I onces had a feeling for this somalian girl who never knew I existed.see the this is that I was a new immigrant from somalia and she was born here.The problem I'm having is that she thinks were cousin being somalian and all but I simply love her and would hate to lose the friendship between us.I feel that this is the only girl for me and don't really know how to approach this situation, I've tried to reveal my secret and confuss but every time something would pop up,for example, I would fined out that she's dating some guy. As far as love goes and soulmate this is my first experiences and I wasn't expecting this or even planned it, it just happend.she doesn't agree with the cousins can marry each other statement and has a strong opinion about that.I strongly follow my insticts and if I don't,I know the conseguence before hand.This is affecting me to the point that it hurts and now I try to distances myself from the ones I'm dealing with. So what should I do in this case when you loved someone for nine years and never had the chances to express your true feelings or start a new chapter with your idle wife.Right now I'm at a point in my life were it's my destiney to take that approach.Don't get me wrong I'm not sensitive but the subject matter is. I hope that you be real with your advise and be realistic to help. one love and peace out
Exile :eek: