Miriam1

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  1. Ha! I wish I could. But I have to endure the cold winter, worse now since I no longer live admist the warm brick jungles of Toronto. But further upnorth in suburbia. Um. Whats the last great fiction you read and why was it good? ( this is more for selfish reasons since, I need some novel suggestions
  2. ps. thugged..dont exams suck? I noticed that I post on this forum only when I am trying to avoid coursework lol
  3. Great Thread. Um the question. Why would soneome try to be a jerk? I have heard that boys often behave like jerks to girls they like! (odd) now that could be one of the reasons... Another..one they have super lowselfesteem or are just plain old a-holes. Question- How can your place of origin be undecided?
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    Marriage

    I can't speak to the main question of this topic. Good luck on finding more stories poster. But I loved the pride and prejudice qoute Cynical lady, his first proposal was sweet and tormented ! But honestly Captain Wentworth's letter is far better below I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are within my reach. You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke it, eight years and a half ago. Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you. Unjust I may have been, weak and resentful I have been, but never inconstant. You alone have brought me to Bath. For you alone, I think and plan. Have you not seen this? Can you fail to have understood my wishes? I had not waited even these ten days, could I have read your feelings, as I think you must have penetrated mine. I can hardly write. I am every instant hearing something which overpowers me. You sink your voice, but I can distinguish the tones of that voice when they would be lost on others. Too good, too excellent creature! You do us justice, indeed. You do believe that there is true attachment and constancy among men. Believe it to be most fervent, most undeviating, in F. W. "I must go, uncertain of my fate; but I shall return hither, or follow your party, as soon as possible. A word, a look, will be enough to decide whether I enter your father's house this evening or never.
  5. Toronto is a wonderful city. And this statement depends on what part of the city you choose to live in. I personally would suggest moving to either Brampton, Woodbridge, Thornhill in the north west of the city, or in the east end, Markham, Rouge Valley area and northern parts of Scarborough. In my opinion most other places such as the West end i.e. etoboko, north york, east york, main scarborough, and main toronto downtown are no gos if you have a family to raise. The schools are awful and the teachers are no good most of the times. If your in the technical feild Brampton/Malton/Woodbridge area as so many factories that are hiring, not sure what kind of jobs they offer...but the big signs are always hanging from the roofs of the factories..so they must be in some need. Dont focus on where your freinds live or family does, focus on what area is going to be good for your children. I am glad this is what my family did, and I loved my school and so does my younger siblings. Good luck
  6. This was fun, just started jogging so I guess this going to help for sure. IT told me this It is estimated that you will die at the age of 81 Years Old.
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    DEXTER

    I thought I might share my addiction to this show and find out if any other SOLERS are inlove with it like me. If you havent heard of it, here is a little bit about it Source IMBD During the day, Dexter Morgan is a jovial employee in the Miami Metropolitan Police Department's crime lab, but his meticulously crafted life masks his true nature. In reality Dexter is a disciplined and murderous psychopath (a self-admitted "monster"), and he slakes his blood lust at night by carefully killing the serial killers he tracks down during the day. Based on the novels (Darkly Dreaming Dexter, Dearly Devoted Dexter and Dexter in the Dark) by Jeff Lindsay. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0773262/plotsummary What do you guys think and have u see the new eposides that were leaked for season 2!
  8. That was funny. I am sooo sooo addicted to DEXTER..the show about a lovable heroic seriel killer..what is better? nothing. I knew I was done for, when I screamed once I heard the first two eposides of Season 2 were leaked out 3 months early!!!! imagine how fast i was dying for that download to be. Suppper Show!
  9. Hey poster above, that cracked me up, in a room full of serious ppl lol. Its true, without even conciously knowing it I have been acting like every job I applied for since 16yrs of age was something I was meant to do. I thnk going to interviews are interesting, if not somewhat fun, tis a challenge, as black people we are already at a bad disadvantage once we go into that door so there is twice the weight of proof on us then there is on any other person. But nontheless its a challenge and Rokko u dont know u might hear from them. Just keep applying!!!! Hey aliyah no stress, I was really confused with wat the poster meant, not you really but ur write, lying isnt proper, its good to expand on the truth
  10. Little confused is it for a job interview or casual conversation? Anyway the person really doesnt want to know the truth, they really dont care to know YOU! but how your useful to THEM So say something they would want to hear, depending on the situation. Example Job-At this time I am an honour student at University ABC, in my free time I volunteer with ABC charity and spend time with younger siblings/freinds/wife/ill mother. I personally see myself as a hardworking, honest individual who is willing to learn. Freind/Girlfriend/Boyfriend/Nosy Family member- Walahi to be truthful, I love what I am learning and glad to be able practise while I am in school. I get the most peace when I am praying (better be the truth or dont say it lol) family is important to me and would love to have my own, and ofcourse I want to go and live in somalia or some other muslim country, so i can truly practise my deen and bring up a virtuous family. tis all about bsing.
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    Bully Boss

