Originally posted by Mr.Paragon: Xiinoow, gabdhaha iyo sujuunimadeydaba iska daayee ma adaa qolka timiba ninyow? Nin magac aan la aqoon sitta ayaa habeen dhan nagu lahaa Xiin baan ahay. Ma aduu ahaa? War orodoo faaiidu isku yeel oo ina kabayare qolkii inoogu yeedh. [Now that Xiin has caraabay ]

There's a 115 year old somewhere missing his bride. Too much eyeliner but she is one caliente mamacita. ¡Ay, caramba! Farxia Kabayare can jump in my kabaweyn anytime.

Odaygu waa selfish atheer. Inay cidi dhaafto wuu diiday. Maalinta xabaasha lagu rido ayaa laga amaan galaya.

Originally posted by Malika: The picture,the thought makes me cringe..Astagfirullah! You and the poor bride as well. Xiin is just playing. I know he is. NGONGE on the other hand, is a certified #$)(%#)$.

^^^^ I'm hoping he doesn't. [Damn, too late] I know he's not condoning it but I do know why he's cheering for it. He's preparing for his own child abuse exercise down the road.

^^^^ It is now fair to say we have beaten this issue to death. Originally posted by xiinfaniin: But what about if social institutions, religion and culture included, permit such a relationship, and the girl is content with it? Social institutions and Somali culture (invariably) approve of gudniin and clanism so they're neither here nor there. On the religion, I question the religious knowledge, nay the wisdom, of the person who consummated this marriage. And though I have no textual evidence, I would go as far as say this may not fall within the Sunnah of the rasuul which encouraged the common good and the use of common sense. Neither of these are present here. As for the girl being "content" with it? Adults are content with many horrible things because of their circumstances. Imagine then a child who would face untold sanctions if they refused. A picture also speaks a thousand words, awoowe.

Originally posted by xiinfaniin: Old as he seem the man thinks he is capable to do his duties in the bedroom, and the girl agrees, not to mention the family is happy. A happy family there in Galgaduud. Why SOL is angry then? It's easy to reduce this whole thing to performance in the bed which at age 112, should rate at zero. But look at it from this angle, saaxib. That it is "xalaal" (even though divorce is also xalaal), is never in doubt, but it's not exactly fair to give a young girl to a man who is too much her senior (I understand this is relative but say > 30 years) since the long term implications are likely to be severe. Marriage is not for bedroom acrobatics but is (ostensibly) a life long relationship. Any issues that might cause trouble down the road should be avoided. Things like an enormous educational gap (e.g. PhD vs. illiterate), a disparate family or cultural background or the communication in the same language or languages, being contemporaries and so forth. This man can tell his wife about slavery in America and she would have nothing to tell in return. The likelihood that this man will be around when his new wife turns thirty are almost zero. Yet, by then, she may have three or more kids (and some may even have disabilities). And with all the young men who don't have the means running around Galgaduud (or anywhere in Somalia), this old fossil would have earned much more ajjar if he used his money to marry this girl to a man closer to her age or one of his own grand kids, or even great grand kids. Instead, he wants to spend his last few years or months rubbing his ashy, wrinkly hands all over this teenager. This whole thing stinks and you know it Xiin. Don't play the devil's advocate just for the sake of it.

Ibtisam, don't let your rightful hatred for Zionism cloud your judgment. These kids have very few joys in life. Playing soccer while wearing shorts and a hijab is a different discussion altogether.

Originally posted by *Ibtisam: Who are you to say what is or not appropriate; THEY (HER AND HIM) are fine with it, therefore it matters not if YOU and others find it Ouuuuuc20 or less.. This is beyond inappropriate, it's GROSS. NASTY. DISGUSTING. REPULSIVE. IMMORAL. And OFFENSIVE. Now, what was that about being entitled to your opinion? looool.

Originally posted by *Ibtisam: Football is not going to make there life’s better, even if we put religion aside; I'd rather they planned how to survive and live a life without the Zionists standing on their neck than running around chasing a ball. I think it is part of the Zionist plan to keep them down, disorganized, powerless and not focusing on their fight, rather keep them busy and waste their time while they try to finish them off. Who are YOU to tell them how to live and plan there lives? lol. I gave my opinion that perhaps this is not the way and I am entitled to it You're not entitled to anything. This is like shooting fish in a barrel. lol.

