s/alykum kulli waatan teedana Ya Zul Jalal Wal Ikram ((The Lord of Majesty and Bounty) One who recites this name frequently

s/alaykum Jasmine walaal macaan, horta waxaad iila muuqataa gabar wax garad ahi oo maskax fiican leh, haddana waxaad leedahay anigu i have an experience , so to share your experience is good, but don't you think it is little bit harsh though to advise not pursue happiness, after all that is what every 1 is looking, if in your case you didnt score well what i mean is didn't get the man you were after, won't it possible that some other lady maybe lucky and persistent pays, you know. marka walaal adiga nin ilaah ha kuu sahlo gabdhaha ragga raadinaya waxaan kula talinaya, raadsada nin xaas leh, ninkaas baa nin fiican idiin ahi, marka maalin wacan walaal.

s/alaykum all, As we all see this topic , ma uu dhamaanayo waayo waa wax Sax ahi oo qof waliba uu ogsoonyahey in uu ku dhaqmo. Haddii aan u soo laabto sister Lucky, walaal macaan haddaan waxan u socdaa salaal duhur ahi, waxaana adiga qaas ahaan ilaah kuugu tuugi, in ninka aad guursan doontid uu noqdo mid qaba ama laba hablood ama saddex hablood baan kuugu soo duceyn, ee mark ama diid ama ha diidin, ogow odeygaaya in uu kula saddexeysan ama afareysan doono with you. good luck walaal macaan, nala soo socodsiii, bye dear, lol. teeda kale anigu waxaan u arkaa marka ay gabar tiraahdo aniga la ilama guursanayo in ay u hadleyso sidii qof neceb gabadha kale oo walaashiida ahi, marka Xaasidnimada ha la iska dhaafo walaalayaal. nabadgelyo.

s/alaykum ExcBN, The simple answer walaal,"HAAAAAAAAA" YES" all of the above , walaal listen ,perhaps i am a different breed of men. LOL. i can be all of that and more. waad ku mahadsantahey su'aasha aad weydiisatey,Adigana waxaan kuugu duceeyey walaal ExcepBN , nin leh 2 xaas, ilaah ha kuu sahlo. aamiin.

s/alaykum walaal lucky, once again you are right , how else i can't be. Yes b/w (DUCA and Inkar) , that is only what i call Leverage that your parents want use, but in reality no sane parent will Habaar their offspring, it is just a tactic to scare you. LOl, and for the getting away, who is getting with what, in society you mean , yes it does happen more often ,but who is the ultimate judger "God"that is who we should be afraid but no one else, if you do good then good for all of us if not and it is something that is prohibited then we all know the consequence' so for the judgement is i am concern, walaal macaan waxaad tahey qof wax garad ahi, i hope to see a more of you in this form, god bless you.

s/alaykum LOL , sister Lucky i only ask to name one but u did more then one, lol. is ok let me try and i would like any 1 to jump in and express ur opinion. walaal Lucky , you are right and i dig every one u mentioned but, you know every one of them you can say no to them, with the exception of Circum.Cz at that age we are all young so we have no choice but to be done. one thing that bothers me all the time is Arrange Marriage like you said , miyaadan ogeyn walaal in aan laguugu qasbi karin, oo haddii aadan diyaar u aheyn in aad guursatid aadan guursan. for that instance alone we can differentiate b/w A divorced Beatifull somali women, and Women who never get married First if a Divorced women refuses arrange marriage she can't be forced an arranged married that is what our Prophet (SCW) said , a divorced women can't be forced an arrange married unless she opens her tongue and says yes i am ready. and yes some of the things that the other sis mentioned are there but not our wish. secondly a never married lady, also have the right to ignore her parents wish, no arrange marriage. Now the one that bothers me mostly is , the one your said double standard that our somali women face, what are you talking about here sister, whaat double standard, i know men in our society 99.99% respect our ladies, yes things have little bit changed but that is few of them ,but majority of somali ppl respect our ladies, cz women in somalia are the core and center of our society, so for that question i can't see what is the fuss about it.

s/alaykum Lucky sis, tell me one aspect you dislike about our beatifull"Dhaqan" just name one ,not two or three just one, and we will tackle one at a time. i luv to hear from you sister, markaa soo daa , waxaa ku jira halkan dad ku faano dhaqankooda oo kaaga jawaabi waxii aad is leedahey waa qalad, hadda walaal macaan , adaan kaa warsugeynaa ee soo daa.

