^^^ umaaacccc luv!!! may you be blessed and more for taking the trouble to post this...its ramadan so i have to try and contain myself btw, pass me ur grandma's details and ill be sure to give her your well-wishes

thank you all, ur replies give me more confidence...bless you for reading!

First... DA kaalay halkaan huuno...ur brilliant! You know what i think, you should stop feeling so sorry for yourselfs and go and get a REAL woman instead of trying to figure ouy HOW one might think/act whatever. All this hiding behind some fake statistics wont do you any good, makes you look even more pathetic, honestly :rolleyes: women cause men to act aggressice kulaho...acuudu billaah, ma shaqo la'aan baa naheyso :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

^^ i was just about to ask that :confused:

if only they would use half of the money they used to build those monuments and sky crapers to help their neighbours...e.g. Palestine, Sudan, Iraq etc still nice pics tho

did i mention i got a thing for older guys?...the older they are the harder i fall

wait till old age hits in

I stand in front of the mirror And wipe the fog away My vision is still hazy From ridding myself this way My hair is all in tangles My eyes are filled with tears I wipe the warm tears away As if trying to rid myself of my fears I'm ashamed of what I have done But it hurts me even more I can't make myself stop doing it Even though I know what's in store It has taken over my mind It is eating away at my soul My throat burns with anger While my stomach growls even more I am still looking in the mirror Yet I don't know who I see All that I know Is this sad sight couldn't be me I grip the edge of the counter So tightly that my knuckles turn white I want to scream out in anger At this ugly sight It's your fault I hiss That I do this to myself If only you didn't look this way I would be in better health I cover the image in the mirror With the palm of my hand And notice a cut on my finger That I never knew I had I grab my hand in anger Or is it more like fright I'm just so shocked To see this sight I laugh and then I cry Then crumble to the floor Suddenly aware of my problem Like I never was before How did this happen to me? How did I become a statistic? I thought that I was strong, I thought I was better than that My head throbs in anger My throat burns with pain My finger loses a drop of blood And Nothing is what I have gained

^^ well just as well that i don't go to too many somali gatherings then and that song u mentioned is very nice, tho i havent got the lyrics to it, i hum along tho

FYI:Its been said that if you are around women for a period of time your cycLe gets adjusted wit their thus you WiLL ALL have it the same time. This might HeLp ya in regards to the EId Prayers witout the harmfuL injections. i agree!!...me and my girls all start having ours around the same time.. besides i wouldnt advise anybody to take the pill as i have heard that you will have a more likely chance of contracting cancer? :eek: ..besides you put on weight too mine used to be really irregular, i sometimes didnt have a period for months on end...and sometimes i would have it for about two months if not more, which made me really ill, so i went to the doctor and now its as regular as clockwork, so it could help seeing your GP about it, if your not sure

hey OG_MOTI aaww, syria brings back memories for me, i lived there for nearly a year...it's a friendly place, especially in the ramadan and trust me u will have a blast come eid time....ohh how i envy you! where about in syria are u going cuz i was at damascus. but anyways send me some khobs, because nobody makes them like syria trust me...oh and try their shoarma rap mmm mmm mmm...i'm drooling like a teething baby just thinking about it

Sue ur talking about forgetting stuff...i have the awful tendency to leave out words from sentences...im thinking of writing them down at that moment, but when i proof read it, god knows where they are hiding :confused: do you guys feel sometimes jinn inuu kadaba shaqeynayo, like when u put ur keys somewhere and it seems like u forgotten it where u put them and u look for them, but later on when u dont need them they're at the exact place u thought u left them??? :confused: weird walahi anyway have a blessed month SUE, NORTHENER, OG GIRL, SHEHERAZADE, KOOL_KAT, RUDY, KING 450, LANDER AND ALL THE OTHER POSTERS TO COME

nice one WD btw, wot happened to you these days, i dont see you around SOL anymore :confused:

hey, this is really cool having our own lyrics section. does anyone have the lyrics to bada cas by abdisalaan moalim :confused: its my fav song, unfortunately dont know the lyrics to it so help a sista out?

