I am about to get get married to a Frenchman,originally from Quebec, in April. My criteria for a future husband were as follows: 1) do I love him 2) can I respect him 3) will he be my best friend 4) does he work and will he have a good future 5) are we compatible in our expectations The above has to be two-way of course.

Athena dear this is the 21st century. If it makes you happy and benefits you psychologically (and can afford it) just go for it. But check out al the pros and cons of the procedure.