Innalhamdulillah....Wa salamu alaykum.... I was only interested in whether dreams were, in essence, the true status of man-kind or not. brothers....please stop thinking so hard... Allah Said in the quran...and since im pressed for time i cant get it now....but no doubt inshallah one of these days ill get it and post it....He Allah said that he has left anothing out in the Quran...everything we need to know is there!if not the sunnah! You are talkin about Dreams....The messenger of Allah saas...told us what dreams are.... Muhammad bin Sirin said, "But I say this." He said, "It used to be said, 'There are three types of dreams: 1)The reflection of one's thoughts and experiences one has during wakefulness, 2) what is suggested by Satan to frighten the dreamer, 3) or glad tidings from Allah. So, if someone has a dream which he dislikes, he should not tell it to others, but get up and offer a prayer." Brothers....oh why do u seek a different meaning....why do u seek some hidden meaning... While they have no knowledge thereof. They follow but a guess, and verily, guess is no substitute for the truth.(53:28) And the messenger of Allah...Clearly explain to mankind the reasons behind dreams! Then one of the brother uses works from yahyharun...a well know extreme sufi...who believes in Wahdatul Wujood I Know some brothers who met this Guy... Yahyaharun refutated: http://www.somaliaonline.com/ubb/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=3;t=001315

Innalhamdulillah....Salamu alaykum Akhee you cant sit with those people...they bash Allah and speak Evil of The Rasul..SaaS...In surah 4:141 or 4:140 Allah said do not sit at a gathering when the verse of Allah are being mocked...then in that case you would be like them.... inshallah... look at the verse! we are not allow to be in their company! there is another ayat about that as well i believe surah 5!

Innalhamdulillah....Wa salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah Saafi baarakallahu feekee....try this one http://www.qss.org/articles/salah/toc.html the first Site worked for me....But inshallah this one should work!

Innalhamdulillah...wa salamu alaykum Sis OG...U fail to realize the discussion at hand here... No one disputes Polygamy... we are saying...if a men marries a women....then wishes to marry a second...does the first wife have the right to ask for divorce?...is this a legitimate reason for divorce...cause she doesnt want him to marry again... thats what we are discussing! Not if Polygamy is from islam or not! or the conditions to polygamy...we are discussing divorce!

Innalhamdulillah….Wa salamu alaykum…. May Allah soak you with his mercy Bulo…. No doubt…I’m aware of this hadith…however if u look at the explanation of this hadith….look at Riyad-us-Saleen…She asked for divorce cause she found him to be ugly…and she only realized he was ugly when she saw him with these two other men…He was short compared to them… not pleasing to the eyes. this is a valid reason! No doubt a woman can seek divorce for many reasons… However My beloved Sister the question I put forward is, 1) Can a women seek divorce simply cause her Husband wish to marry a second…Is this a valid reason? Knowing fully that it is Halaal for him to do so! I say no…its not a valid reason… And about being just with them…as you have already read, I have provided proves concerning this! No need to bring it up again. Sister May Allah bless you, do some research and tell me what you come up with….If you establish clear prove against me….Then By Allah I will submit…we hear…and we Obey… Inshallah I will take this to the people of knowledge to get further clarification, Indeed the Scholars are the inheritors of the Prophet! X-Q walaal eeka raliihow…. I seek your forgiveness first then I seek the forgiveness of Allah Jala Wala….The believers are but mirrors of one another! If I have said anything that harmed you…I take it back…and I ask that you forgive me…lest Allah should hold me accountable! OG_ Girl May Allah grant you the highest place in Jannah … Polygamy is encouraged! And permitted! About being Just to them…you seem to misunderstand what that implies…its not with the heart…you may Love one more then the other…like the messenger of Allah saas loved Aisha more then his other wives….refer to one of my earlier post concerning this….the Tafsir of Ibn Kathir! From the narration of Sa’eed ibn Jubayr who said: “Ibn Abbaas asked me: “Have you married yet?” I answered no, so he said: “Marry! For the best of this ummah are those with the most women.” Collected by Al-Bukhaaree in the book of Marriage, chapter: Plurality of Women [no. 5069]. THis is Prove that is it encouraged! Bulo...as for a women fearing that she will not be able to fullfil her husband's right...I say what is preventing her from doing so...Cause she will be emotionaly torn...why cause she has no faith in the ayats of Allah? or is it that she objects to his ayats? A3udubillah Allahu musta3an

Innalhamdulillah...wa Salamu alaykum islam has given women the right to choose X-Q more bla bla bla...If islam gave u the right to choose to divorce your husband simply cause he wants to marry a second wife....then where oh where is ur prove....give me an ayat....give me a hadith....give me a fatwah...From well know scholars of islam! X-Q Shame on u...for rely on ur opinion...this is why we are humilated around the world...cause people like u...who resort to their desires...instead of askin those who Know like were suppose to do. Nay, but those who do wrong follow their own lusts without knowledge, Then who will guide him whom Allâh has sent astray? And for such there will be no helpers. (30:29) And so judge (you O Muhammad SAW) between them by what Allâh has revealed and follow not their vain desires, but beware of them lest they turn you (O Muhammad SAW) far away from some of that which Allâh has sent down to you.(5:49) Taliban Mind...Nah I aint down with the Taaliban...or their Khawarij like views. i reply on Kitab& and sunnah understood by the first three generation of the Muslims ie companions and those who followed them =Salafiyyah One last note: the messenger of Allah said," Do not acquire knowledge to argue with the ignorant."(muslim) So i leave u be!

Innalhamdulillah... X-Q Excellent? do u even know who that is X-Q or its that u take from anyone who agrees with ur thoughts! Instead of bla bla bla'in why dont u take the time to open Tafsir Ibn Kathir...and look up that Ayat...Surah 4...look for the explanation of it...Plus i gave u a site where the scholars of islam speak ...regarding this Ayat...But noooooooooooo did u take the time to look at it.... Also about the Messenger marrying more the 4 wive...yes it was a previlege and Allah said so...well its also a previleage for us to marry 4 wives cause Allah said so! Yes he didnt ask permission...nor did the Abu Bakr he has more then one wife..and those who followed them...So stop making this up.Like islam was invented yesterday! And as for that article Balul Posted...first, NO one knows who He is or They, they are unknown...Second he didnt provide one hadith or ayat to prove his case...So boooooooooooooo to u . So u reason..since we are not at war and there are planty of women around...there is no need for Polygamy...This is not the way the people of the SUnnah and way the scholars understood this...rather this is from the ignorant ones...Plus did the messenger of Allah say this..."oh marry more then one women cause we are at war" No rather i say this to u...the messenger of Allah(saas) said there will come a time when women will be 50 to 1 ration to man...and not cause of war! look at the states...they women population is double that of man...when when was the last time The USA had a war in their land! did the companions reason like you... X-Q maybe u thing islam is left to the opinion of Man..i think this ...i think that..bla bla bla bla .rather we stick to the narrations...and the scholar who are the inheritors of the PRophet...Submit, do not make up things to justify what you dont like! Its just a matter of submitting to Allah's commandments!

Innalhamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum Hey Bulu who is this? Name of Consultant Amani Aboul Fadl Fara NOnetheless...Never did i say Divorce is not permissable...rather it is from islam and its halal to ask for divorce...i merely said that to ask for divorce you need a ligitamate reason...maybe he beats u...Maybe he neglects his duty...He doesnt do his responsibility...all these are ligitamate reasons....But kNow that one can not ask for divorce simply cause the husband wishes to marry a second wife. This in itself is not a ligitamate reason... wAALAL dONT PUT words in my mouth!

