Excellent topic sistaluv!!!
Is it just me or beating up children is a tradition in Somali culture? There's nothing worse than seeing a child beaten in public for small act ups. Does it really take spanking to get your child's attention? It sure shows how much power you have over them. I believe there more positive ways to disciple a child that let's them know who the authority is. Like some1 mentioned, punishment doesn't have to come in an a form of bodily harm. How about taking them away from the things they really enjoy: grounding, t.v., playtime, friend etc.
Ameenah: you can suggest to your local somali settlement agency to set up workshops for parents. What do ya think?