Originally posted by *Ibtisam: ^^^ A 17year old is not a child old man, lets not pretend please. Most of our mothers or at least their mothers were married at 17. What age gap would you say is inappropriate? 20 years? 30? 50? This is 95 years. So even if she were 45, or even 55, this would still make anyone hurl. Ouuucccc³. The father got paid, xaad ka raabta I know. Never seen a pimp work pro bono.

Originally posted by *Ibtisam: ^^^^eer the 17yr old siiya HE is just mad he can't get a 17year old, while 112 old dude has one who is happy to be with him- even if it is just to give him a helping hand off the floor. I have relationships with women, atheer, not children. Ernesto, its not the old man that's bothering me, it's the child's father. :mad:

^^^^ Coded with what? Nonsense? Surely you didn't think through what you wrote up there. Oh wait, you said this before Originally posted by *Ibtisam: What a shame! As if they did not have enough problems. Now it makes sense. :rolleyes:

Originally posted by *Ibtisam: Death and destruction brings heighten awareness of death and your impending meeting with your lord, perhaps Allah would open other means/ doors of them forgetting or getting out of their problems if they adhered strictly to his commands. This goes for all of us, not only them. :confused:

Originally posted by sheherazade: Castro where have u been? I just had dinner. An oouucc will have follow-through. Inaga daa. Uff. I bet you'd want to be the fly on the wall on their wedding night. lol. Groom: Come here mamacita. Bride: Ay papi, give it to me. Groom: No, come here and lift me off the floor. I've fallen and I can't get up. Ouuccc²

Altogether, Mr Dore has 114 children and grandchildren. His oldest son is 80 years old and three of his wives have died. He says he hopes his new bride will give him more children. Marriage is not about sex but this guy wants to have more children. And according to this, he's been shooting blanks for decades. lol. Sheh, say it with me. Ouuucccc.

^^^^ Are you willing to provide him the "oratation" he needs?

Originally posted by Naden: ^ He's sitting down and has the colouring of a year old muqmad, how does he look fit? If the little girl moves suddenly, that arm will come out of its socket LOOOL Originally posted by ThePoint: if this guy is really 112 years old - he should not even be able to get it up without medication. There's nothing left to get up, atheer. His wiener fell off decades ago. He looks to be in his 80's at most and that child looks either terrified or completely disgusted.

Originally posted by NGONGE: Arr maxay duushay, different stratosphere bay maraysa! lol. What a rubbish PR stunt. "Al-Qaeda in Asia" kulahaa. Fortunately, gone are the days when writing garbage like this got one a nod from the powers that be.

Originally posted by cabdihaybe773: First of all Asc all mY somalian ppl secondly im new at this website and Really like it when i read some topics u kno but i got problem tho i have no idea how you gonna used it anyhow I need help abou that amean i need some oratation'' Stay in school, son. You're clearly not ready for this. The Witches of Eastwick will eat you alive here. In the meantime, learn the grammar and spelling of the language you wish to communicate in.

Mr Dore said he and his bride - who is young enough to be his great-great-grand-daughter - were from the same village in Somalia and that he had waited for her to grow up to propose. He was at the crisp age of 95 when she was born. She's gonna nurse his geriatric behind to the grave. Ay papi Hooyadeed Bilan bay tidhaah Aabeheed Bilisuu yidhaah Ana baraar le'eg baan idhaah Hedhe baraar adhi wuu koraaye Makortadii ma lakorinayaa Uff fowqal uff. Originally posted by J11: waa saqqiir tuujis waxani No kidding? Say wallaahi!

^^^ I hear ya awoowe. Originally posted by Tuujiye: Xiin Say walaahi crew anaa ka danbeeye ii dhaaf saaxiiboo la'aantood abaar waaye!!! Need I say more?

Originally posted by xiinfaniin: Don’t waste you analytical rigor on this one Castro. This say-wallahi group are known phenomenon in Minnesota Malls. To say they are immature is understatement They're a product of their environment and are no less mature than their peers of other backgrounds. And as they were probably born in the Diaspora, they are likely under 20 years old (if not much younger). Those not of their age who hang around them are bona fide child molesters.

Originally posted by xiinfaniin: for instance, the say-wallaahi group Ducaysane was talking about are not mature The "say wallaahi" is a function of linguistic deficiency and says nothing about maturity. My kids would repeat "say wallaahi" only because "ku dhaaro" is not in their vernacular. Marital bliss is an oxymoron.

What is the Right Time to Marry? When you have received your graduate degree and worked for several years to reach some financial independence. Thirty+ (but < 40) sounds about right.