Innalhamdulillah..Wa salamu alaykum X-Q The Teacher of Shaykh Uthaymeen( Was one of the leading scholar of islam) Rahimulillah His teacher said this: Imaam ‘Abdur-Rahmaan Ibn Naasir as-Sa’dee [d. 1376] says in the commentary of these verses [pg. 208]: “Allaah, the Most High, informs us that husbands do not have the ability to be completely just between wives, and that is because complete justice requires the presence of equal love, attraction, and an inclination of the heart, and then the action this necessitates, and this is impossible, therefore Allaah has pardoned him for what he is not able (to do), and has prohibited him from that which he has the ability with His Statement “So do not incline too much to one of them so as to leave the other hanging…”. Meaning, do not incline heavily to one (over the other) to the point where you do not give them their obligatory rights, rather do all that is in your power to be just (between them). So, maintenance, clothing, the division of time etc., it is upon you to be equal between them in these, as opposed to love, sexual intercourse, etc., so if the husband abandons his wife she becomes as if she is suspended, neither divorced so as to marry, nor married where she receives her rights.” [End of the words of As-Sa’dee] U can read the whole fatawah..Here. http://www.troid.org/articles/sisters/nikaah/ardentdesire.pdf This topic is address by the likes of Imam shawkaanee...Ibn Kathir..Ibn Taymiyyah..Etc.. X-Q if u do not know any of these people Ask brother NUR... NOr does the Man need the permission of his first wive to marry a second one...This is evident that the Messenger of Allah(saa) never asked permission to marry a second one...Truly he is our example!

Innalhamdulillah....Wa aSalamu alaykum x-Q ...Ur reasoning is Ajeeb. never before did the people of knowledge speak of it...U do not have a choice and if so please provide with some sorta prove for ur disgreement dont insert your opinion...Cause we as muslims we dont follow the opinions of fulan fulan.... Like i said Earlier...its not permissable for a women to ask for a divorce cause her husband wants to get married to a second women...as for Being just to them all...he is only required to be just them in a financial way...or Materialistic way.Which by the way is possible...however he way love one wive more then the other...Like the messenger of Allah(saas) love Aisha more then all his other wives...He heart was incline to her more...this is not something any human can control...So u are not held accountable By Allah...Refer to the Book of Ibnul Qayyim on multiple marriage Also Tafsir Ibn Kathir on the poligamy of this aayat.... So X-Q its funny when people use that line....oh people married more then one wife cause of the war...bla bla bla...no men...bla bla bla...Actually they marry more then one wife cause Allah said so! simple as that. Dont resort to emotions....Rather back up your claims with Ilm! IF You dont want a man who wants to marry more then one wife...then put it in ur contract...But dont come her and make up lame excuses...based on Emotions! warya QAC QAC this one is for u!

Innalhamdulillahh...Wa salamu alaykum Yes im 100% sure its false...What do u mean i dont think its bad to spread this message...This message is lying about our Beloved Messenger(saas) Saying he said somethign he did not say....If u spread this...Know that u are spreading lies about The messenger of Allah... He Also said," whoever says, i said such and such...but i did not...then let him prepared his seat in the fire."(Bukhari) If i were you i would delete this post ASAP!

Innalhamdulillah...wa salamu alaykum So Mutawakil you didnt mention if u passed or not?

Innalhamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum EVeryone here would agree that Poligamy is halal...I also sense that some of the sisters do not wish to be in that kind of relationship...Well sisters but u have no guarantees. IF you marry a men...and after few years of marriage he decides to marry a second women...You cant do anything about it...NOr can u ask for a divorce...To divorce a man u need a ligitamite reason...and this aint one of them. its one of his rights From Allah...Therefore...U never know...u just may be the first of many wives to come...

Innalhamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum the above text is false and made up...There is no Shaykh Ahmed from Madinah...Actually this fabrications was imtroduced in 1986 by some people who wanted to play a trick on the Muslims....Ya muslimeen Know that the above mentioned story is fiction! So its best to delete it! i got this from a forward some years back...I see its still circalating!

Innalhamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum The topic is purely concerned with the debate of 'are we really living, or can we tell whether we aren't dreaming? One last note on this Post! This is ajeeb to say the least but what this does is to confuse the reader and make them use their intellect before they use the Qur’aan and Sunnah, hence man’s intellect is made to be superior then the sources of Revelation. Clearly this manner of argument has not been seen with regards to the salaf(companions..tabein..etc), they never and still do not use man’s flawed intellect and reasoning over the Haqq of the Qur’aan and authentic ahaadeeth Source: Refutation of YahyaHarun...Salafitalk.net

Innalhamdullah..Wa salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah Hey J11 i have a question for u...Did the Messenger of Allah(saas) speak of this?...did his companions speak of this?...did those who followed them speak of this?....Did the Scholars of Islam speak of this? This is similar to the man who said that the Quran was created! Imam baarbaharee(d.375) said the following... May Allaah have mercy upon you! Know that the Sunnah is not a matter for analogies or reasoning with examples, and desires are not to be followed in it. Rather, it is just a case of affirming the narrations from Allaah's Messenger (sallallaahu alaihi wasallam), without asking how, explaining or saying: 'Why?' or 'How?' May Allah have mercy upon you! Know that heresy, disbelief, doubts, innovations, misguidance and confusion about the religion have never occurred except through theological rhetoric (Kalaam) and because of the people of theological rhetoric, argumentation, debating and disputation. How can a man plunge into argumentation, disputation and debating seeing that Allah, the Most High, said: None dispute regarding the Ayaat (revelations, signs, proofs) of Allah except those who disbelieve [1]. You should submit to and be pleased with the narrations and the people of narrations, withhold and remain silent. Kitaab Sharh us-Sunnah by Al-Barbahaaree

'are we really living, or can we tell whether we aren't dreaming? The fact that we are held accountable for our actions and deeds prove that we are living...the fact that when we die...we indure the punishment of the grave shows that we are living...what proves does anyone have that we are simply dreaming..From quran and Sunnah?.none...just speculating rethoric...which is an innovation...and all Innovation is in the fire!

