bilan;705412 wrote:
KK it is not always black and white like that, it could be her mother decided to take her anger on his family, it could be the family tried to contact the kids and the mother just refused to allow this to take place. I know countless cases where kids are poisoned against their paternal relatives for things they had no control over. there are a lot of women who cannot differentiate between their husband and his family.
honestly speaking if my husband leaves me today I have no expectation from his family to help me raise my kids, if they do, it is because they are doing me a favor and I’ll be grateful for their support, but I have no right over them, they did not ask me to marry their son, I chose him and if I made a mistake on my choice I’ll have no one to blame but me. Plus it is the best interest of the kids to have relations with both sides of their family, otherwise cuqdad bay la korayaan.
No, my family tried to contact him couple years ago. they found his phonenumber and he said oke come to london but he never showed up. I'll never put a blame on my mom now, now she is saying he isnt worth to find him cus she never set me against my dad.