all i think the sister did well and iam glad she asked before she tried them coz they r risky for a virgin girl.

Preedy if u want to stay virgin, stay away from tampoons hadii kale naa xageed soo marmartay baa lugu dhihi. seriously the tampoons as it obsorbs fluids exspands and gets as big as anything that would be shoved up there. so no difference at the end. they are made for mammas and woman with experiances .lol. AT meelwalbo muran unbaad ka raadisaaa ninyohow waaban kusii nici rabaa waana rabadaanoo inuu qof i dhibsado ma jecli. i like some of ur jokes laakiin i think ur way out of line to call this discusion filthy. maxaa filthy ah? ma natural mesntrual rituals mise how to handle them. why r bads or tampoons filthy? they are made for menstruating woman incase u didn't know and there is nothing shameful about them just like there is nothing shameful or filthy about diapers. the sister is stil young and has a genuine concern about using a certain product for her own personal hygiene so who is more approperiate than anynymous somali sisters who tried it themselves?

Originally posted by Abtigiis &Tolka: JB " Waar, Ilaahay CABASSA buu yidhi. Kagamuuse Hadhine, WA TAWALUU raaciyey. Wa bilaahi tawfiik."

Castro hope all is well and hope u soon get ur electricity connection back.u must be freezing with all the dabaylo. i hope inaaneey caruur aad u yaryari dhibkaas qabsan.

waaw. a new baby. congratulations on becoming a daddy again. it is such a blessing. Soo barbaar baan leenahay. quick recovery for momm insha Allah.

Thanks guys. I thought of going through Kampala but it is a very long and risky way baa la igu yiri. I am travelling with a little kid anigana hirig ma ka bixi karo. But i will try the freind in kenya route first and it doesnt work out, kamapala is my only way in. laakiin what about hadaad rabtid inaad kenya dhex wareegto until Garissa and back hadhoow ayadana soo ma adkaanayso? am waiting Nuune.