This particular refutation underlines the Sufi heretical understanding of Wahdatul Wujood which Harun Yahya subtly promotes in his books. The website from which this article is taken will be omitted. The content of this article, however, is, to the best of my knowledge, sound, insha'allaah: InshaAllaah, I have by the grace of Allaah been able to summarize the main evidences of the deviation of the book by Harun Yahya entitled “The Evolution Deceit: The scientific collapse of Darwinism and its ideological background”. InshaAllaah, the book that I specifically refer to is approximately 5.3 inches by 7.2-inches, it is a paperback book and a color version. THE front page has half a skull depicted on the left hand side and the tile of the book is in orange and white, with Harun Yahya’s name in orange at the bottom right hand side of the page. This version is often distributed free amongst many organizations. Like how I too received it Free, Indeed the first time I came across it was in such a manner, and I have to admit I did not read it and assumed it would be fine, InshaAllaah I will never make such a mistake again in the future, however when I did read it I was very impressed by the manner in which the theory of Evolution is refuted, and I never made it to the end chapter. However the deviation of Harun Yahya is not evident in the initial chapters of his book as his deviated ideology and concepts are contained in the final chapters, entitled “The Mystery of Matter” and “The Relativity of Time and the Reality of Fate”, pages 159 - 190. InshaAllaah this book also has some summarized version that are also distributed for free sometimes but I do not know of the precise tile, And to the best of my knowledge the book I am speaking of is identical to the Harun Yahya book that can be purchased from his website. He uses very dodgy English translation to Confuse people in to thinking nothing in the world exists except Allaah, We are all his Shadows and Reflection, Audho billaah. He usually quotes Imaam Rabbaani & Ibn Arabi who was executed for his Heretical Beliefs; Harun Yahya’s tendency to use Kalaam in his arguments is not from the Manhaj or Aqeedah of any of the salaf. InshaAllaah I will quote some of his deviated wordings and reference the page numbers from the book I have with me. Page 160: Yahya writes: “The Mystery of Matter” “...Still others have heard that in the Qur’ân it is written that Allah is ‘everywhere’ but they cannot perceive what this exactly means. They tacitly think that Allaah surrounds everything like radio waves or like an invisible, intangible gas. However, this notion and other beliefs that are unable to make clear ‘where Allah’ is (and maybe deny Him because of that) are all based on a common mistake. They hold a prejudice without any grounds an then are moved to wrong opinions of Allah…” Clearly what Harun Yahya does here, as he does elsewhere, is to use a persons intellect in order to ponder about Allah in terms of where He is. We know as it is mentioned in various ahaadeeth and in the Qur’aan that Allaah is above the seven Heavens and arose over His Throne in a manner, which suits His Majesty. We therefore can make clear where Allaah is as we have the textual proofs from both the Qur’aan and Sunnah. Allaah says in the Noble Qur’aan words to the effect: (Al-A’raf: 54) “Indeed your Lord is Allaah, Who created the heavens and the earth in 6 days, and then He rose over (istawaa) the Throne (really in a manner that suits His Majesty)…” Harun Yahya is very subtle in spreading his dodgy beliefs, and in a very subtle manner prepares the reader for the rest of the falsehood he will propagate further in the Book mentally causing them to ponder over Allah in a manner that we have been prohibited from. The quote I give from Yahya’s book is only one of many examples that can be found in his book. Harun Yahya further confuses the reader by making claims that the world does not exist, that it is a mere illusion, and that its all within our brains, that its all based on electrical signals. This is ajeeb to say the least but what this does is to confuse the reader and make them use their intellect before they use the Qur’aan and Sunnah, hence man’s intellect is made to be superior then the sources of Revelation. Clearly his manner of argument has not been seen with regards to the salaf-as-salih, they never and still do not use man’s flawed intellect and reasoning over the Haqq of the Qur’aan and authentic ahaadeeth. Here are some more examples from Harun Yahya’s Book: Page 163: “ ‘The External World’ is Inside the Brain” …Everything that we perceive as the “matter”, “world” or “universe” is nothing but electrical signals occurring in our brain…… Simply put, the fruit is nothing but the interpretation of electrical signals by the brain” “…For instance, someone who watches the stars in the sky assumes that they are millions of light-years away from him. Yet what he “sees” are really the stars inside himself…” “…. Distance, which is to say the distance between you and this book, is only a feeling of emptiness formed in your brain…” “...While you read these lines, you are, in truth, not inside the room you assume you are in; on the contrary, the room is inside you…” “….However, you must remember that your body, too, is an image formed inside your brain….” Page 164: “… The truth of the matter is rather all the qualities we ascribe to objects are inside us and in the ‘external world’…” Page 165: “… However since we can never actually reach the ‘external world’, how can we be sure that such a world really exists? Actually we cannot….” “…The only world we know of is the world that exists in our mind: the one hat is designed, recoded, and made vivid there; the one, in short, that is created within our mind. This is the only world we can be sure of…” Page 166: “…in reality, you have neither hand nor eye, nor is there anything that can be touched or seen. There is no material reality that makes these things happen except your brain. Your are simply being deceived…” Page 167: “…The book in your hand, the room you are in, in brief, all the images in front of you are seen inside your brain….” Page 182: “…there is no valid proof of the existence of a three- dimensional world…” Page 190: “…When spacelessness is comprehended, it will be understood that hell, heaven and earth are all actually at the same place…” Harun Yahya continues to discuss his twisted interpretation of the individuals’ perception of the world in many more examples in the book however I don’t think it is necessary that write out all of his crap book in order to give you a few examples of his deviation. In Sharh-us-Sunnah, Imaam al-Barbahaaree states, point number 23: “To have faith that