First that depends on the size of the harasser.. If he or she is bigger then me and all of my friends...cell phone out dial 911...and Yell *I Called the Police on Your ***...and then run! If he or she is rather smaller..you can scare them easily..it all depends on the sitution somtimes when u get involved the person being hurt turns on you and starts cursing thier head off at u! so ... yea.. okay... Apple Juice or Lemonade?

lool X, man...neither would be great..but, i would have to say Ruwayaad..they are atleast ur own ppl? right? Given the Choice of ONLY one would join either the Somali Student Association or Muslim Student Association.

^It comes with the position of being wife. Walahi the evils of tradition...

tough one but have to say chocolate fudge Indonesia or Malaysia

Cafe' lattee! Coco Chanel or Chanel no. 5

Tuesday , dont ask me why. Tankers or Boats..lol...

A long walk or reading your favorite book?

Congratulations Hibo this is a chance of a life time and i am realllllllllllllllllllllly ! interested. This is the field i am stuyding in, First year of International Development and Global Politics So is this a summer position? or Full time? its rather rare that such org's take first year students its a shame! lol But do tell and congrats again! Mubrouk !

Well iam purple..and i hope the ***** word doesnt stand for...lol for that would certainly not be me ! Otherwise its true...forgetful..oi to many troubles with that one

^ For some reason unknown now to me i used to hate the man! lol but i am currently under his sway..Fav Songs Hal 3endaki Shak Koly o7eboka 3alamani 7obboki **All by Kathem El Saher** Abdelmajeed Abdallah Raheeb Husain Al Jasmy Bawada3ak Nawal and Abdallah Rwaished 7abebat Galby Nawal and Shaker a7awil Nawal and Rashad (Classic) Kaa Weddi A long list that is sure to grow, there is something about the arabic language that enables it to display emotions in another level..the wierdest thing sound soooo wow For example the line from Kathem Al Saher song Qoli o7ibbok, Qoli ahiboka, kay tazeeda wasamati Tell me, "I love you" so my beauty may increase. Now a man asking for his beauty to increase in english just sound so wrong lol..but in arabic..well its wow. Peace and great topic eh!

Oh my, those were great stories, they walahi made me think

lol OG its all good, if u dont ask u never knw eh?

Oi! OG and Sexy, 60 and 46!!! na a few decades less more like somewhere between 10...20 I think u guys missed the *POTENIAL* bit...i only hope to go to those places and live in those countries, but being a very imagniative hopeful person,,i am bit ahead by listing them now lol

congratulations rudy

^^lol, uummm, personally..not too many, but iam pontential traveller in the making Qatar (15yrs) Tanzania (10 months) Canada (4yrs) *Potential* Egypt(2yrs) SouthAfrica(1yr) Malaysia(4yrs) Somalia(20 yrs---to my grave inshallah)

knock knock..hmh, yea wondering may i join this crazy argument?...and secondly i do not wish to be affliated with any squad..the middle ground is just fine...*Dusts the ground between the two groups and sits down with her cup of shah* Oi, X i went through all the four pages to actually see if someone even tried to mention that feminism had different branches ! Bless You I wonder if its the word that worries the people and not the actual different movements. *************X's post ****************** there are many brands of feminism and they range from radical, to anti-racist, so all feminists arent of like mind, and QAsim Amin's is what i like, b/c it only there to put pressure on the muslim countries to fulfill their obligations but giving women their rights that were already given in the Quran. I wouldn't promote anything that was in contradiction to my beliefs. ***************Qac's post ******************** the idea of feminism goes against islam... untill u could prove to me it doesn't... *********************************************** It all depends ya akhi, yes it sound so foreign! a completely western idea, that somehow is trying to enforce its self on ur Islamic values..! In reality when u look at maternal feminism for example, we can see that it in truth doesnt advocate anything a practising muslim may find strange! **********From a site*********************** Maternal feminism is the term that has been used by scholars to describe the ideology that drove many of the leaders of the suffrage and temperance movements in the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries. Infused with the language of domesticity, it called upon women to define a public role for themselves as women, sisters and mothers so as to improve society, and particularly to alleviate the suffering of women and children. For these women, there was no contradiction between the traditional role of women at home and participation in public life. Their actions in the public sphere were no more than an extension of their role in the private sphere. These women projected their maternal role beyond the confines of their own family life: they felt that as sisters and mothers, they could introduce into politics a unique perspective that issued from the concrete realities of women's lives, including the hardships wrought by poverty, abuse and alcoholism. ************************************************** What I have a feeling ur opposed to is Radical feminism *****************From a site******************** Women are oppressed by patriarchy. 2. Patriarchy is a hierarchical system of domination and subordination of women by men. It consists in, and is maintained by, one or more of the following: · Compulsory motherhood and constraints on reproductive freedom · Compulsory heterosexuality · The social construction of femininity and female sexuality as that which is “dominated” · Violence towards women · Institutions which encourage the domination of women by men, such as the church, and traditional models of the family 3. To end the oppression of women, we must abolish patriarchy. This will potentially involve: · Challenging and rejecting traditional gender roles and the ways in which women are represented/constructed in language, media, as well as in women’s personal lives. · Fighting patriarchal constructions of women’s sexuality by banning pornography, and rejecting traditional heterosexual relationships. · Achieving reproductive freedom · Separation from patriarchal society? ************************************************* ^^^And naturally anyone who believes in Islam will be opposed to this or for that matter any one with commonsense !! All I have to say is that base ur opinions on solid facts..its hard in a ever changing world..yet we need to try... Salamzzzzzzzzz !

Ya rabi, i read the book in one sitting and iam in utter shock now, May Allah, help all those women who were raped, its a voilation beyond belief, my respect only grows for them, these are strange and sick times

Mecca, Egypt and Malaysia.. Malaysia..inshallah next year

Umm somealien i thnk u answered ur own question as u said, their whole identity is based on a sinful nature. I dont sugest u become entirely rude to them, yet maybe keep the relation professional, i am sure they will understand once they notice the simple changes in your lifestyle.

Lool Maako, that was a wonderful poem thanks for sharing. Walahi all I have to say is that the older u grow the more u notice that Men with beards look far more distinguished and Hansome ..personal opinion heh..

lool that was a great read, it got me thinking haha

Somaliean congratulations, , on the topic of clothes i say go creative like the other sisters mentioned and design ur own skirts, the most important thing is to find a credible talior who at the same time is cheap ! I love the way u said *I am going to rock the hijab * Thats totally the way i feel way out ! lool Peace

looool that was good, and i was in a bad mood , totally helped me laugh heh

^^ I dont know to me personally at that moment of time it would be very very very clear that the affection is one from one side. If a person really cared, it would be obvious to u and them, to ask is to push (in my opinion)...you made ur move...obviously they dont care enough to make their move...so move on to the next dude on the line heh!

Dating is haram...it can only lead to the wrong..it is a delicate matter...i would spark conversation not in hope of anything but in search of a simple conversation to see, to hear, to know if there is a way for possibly..for a maybe, a we? If there exists Mutual attraction and understanding the next step should be taken with consideration towards the proper parties involved, ie ur parents... Ps. I wasnt quite sure what u meant by dating..if it was the westernized form of, "lets go for dinner and drinks" or if it was what i mentioned above! Peace...