plz! i was just about to do lunch when i fell into this thing! now i cant eat!! u should have called this topic Gross rated!! from the title!!! ladies! somethings need not be public! yall dont here us guys discussing! how to make our boyz swim faster!! namean! thats what doctors r 4? peace yall! :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: so exquizit what were u saying about open-mindedness...rudy like choclaato said, dont bother replying if that's what u can come up with, may i also remind you that this whole section is for women, so if we decide to let you guys join in in the odd threat or two than you should be showing some damn gratitude than trying to dismiss our topics, especially when our mood has a tendency to change fast and unpredictably :mad: back to the point, ex-quizit, if you experience mood swings, then just stay clear from people or you might say things that arnt necessary...i once yelled so loudly at my younger sister that she didnt enter the same room as me for a month b-cuz she was scared to death for what i might do next...all because of her switching the tv off while oprah was on and i wasnt even in the room then...go figure As for the cravings, are you mad, it's the only time i have a good excuse to indulge myself into the finer thngs of life?

well qac, u kinda lost track but because of ur insightful advice i'm welcoming you with open arms. horta whoever said exercising relieves pain needs some checking up, i have tried that and it was pure agony oh my god...xanuunka macal kilyaha ayuu ii gaaray :eek: but then again thats moi..it might help others. someone once suggested to me to do belly dancing, said it offered relieve :confused: ...im still preparing myself to test out that theory. furthermore, for some reason i like sour things aunty red's visit, so scrap shaah, choclate (unless its white choclate). Oh another thing, have u noticed all the nicknames pms has..aunty red, calanka yemen even 'geedki' lol Nuune & qac, thanx for ur input, its good to see brothers caring enough to come up with suggestions.

Period pains?? now we all know that when that time of the month comes, most of us are in agony. if bleeding wasn't enough we have to experience cramps and all sorts, cravings that would rival a pregnant woman's and god knows where they come from, outbreak of spots etc and this is just to name a few. so how does each one of you cope with all of this, got any special techniques that help relieve this state. secondly, it's also heard that girls who had circumcision done experience much more pain than those who hadnt it done, but to be quite honest ive seen plenty of girls who didnt undergo circumcision and they go trhu hell for about a quarter each month. :confused: P.S. for the guys who enter, make ur exit as quick as ur entrance..not ur cuppa tea i would assume

salaamu caleykum nur, the 3 topics i would like to read about are: 1.How to avoid sins. 2.Meet some ONE special, Two things to keep in mind. 3.Obsession with body shapes, and the Hijaab. jazakumulaah khairun in advance

looooool...don't wanna spoil anything but i think u just gave our men a reason to start chewing charisma if they didnt do so before neva mind fertility tho, its a disgusting habit and they shouldnt do it anyhow, whether it boosts their egg production or not. all that chewing and spitting can give any woman a nervous break down without starting about the marqaanimo bit

ehm....and the point is? :confused:

^^ well what do u suggest then?

hey nice songs mentioned all of you but some of them are a bit inappropiate for weddings, i mean they are supposed to be happy and not be reminded of how a person was mistreated :confused: no offence, its a nice song but ease up on the sad lyrics. i think this one So into you by Tamia mentioned by chocolaato is real nice couple of other suggestions are ginuwine - love you more jagged edge - let's get married celine dion - alive time of my live, can't remember who sang it but its that song from 'Dirty Dancing'

talk about being obsessive..u ever tried anger management courses ...just jokin luv i think i would develop some kinda depressive disorder if people ignored my posts b-cuz 1. a good manicure ruined ( typing really isnt doing any good 4 my nails) 2. read the above 3. relieves my boredom at work (have sumthing to look forward to than a dull coffee break) besides its a great way of getting to know which nomad pisses you off and which ones you share the same point of view with on the other hand sumtimes the laziness gets the better of me...replying baad dhahday maahanee, even clickin the mouse is too much to ask! so u can say im guilty of ignoring the odd post or two anyways that my two cents...toodledoo

damn, that's one tragic story, alla haa cafiyo is this story is true, she was very naive. btw this story is similar to the one about the girl on paytalk, i dont know if u heard. the only difference is that this woman got on the net while she was married and then got tricked into thinking she was meeting up with loverboy and got raped by him and his mate :eek: ! talk about naive, nin baa qabo bal maxaa mid kale u wado. however, how much of these stories are true tho?...and we all know how much somali people love telling tales. anyhow it does happen whether the 'victim' is a somali girl/guy or not. be careful and beware of sleazebags mentioned in the sheeko above

loool..like DOOH