It's a simple and brief question really, but one that got into my mind as i was trying to fall asleep last night. Say a woman leaves her husband. She fears for her safety and life, and not only hers but that of her children as well. Say she fled the country altogether and lives someplace far from her husband. However she is still married to him. Thus after several years she meets someone she thinks is a good man and wants to marry to him. What will she do, as she is still married to her former husband and if she goes back its a risk to her life. Under islamic law what is the best thing for her to do? Also, when answering to this question, could you include some hadith (if there is any and if you know any) related to this? Is she still obliged to get a divorce from her husband, even though of years without communication etc? Also can he refuse to divorce her and has he the right to? Thanks Voice Recognition

^^ Tell him sis.... Bee darling....those pics are like the special effects needed for FF's piece!....But i'll take them off after this post has reached 50 replies....especially for u

^^ How evil...did u have to do that?? Remove those pictures or there'll be murder....MURDER i tell ya!

Truth has nothing to do with it.This simply confirms that the men will automatically stand by their man whereas a woman who runs around wont get any backup from her friends runs around?...easy with the emotional outbursts fellas....that was a joke, however urs was not. we all know thats its men that cant keep their lil friend in their trousers

wow...i liked that

^^ ...haye... u beat me to punch yaah anyway i agree with Qac Qaac...ehm for the first time i think...all this nag nag being exchanged back and forth is useless. What happens happens, who's going to be the man to stop it? A few post on a somali website are gonna solve this how? Be realistic, so you spoke your mind, well good, u should feel better, but don't turn this into some battle. Istacajib

^^ Yes Sir!

Diamante, Eedo, midhaa adigaa waxaaga ila hadal ah oo af-jini laga dhigay. Fiiri, nin ganacsado oo aan waqti ka dhicin ma maqashay waligaa, lacagtana toosh ku raadiyo meesheey gasho? Haa hadeey tahay jawaabta, waa aniga. Hadaba, meeshaan lacag ma taalo, maxaa iigu qasbee inaan meeshan soo galo marwalba oo waqtigeyga dahabka ah ku lumiyo. Eedo, raali ahow, hadaa shaqo rabtid ila socodsii waxaa hada naga banaan boosas ah sida xisaab-dajinta, suuq-geynta alaabaha aan warshada kasoo saarno. Ciyaar maaha runtii, ee fadlan iisoo *** "resume" iyo waayo-aragnimadaada oo kooban. Insha allah, waxaan kuu rajeynayaa inaad noqotid qof waxtar leh oo nala shaqeysta. Privite-ka kusoo qor wixii warbixin iyo meesha lagaaheli karo, sida email, iyo fax. Fadlan phone number kaama rabno hada, sidaas nooga raali ahow. Ganacsade Alleubaahne Muqdisho, Somalia (Ganacsiga soo dajinta iyo dhoofinta Alaabaha warshadeysan) meeshaan lacag mataalo miyaad dhahday?...yaaba kugu yiri lacag kasoo raadso meeshaan...middeedi kalena shaqo raadis ma'ihi walaal, mid aan aaid iyo aad ugu kalsoonahay ayaan heysta, marka taada iska heyso...haddi kale maa SOL ku-post gareysid positionka banaan...maybe kuwaad kusheegeysid shaqo la'aanta ayaa kusoo jawaabidoona. Khalas hadda, waan iska kaa deynayaa...waqtigaada uu "dahabka ah" marabi inaan kaasii lumiyo istacajib

looooooool....at least we're truthful, u gotta give us that

....chinese ppl are just too cute

^^^....alla qof meeshaan maxey isku bogtay :rolleyes: ...faanka noo aayareeysii waxaada waa ii nominate gareya oo af-carabi ah saaxib... qof aadna kashaqo badantahid ama kashaqo yartahid meeshaan majirto...ee think twice next time when u call anyone here shaqo la'aan...comprende

sounds terrific.... getting exited of the prospect of wearing a dirac again first thing you would have to do is figure out how much your budget is....is going to be a big bash or someting intimate....how many people to invite etc then second look for the type of venue/place/hall u would use, how much it would cost you...meeqo qof ayee deeqdaa...eventhough u gave out one ivitation card per person u know they will try and sneak hooyadood, habaryaro, adeero, ayeeyo etc then the catering....how about everyone brings packed lunches/dinners....great money saver, plus no complaints afterwards....u know how somalida are...markey wax kasta dirqijiyaan, ayee wax kasheegaan :rolleyes: lol...or u could ofcourse go for the whole kaboodle...maincourse/dessert n everything. damn i could go on and on...soo u keep us posted...will try and come up with more ideas skips out exitedly, thinking about which colour dirac to wear