s/alaykum, Mangalool walaal ku soo dhowow, we are here few in numbers, dadka keliya oo aan arkey this form who likes to talk about "Dhaqan" are Nin-Yaaban,New comer(zakariye),Kinka450, iyo adiga oo hadda soo galay mngalool. Alhamdulillah walaal waa run nimaan dhaqan laheyn,yuusan hadlin. wlc walaal mangalool, and i hope to keep seeing your posts, .Dadka sida ay u fara badan yahiin ma jeclaa in laga hadlo dhaqan, iyo guur , iyo waxii wacan. Waxaad mooda most of the posts in this btfl site are Wishfull Drama. But is ok i liked it though. but Dhaqan is my number one favorite subject. Waxaan weli la'ahay Gabar Soomaali oo wax ka sheegta dhaqankeena oo ra'yi dhiibato illaa iyo hadda. Marka su'aasha waxey tahey , Gabdhooy maxaa idiin ku dhacey, i know sister Mizz Uniq. Hates dhaqan lol sorry Mizz Uniq, what about the rest of you.

s/alakum Kinka450, cashaan cunayay walaal , when i saw this post i felt angry, war waa maxey waxan, yaa lol waa in aan sida ay Xalimo7 u tiri aan ku laabta waxa aan baranayoo, yaa waa ceeb. Hadda waxaan islahaa waxa aan baranayo is top 10. But i was wrong. Walaal kinka once again i luv your posting , you inform me always, mahadsanid. i am neither top 10 or top 20, like the sister said that is Saaaaaaaaaaad very saaaaaad.

s/alaykum walaal Kinka , dadaal ilaah baa kula jiro, horey baan kuugu sheegay , haddii aadan wax helin ila soo socodsii, waxaa illa dhashey gabdha fara badan, my family consists of 16 individuals (11 of them are female) and i love all my sisters to death.So walaal kinka450 hadii eey run kaa tahey oo aad diyaar u tahey in aad degtid ila soo xiriir , because walaal you sound like very sincere person and honest, and i don't mind becoming your Matchmaker, so you have my waano walaal, And ladies plz ezy with the walaal he needs your Advise not your Negativity, be gentle and helpfull, lol. Good luck, nala socodsii arrintan walaal .

this has been my experience ignore them and they think ur the best in the world dhahdo yasmiin, walaal yaasmiin, maxaad u dhumin gabdhaha soomileed, miyaadan illaah ka baqin, waad u leedahey gabdhooy ismicneeyaa, waa ku sidee yasmin. Didn't you hear the song "Halka galey maxeey hurdada i dhigay" ama "nin hurdaa saciis dibi dhal" walaal gabadhu waxa ku waajib ahi in aay iyadana dhinaceeda ka dadaasho oo aysan waqtiga iska lumin, marka ha ku dirin gabdhaha guur doonka ahi in aay iska indhatiraan , ruuxa jecel . lol adiga bal su'aal ku weydiiyeey miyaad ku faraxdaa marka uu nin ku daba soconaayaa oo kuu kaa daba cararayo, maxaad ku jeceshahey sidaas bal noo sheeg walaal macaan.

S/ALAYKUM KULLI Juxa wallal waad mahadsantahey marka ugu horeysa, secondly i would like to extend my apology for assuming you a male gender my apology and i will never do that again. I think i will be gender blind next time i respond unless i am 100% sure. having said that, walaal adigu qof dumar baad tahey sidaas daraaded, adigu waa uun one time marriage, i do know that, it is just slip of my tongue for the wrong gender assumption. walaal macaan mahadsanid illaahna hakula garab galo. adigu se waxaan kuugu duceeye, one man one women relationship.But make sure u take care him very well , lol, take care wlaal macaan.

s/claykum kulli mahadsanid Nin-yaaban, waa run walaal waadna ku mahadsantahey, if i throw words at Juxa, juxa walaal aad iyo aad baan kuugu raacsanahey waxa aad soo sheegtay, yes it is utmost important to be able to support your families no excuses, no cutting corners. I am down with you on that issue, laakin walaal hadii uu ninka soomaaliga ahi uu awoodo, waxaan kula talinayaa in uu guursada 4 naag, no less and no more. Afar ayaa kuugu waajib ahi. Habla badan oo soomali ahi baa jira oo ku faraxsan aarrintaas, up to now i haven't heard any somali lady who want take this issue, except to be getting jitterly angry about it, so sisters the floor is open wide, let me hear you , cz i have a lot of guys who r ready to get married again and again and again.lol. mark awalaal juuxa haddii aadan weli guursan, marka aad guursato bal ku dadaal inaad middii labaad ama sadaxaad aad ku dadaasho. c/salaam.

Serenity incase you don't know sister , there are some states that you can marry more then one wife pro-legally, and if my second or third or for that matter my fourth wife either one of them get pregnant , then i must move to "Utah" it is legal and i can have more then one. so i hope that rests in assurance if you are thinking your future husband to get hitched more then one wife.did i answer your question, walaal macaan hadii kale waxaan kuu soo qori the rest of the states that you can legally get married more then one wife. ok mahadsanid walaal .