    Oh my god! Arent women bosses the worst? I am sorry, but I have never had a woman as my boss until now and I simply cannot stand her. I know this cannot be generlized. BUT some women are just evil, and power hungry and such BIG BIG horrid like biatches. Take it easy and stick in there, today was the worst for me seriously was thinking of quiting even though I love my job and love the people I work for, But i will not and refuse for some racist horrid evil little minion, make me quit. The thing that kils me is that these people are so BAD at what they do, they suck and should be fired if anyone in power has some brain power. All my evil manager does all day is take personal phone calls in How does that kind of person manage 20 ppl? how? How do we survive these things? I cant kiss ***, I dont know HOW! I sweare in University we should have been not taught Management 101, but KISS *** 101..that would have been useful. Anyway. Poster. Good Luck. I am going back to workopolis. Inshallah I will find something better. who knows!
  12. Happy Canada Day..only reason I am happy = Long weekend Full-time work is murder, how do people work 40hrs a week and still have a life? I simply can't get use to it..
  13. http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/sex/index_cookie.shtml This one also looks like a fun test
  14. I am suprised i didnt get them all right, I am pretty good at fishing out fake people. Tis all about the Eyes..your eyes hold your soul... Also it was easy for another reason in this test then it is in real life , because those people that easily reverted back to a straight face, were ofcourse fake, if your smiling or laughing from your heart, there is always a trace of that happiness in your face alittle while later. 17 out of 20
  15. Ahhhhh a topic on of the few best things in the world. Bollywood movies...Best ones I have so far fallen in love with EVERYTHING BY SHAHRUKHAN!...specially "Paheli" being a sci-fi fan, a hindi love story with a GHOST is just crazy. Next one is DEVDAS, and Kabi Kuch Kabi Gham, and Can't wait for the new movie the Time piece with Ash, and Hrithk? Best thing next to Masri Tv Series..
  16. that was such a cool video. In the begining I supported the poor buffalos walking in peace with thier little calf and evil lions come along and try to eat it! how horrible...but after the lions were surrounded by the buffalos, couldnt help feeling a bit sorry for the lions..was it thier fault that they were hungry? maybe they were starving...who knows.. lol thats life of a indecisive person. can't choose a side.
  17. ^ Historically related to people who follow the religion of Islam, but again thats a sterotype, which usually means proper Arabic names lol. Go for something so totally unique for ur first daughter/son. But also keep in mind to make it simple, thank god my parents always kept our names (I and my siblings) short and sweet always 4 letters long. If your going to make it long, make sure u can create a very cute affectionate nickname for the baby. If you have a first son, the name Adam is so appropriate. And for a daughter, I was always, partial to the name Suhair
  18. I see my future so clearly, its all good now that I have come to understand who is who and where I stand with those that I once believed treasured me for who I was. Its good to know your freinds from the hypocrites. I see myself completely succesful and my close and loved family so happy. I see my self getting closer to Allah, finding that true balance finally. On a ligther note, I see a lovely summer ahead and inshallah khair an enjoyable trip to the Big Apple on a Train ! (first time for both haha) What do you see
  19. My introduction to British Comedy was by the show "Extras" funniest stuff ever, so unbelieveably sarcastic and real
  20. lol.that was strange and funnyish..was it a guy?
  21. Haven't been keeping up, exams taking are simply taking over. Great discussion so far, Viking well said how can we enforce those laws when other necessary factors are lacking? About the lecture itself, in general from what I have read so far in his lectures, articles online and attending his lectures in person, I simply love fact that he speaks to those who are committed to living the west, being practising muslim and contributing members of society. All those things are mutually possible. I remember one line clearly, its important that we do not take our direction as to how we behave and interact with the our neighbours here, right now from those who are unable to understand back east, due to lack of experience. And looking at it simply it makes alot of sense, Muslims are all alike everyone, but challenges that we face are not the same and the reactions that we have to them cannot be the same, specially when we are so fragmented. I like how re-asserts the fact that there is no quest for integration anymore, that its really a fabrication. We are already integrated, but we lack the necessary initiative to contribute to our local communities and make our positive presense known. I like how he clears up this false notion that Islam and practising Muslims cannot live peacefully in the west, that for some reason we are "foreign" and will always be. That we should always dream of going back "home" how many ever generations have lived in the west. That, that thought process in itself is deafting. Creating generations of tempororay citizens, one step in and one step out. He's work, as far as I readup to and heard of, allows for Western Muslims ( and yes they do exist) to form a positive identity. Which is so important. Looking foward to reading two of his books this summer, and inshallah will post my thoughts on them But do carry on,
  22. ^ how is it unfounded? You are paying taxes to a secular state you are contributing to its advancement (even though its to your own as well) if your an employee of a company you pay monthly for your pension plans which are invested and also accumlate interest. Taliban...what is real research, wikipedia is not "OK" its subjective scribbles. You want to conduct real research, read his articles, grab a few books on the topics he address, critically analysis his work. Do not depend on the opinion of others..unless your incapable of forming your own? Great Discussion so far.
  23. I never thought "intelligent" people trusted wikipedia..how about conducting real research?
  24. ^ right that last correction was so necessary...the first two sentences didnt really relay your disgust..
  25. ^Let's be realistic, people in small towns are exteremly suspicious of any changes, let alone changes that are being proposed by Muslims at this current time high tension with crazy media reporting. It takes lots of effort and he realizd that, it might not be pretty, might not cater to our high pride but its necessary to survive and succeed in these lands. In my own neighbourhood, our local masjid commitee lost an effort to convert this old church into a new masjid, for years they were raising money, but it never seemed enough until the church decided that the building was no longer for sale and began services again. It all wasnt a waste, a better facility was bought, but even in a multi-cultural place like toronto, the fear of the "other" getting to close still exists, and that needs to be elimanted.