Salam Sis i know wat ur talking baout too well, god i had the same problem when i moved here to toronto from the arabs..i remember back home, it was the girls with hijabs that the guys thought were the most beautiful..somehow its in a way the more mysterious u are to me the more i find u attractive..they would follow a girl with the full on hijab ( the compelte black jilbab dress code) in the shopping mall and not bother much with a sister with modest dressing.And i used to dress in the normal hijab covering my hair always wearing loose skirts and sometimes i would wear the jilbab. I honeslty never doubted that i didnt look anyting but beautifull in it. But the ppl here are different.. their ways its hard to find ur selfconfidence and ur position in a society that just seems to be against u. You will be beautifull in the eyes of that one man who will appreciate u sis..and he will see ur beauty with or without the hijab. And by the way sis if you do decided to wear the hijab take in steps , go slow so wont be rushing ur self and give yourself time to get used to the idea of covering your hair, wearing loose skirts and so on. Peace

Salam Umm i did not mean to offend u...but wat u stated was strange and confusing...so dont overblow a comment meant in a humourous context. Peace

Salam Jokes yea i was thinking the same thing until i came to the conculsion that this could be a brother who is looking for a "cute-little-girl" (little as in small figured) ... u see, maybe my reasoning is flawed but hey it kinda put the homosexual idea to rest Peace

Salam Is it harder .... well if ur looking for a dumb a$$ guy who has noting in his mind but to find some girl that looks like those video $lut$ well than tis hard. Otherwise sis i will give u an example , the king and queen of our last highschool year ( the prom) was this beautiful girl who was full figured i will guess around 200-220 pounds and her boyfriend an average might i add drop dead gorgeous guy. They were happy and were together for more than 4yrs. So is hard no..its not just be sure not to be blinded by someones image. Because it really doesnt matter. Peace

Salam Honestly i cant comment since i cant log on like Cushtic_Cutie ..maybe its just a singular problem, it just shows me a window with all the other ususal links and a blank log in window.

Salam Og-Moti..wat towers never heard of them :confused: I am looking up at the clear blue sky and that shining star brother u got admire that somtime. Peace And "Take the time to smell the roses" as the Becel commercial says

Salam Sis Rahiima-as-somali i trust ur words. Umm those blinds are shut for good.

Salam I agree with Mali and Mali i was wondering why do u write like that ..i mean whats wrong with well normal english umm anyways. even if i met that one person i could say is my ideal partner in life i would not know it until i met him Peace and ur writin is unique

Salam UNBELIEVABLE !! i dont agree with that at all What the h*ll it throws out all the codes of modesty and selfrespect that are ingrained into us by our religion. THere are two explaniations either the shiekh is a total wako or he must be talking about somting totally different and someone misunderstood . "PEAK" U SAID OH MY GOD !! Peace

Salam MMA good one lol but it was actually funny around the begining but then it was like ...... SAVE ME SOMEONE!!! :mad: Anyhows good one ! Peace

Salam I just came across wat u said OG-MOTI i agree with u bro i was brought up in the arabs and the somalis guys there were preety romantic...lol i remember my brother and cousins buying jewelewery for thier girlfriends... Peace and keep the faith

Salam That was so GREAT man i was like WoW ! lol funny and informative totally proves the great point. PEACE /

Salam Honestly i love Ameenahs Signiture and one of the Moderators i cant remember whom..but it was about how a man was classified successuful in life. Later

Salam The answer is u should not do it because u LOVE HER.Think about it logically for a minute, if you guys go to the "next level" in other means but the halah means set out in the Quran ie marriage, ur taking away from her more than u could possiblely know.Respect her and understand the consequences of this even if she yet doesnt get a grasp of it. I am sure that u love her for bieng a woman of high statue and of great self respect.Try to stop this negative impact that is affecting her. She is probably feeling that if you two dont move into the next step ..the relationship will be over in a while..i dont know its just a hunch, if you think tis so ..try to calm her doubts and tell her that you will love her no matter what happens and wait for until you two are ready to be married. Peace and i honestly hope to have helped..there is lot of crazy pressure in that age trust me iam just a year older than her and i know. The most important thing u need at that point of your life is some one who can make u feel strong and confident and wat she needs now ... even though it might not show... is for you to be that person. Later and good luck

Salam I really like this particular avator..i dont tis somting about the girl looking up to the sky maybe waiting for a divine decree? lol who knows Peace and Lady wow a somali woman with red hair lol that will be a first for me.