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walaal Barwaaqo, what made me sad is , sida aad ii weydiisay su'aasha oo aheyd , haddi aad ku faraxsantahey ,my marriage why keep get marrying. You see walaal this is an oath i made long time ago, every one of these ladies i am married ,at one point in my life time, i promised , we will get married, and time never made happen, laakin hadda oo aan mar labaad la wada kulmay ,i have to oofiyo balanadii aan qadeey, every one of my wifes i have told them, what is my intention. and it is working extremely well. that is why walaal macaan .But if each one of them say no then i wouldn't have get married more then one. that is the truth walaal. and i luv it for now. ok barawaaqo , you ok walaal.bye

walaal flying-sis, sorry maybe when i said , "gabdhaha adiga oo kale" my god i didn't mean sarcism,all i meant walaal macaan is that some ladies hate to be married alongside another lady, but eventually it might happen to them anyway. Iga raali noqo walaal macaan hadii hadalka uu si xun u soo baxy, walaashay cadeey ok, mahadsanid sida wax garadka ahi aad u soo jawaabtey. Good luck

s/calayku, Amazingly, you are extraordinary walaal macan, in your case i Beg god a one man one women relationship, you made me feel Sad today, and you are well spoken women. So SOL men, here is a lady of the ladies, guys jump the wagon soon. Walaal Barwaaqo, gacan baan kuu taagey sida wax garadka ahi aad u soo jawaabtey, qof waxaad tahey Rare ahi.Good luck csalam

lol, flying-sis, did you know a married man is a man who is being tested, beaten up, hard core, and knows his way around, so why not accept a man like that then, choosing a new untested wheel. anyway , waxaan rabey in aan ku aqal geliyo, diddayey, nasiib wacan walaal, ilana soo socodsii,laakiin ogow , gabdhaha adiga oo kale waxey la kulmaan nin rabo xaasas fara badan, good luck walaal.

walaal flying-still, haddi aad caawimaad u baahantahey, waxaan kuu hayaa nin xaas leh oo fiican, waxuu u baahanyahey xaas labaad, diyaar ma tahey? ila soo socodsii inta uusan waqtiga kaa dhamaan,lol

aad baad u mahadsantahey walaal , sida wacan oo aad noogu soo sheegeyso barnaamijkan.

s/alaykum. Barwaaqoy, walaal macaan so far my relationship has been almost perfect,runtii guri degan xaas faraxsan ilmo quruxbadan oo ilaahooda ka baqa, iyo odey jecel 2badiisa xaas,yaa heli kara. riwaayada aad sheegtayna waxaan filaya in ay quseeyso ragga aan xushmeyn hablahooda. up untill now my life has been smooooooooth , and i thank that for God and for my beautifull wifes. and ove all ME. Barwaaqo bal su'aal adigu , hadii lagula guursada islaan ma xanaaqi laheyd walaal? c/slaam

s/alaykum kulli. walaal Serenity, you have asked a very logical questions that one might ask, hadii aan kuu sheego walaal macaan, waa run aniga 2ba xaas baan qabaa oo aad baan ugu faraxsanahey, mid baa waxa aay ii leedahey 2 ciyaal, midna ilma malaha. for that reason i haven't experienced yet my other wife giving a child birth yet, but incase inshallah she gets a child, my children will never be called , wacil cz i am the father you know and i am a muslim , so i am getting married my relegion, ma aha midda kristaanka ahi , walaal, marka ha iloowin waligaa in aanu nahey muslimiin oo aanu ku dhaqano diinta muslimka , oo ciyaalkeynu aay yihinn , dad ku dhashey diinta muslimka. but your question was a legitimate one and i appreciate it, thanks for asking god bless you walaal macaan, adigana waxaan ilaah kaaga baryaye hadii aad guursato , in uu ninkaaga kuula guursada 2 xaas oo kale.lol,lol. waa joke walaal, c/salaam

s/alaykum all marka ugu horeysa i would like to take this opportunity to thank one of our floor admn,thank you so very much sida wacan oo add arrintan u soo dhexgashey, runtii xageyga waxba kama xumaanyaan inshallah. mahadsanid admn. marka labaad, Mizz Uni.,thank you soooooo very much for wishing me more wifes walaalhi i wish in aan awood u lahaan lahaa in aan guursada 20 naag walaahi, cz you have all these beatiful somali women running around without a man, i luv to have all of the, but hear this mizz uniq, i am begging God if you ever get married, lol,lol, that your Future Husband get married to 3 more wifes, and i would like to see then how u react,lol. it is just a joke walaal macaan, . Laakin illahey baan kaaga baryeye nin fiican iyo a lot of other sisters in the house lol. well i am done , here c/slaam

s/a Waa runtaa Walaal Nune , waxaa cajiib noqotay waxaad moodaa in qof waliba uu rabo in uun caytamo, no plain discussion. Actaually if this goes on then the Admin needs to create a speacial Icon for those who jecel in ay Caytamaan mar waliba. Maxaa looga xanaaqa markuu ninka guursada more then one wife, i am married more then one wife . c/salaam