"Children Of War" The children of somalia Are left behind Victimised and scandalised Betrayed by those they trusted Shot at and bombarded Sad eyes and bloated bellies Searching through the rubbles In the hope of finding a bone or two...maybe Wandering along the warn torn streets Dodging the bullets from the evil machines Silent...stalking...suffering Not knowing if tomorow will bring their ending Selfish warlods took it all How can this be subjected to a child so small Children should be the apple of our eyes Instead they're killed, abused, and demoralized What's happening, is this supposed to be their fate Discarting of their innocent lives As easily as they were made Somalia, the Horn of Africa, once tall and proud Only bears the cries of the children uttered out loud Is this the ending, or is this the beginning Don't they ever stop at nothing How much more can a child take How many more are they willing to break What can we do but pray to God Keep hope that one day, One will live a bit longer, Eventhoug it's not a lot Children of Somalia, dry your eyes For the day that will bring an end to your suffering will come by ------- Nice piece Il Capo

my fav song goes like this dhabarka iyo laabta iyo, dhinaca wadnaha baad, dhamac kuu beerto, dhaawac baan qabaayee it's called Dhabarka iyo Laabta and its song by Cumar indha Yare, but i believe its a cover, but i dont know who sang it originally anyone knows?

yawn ....yeah yeah whatever so they bleach themselves...cry a river and build me a bridge over it get over this women this women that thing already...uff!

"Oh, sorry to say this but I swear I thought you were a Senegalese because the only few Diamantes that I have met were all from Senegal" I say. hahahahahahaha....waryaaaaa...how dare u say that!...bas waaye..i wont read this anymore...watch my name get dragged thru the mud like that. u know how long it took me to come up with it, and now i watch how it gets destroyed in a sec. exits crying vehemently

I don't think there should be an investigation into who did what during the war. There must be forgiveness for the past. But despite all our problems, we can still live together again. That happens all over the world. such wise words...it brought tears to my eyes walaahi, shows u the strenght of women, and their clear head at times like those. thanks MOTI...bless u for sharing

^^ very well said sis its true that the somali people have recently started to adopt this despicable behaviour. and not only the ones in the west. It's happening back home too. Although they use more harsher stuff. My aunty who went back last year told me that they use oomo iyo saliid mixed together to make some brew they use to kill the fetuses. wax kale iska dhaaf, they are putting their own life at risk..subxanallaah

oh please, j'adore is overrated! It smells nice don't get me wrong but, why the hell does every girl and woman gotta use it. Sometimes u will enter a room and all the women are smelling of j'adore...i get a strange sense of nausea then. variation...thats whats nice

^^^ they actually do??...alla yaa i tuso mid oo saas mirif mirif u leh with that slogan t-shirt...dharbaaxo intaan ugu keeno ayaan sawiradaan dhuunta ugu taraaraxin lahaa, nacala wajida :mad: spits on the ground

naaa...maxaa ugu sheegtay? illusionkiisa haa iskaga noolaadee iska dhaaf P.S. he never knows what he means...early stages of dementia

^^^ they don't like it because of PEOPLE like YOU...u figure it out odayga LOL!!! dawaco ur not joking around yaah! the poor beggar would be skinned alive...they would pounce on him like a christmast feast....ohhh how i would love to capture the fine moments on my Kodak Polariod P.S. how come the sky is blue :rolleyes: (while the stup!d questions are on a roll anyway)

8 Week Aborted Baby 10 Week Aborted Baby 22 Week Aborted Baby I was moved by what you wrote FF, thought i'd add the imagery to make people fully aware of what's done to the babies.

I scare you because I bare the truth I’m wearing the signs When you see me there is no reading between the lines You envision hell as your place to dwell While I envision paradise and its smells I walk with pride on this land We both prostrate for a higher command So stare at me as you please Cause my Nikhab and my clothes bring me appease I love how you got the last lines together. Hope we see more of you....keep them coming sis

Luuqluuq marow lazim laamigaas kusoo dhacaa. Canjeero sii u kala koreeso aaloo kala qaataa. Khamro hadaas cabtid, marqaan aad noqohee Like DUH... tank yuu Nin Yaaban...saan u qoslaayay baan fuuray reer xamar ppl like simplicity yaah