Salam Hi everyone!! share ur thoughts haa... let me see, well my best freind fell in love recently i am really happy for her , i am sure beyond anyting that he is the guy for her, a decent guy in everyway and more than that he is crazy about her and btw he is loaded lol i mean he kept on wanting to buy her clothes and little jewels when they go out.And now that i see all my freinds with boyfriends real or otherwise .. i wonder if its time for me to accept those little pieces of paper with phone numbers instead of throwing them away in the closest garabage can i find at the moment. I dont know all i know is that i am starting to think twice like the other day when i was at eatons center with girlfriends couple of somali guys began the ususal annoying " hi beauty" one liners naturally i turn around after a while and said " You ***** cant u see me ignoring u " " How about u get lost" But after a while i felt bad and thought wat if i did take his number or start a conversation with him. But then it hits me WHY would i do that.. i dont need or wat someone right now, but should there be a time,a period one should have a compainon.Is there a specific period of ur life where the door is open and after that its gone shut for ever. i dont know i will let time deal its judgement on this matter as for now i am happy the way iam.. and will wait for .... for wat i dont know but its a waiting game that i know atleast Tata

Salam For the individuals who adviced the poster to get implants, SHAME ON U!!!. Its a self degrading act and dont u ever do or think about it. Why dont u just chill and relax thousands of girls would love to be in your place as u mentioned u resemebled a model ! so take life easy and work with wat was offered to you in life. Wonder bra isnt a bad idea if ur just stuck in that physical apperance stuff.

Salam Great Topic sis, its about time This is not in order - Men who have long hair I met this somali guy with long curly locks till his shoulders i was like OH MY GOD! -Arrogant and Self Concieted men - Men with noting intelligent to say but yet i have the urge to open their mouths and say somting -Men who diss the femenist move..like a few here in this forum ! -Short men - Bald men -Men who have an overly femenine side. Its just disgusting. - Men who know they are good looking. I have more but well i end it here for my fingers hurt from typing Later

Salam Miss Understood great post, i agree with all of them. Ilham #9 cant be more real sis, there is always some guy u didnt notice or didnt think about twice that felt wow man she somting! lol trust me i know Peace and Thanks hun

Salam That was really funny..honestly u can imagine them speaking like that in the White House. Peace

Salam In the next 12-13 yrs inshallah i will still be alive. Family: Married to kind hearted somali man , that will be deeply inlove with even after 13yrs. Hopefully named Adam ( l love that name ) And have four kids namely..Jawahiir, Ruba , Adam( if i dont marry one lol) or Yusuf( after my father) and Nuur-ud-din. I did put some thought into this Health: Inshallah i will be healthy and in great shape, spritually and physically. Job: Own my own MARKETTING FIRM or be a family lawyer i havent decided which yet. And hopefully it will be back home in Somalia or in a decent islamic country. Hobbies: Keep on reading and increasing my knowledge as iam now, and the rest of my life will certainly revolve around my faith, my family , and my work. Peace and a great topic

Salam Honestly this is an insanely stupid topic the idea...goes against every fiber that makes us what we as a nation, one of the few primarly islamic nations out there in this world...and when our religion is facing one of its worst crisis ppl are discussing " MISS SOMALIA" :mad: :mad: :eek: :eek: :rolleyes: so i am not even going to bother to respond all i had say is that the respond above ^^^^^^^ is great, well put Mr.Abdulraheem...i could have not said it better. Later :rolleyes:

Salam :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: no words.......to describe my distain...dont bet on anyting soliderboy..call me when its a "SOLIDER MAN"

Salam Sis i tried to avoid this topic but i have to answer.... you really love him, but u didnt tell him you were leaving the country you just skipped out on the love of your life, like he is not worth a telephone call even saying a simple goodbye "iam leaving wat we had was great". You did not show him how much you loved him when you were together why not if you had such strong emotions for him!!. AND NOW THAT HE IS HAPPY WITH SOMEONE ELSE you want to call him and just realized that you love him? GIVE ME A BREAK! he moved on and found someone who seems to appreciate him.So put your head and have some pride..if he loves you he will come back. UUFF i had to say that sis i dont mean to insult you but come on you gota be realistic, in life you have one chance ....he must have an idea that your back in town..somalis are still talkative people so if he really wats you he would call you. Peace

Salam I would not call myself an enivormentalist..its just not that controversial for me.. a protester yea been to couple rallies..here in my city toronto... i do recycle..maybe i should do more why dont u suggest some things we can do as individuals to help mother earth animal farm. Peace