Paradise is true and real and that the Fire is true and real and that both are already created...” this one single sentence from the noble Imaam of ahlus-sunnah proves that the world is real and that it is not merely a big “illusion” or big “dream” and that we are living right now right here. Also it confirms that created things are not all connected in the manner in which Harun Yahya propagates, indeed we are free from the lies of the Soofies and are separate entities living independent lives and we know this because we will all be resurrected on the Day of Resurrection as individual beings, and indeed that day we will run from each other and be concerned with our own affairs. Clearly, we have proofs that the world does exist in reality and is not within a human being; for example the hadeeth of the Israa and Mi’raaj clearly shows the present existence of Paradise and the Fire. (Saheeh al-Bukhaaree, English Translation vol. 5, no. 227; and Saheeh Muslim English translation vol. 1, no’s 309 –322). InshahAllaah there are many more examples whereby the Muslims of Ahlus-Sunnah-wal-Ja’maah are required to believe in the existence of the creation as it is integral to our ‘aqeedah. For example we believe and confirm that the Qur’aan is the pure, flawless and uncreated speech of Allaah, we believe that the Messenger of Allaah sallallahu ‘alayhi wassallam was the best of mankind, and so forth. I am sure that you yourself are aware of many more examples whereby we confirm that the world and all of our experiences, sightings etc are real and true. Clearly in Imaam Barbahaaree’s creed, point number 155, states “…Do not use analogy on anything”. Meaning opinion and analogy have no place in matters of creed. Page 170, Yahya states: “…Only Allah exists: everything except Him are shadow beings. Consequently, it is impossible to conceive Allah as a separate being outside this whole mass of mater. Allah is surely ‘everywhere’ and encompasses all…” “...the fact that Allah is not bound with space and that He encompasses everything roundabout is stated in another verse as follows: To Allah belong the east and west: Wheresoever ye turn, there is the presence of Allah. For Allah is all-Pervading, all-Knowing. (Surat al-Baqara’115)…” “…. No vision can grasp Him, but His grasp is over all vision (Surat al-Anaam. 103)… While we watch these sensory perceptions in the course of our lives, the closest being to us is not any one of these sensations, but Allah Himself…” “…it is impossible for man who is nothing but a shadow being, to have a power and will independent of Allah…” “…since a human being is a shadow being, it cannot be itself which performs that act of throwing. However, Allah gives this shadow being the feeling of the Self. In reality, it is Allah Who performs all acts…” Page 179: “…Proving that the whole world is in reality a ‘shadow being’, this subject is the key to comprehending the existence of and creation by Allah and of understanding that He is the only absolute being…” Page 180: “…this reality has been understood by a number of Atheists or philosophers throughout history. Islamic intellectuals such as Imaam Rabbani and Muhyyidin Ibn Arabi realized this fact from the signs of the Qur’an and by using their reason…” “…Rabbani wrote in his Mektubat (Letters) that the whole material world universe is an ‘illusion and supposition (perception)’ and that the only absolute being is Allah……..there is nothing in the outside except the Glorious Being, (who is Allah)……..” Page 181 “…Rabbani have written that it might have been inconvenient to tell this fact to the masses and that most people would not be able to grasp it…” Page 190: “…Allah is nearer to the man than his jugular vein (Surah Qaf, 16). As everybody knows, the jugular vein is inside the body. What could be near to a person then his inside….” “…Allah sees and knows Allah with the five sense and with all other sense. Withersoever we turn there is the presence of Allah….” SobhanAllaah Harun Yahya clearly puts forward his soofi ideas in this part of the book. He claims Allah is within people, that we are all Allaah, that Allaah is everywhere. istakfurAllaah wallaahu musta’aan. Allaah is not everywhere. Indeed he is free from such a vile accusation. However we know that Allaah is everywhere in terms of His knowledge and not physically manifestation. Also Allah says in the Noble Qur’aan words to the effect: (Al-Baqarah: 186) “When My slaves ask you concerning Me, (answer them), I am indeed near. I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me. So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright.” This shows us that Allaah is all-Knowing and all-Hearing and nothing escapes. InshaAllaah brother there are many more examples that I am sure you know of from the Qur’aan and Sunnah that tells us of Allaah and how he is separate from His creation. SobhanAllaah.[...] [Website URL omitted] So Brothers in faith this is only from one of his many book I have quoted, I hope that we should take care in propagating his works as it not befitting that we should be propagating the deviations, innovations, falsehoods, lies and filth of soofies such as Harun Yahya. If we are indeed Muslim then we should not hesitate to get rid of his Books of deviation, which clearly could lead innocent Muslim people astray and Allaah’s refuge, is sought. If you need anymore information from us please feel free to email us and ask of it. Also please forgive me for having made any mistakes for they are indeed from the accursed shaytaan. And take this as a small and humble attempt from your Brother in Islaam to help to propagate the truth and try and preserve al-Islaam from the corruption of the innovator and deviated groups, parties and individuals. I make du’a that we all die upon the truth and upon the sound Aqeedah and Manhaj of the saved sect. May Allaah reward us all for our efforts with the best of Rewards. And may we aim our efforts towards the goal of seeking the face of Allah. Wassalaam ‘alaykum warahmatullahi wa barakaatohu Remember that our beloved Prophet sallallahu 'alayhi wasallam stated "I have left you upon clear proof, its night is like its day, no one deviates except that he is destroyed, and whoever amongst you lives for long will see great controversy. So stick to that which you know of my Sunnah and the Sunnah of the Rightly Guided Caliphs, cling to that with your molar teeth" [Reported by Ahmad (4/126); Ibn Maajah (no 43); al-Haakim (1/96), from al-Irbaad ibn Saariyah - declared saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaanee in as-Saheehah (no 937)] And I pray to Allaah to give us the right knowledge and Guide us and Grant the Ummah to loving the truth and its people. {Aameen} Wassalaamualaykum,

Innahamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum.... Hey Mutaakalim would you concur this is 'Ilmul Kaalim'? So in this order, although it could mean that we were not created first as flesh and bones, our souls existed before the creation of bodies and minds. How do u know this? As far as i know Adam Body was fashioned and created before his soul was... So mutakalam you see... my thoughts were purely speculative My thoughts exactly! First, no proof can be obtained for dreams, rather, the existence of dreams are like myths and legends Did u ever read the Verse...that says,"And you have been only given limited knowledge." I have used all available evidence to conceptialise what I was putting across. What evidence u just said above that u can not really prove it...and that ur simplity guessing. what are Dreams...these are dreamss... Hadith - Sahih Bukhari 9:144, Narrated Abu Huraira Allah's Apostle said, "When the Day of Resurrection approaches, the dreams of a believer will hardly fail to come true, and a dream of a believer is one of forty-six parts of prophetism, and whatever belongs to prothetism can never be false." Muhammad bin Sirin said, "But I say this." He said, "It used to be said, 'There are three types of dreams: The reflection of one's thoughts and experiences one has during wakefulness, what is suggested by Satan to frighten the dreamer, or glad tidings from Allah. So, if someone has a dream which he dislikes, he should not tell it to others, but get up and offer a prayer." He added, "He (Abu Huraira) hated to see a Ghul (i.e., iron collar around his neck in a dream) and people liked to see fetters (on their feet in a dream). The fetters on the feet symbolizes one's constant and firm adherence to religion." And Abu 'Abdullah said, "Ghuls (iron collars) are used only for necks." U see J11 u have good dreams or bad dreams...one is from Allah to conver a glad tiding...the other from Shaytain....thats all Subhanallah...walal u need to stop guessing. Allah said indeed guessing is not a substitute for the truth! Hadith - Muslim 5640, Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah, r.a. Allah's Messenger said: There came to him (the Prophet) a desert Arab and said: I saw in a dream that I had been beheaded and I had been following it (the severed head). Allah's Apostle reprimanded him saying: Do not inform about the vain sporting of devil with you during the night. saying, "A good dream is from Allah, so if anyone of you saw a dream which he liked, he should not tell it to anybody except to the one whom he loves, and if he saw a dream which he disliked, then he should seek refuge with Allah from its evil and from the evil of Satan, and spit three times (on his left) and should not tell it to anybody, for it will not harm him." That is what dreams are...And we were created...To worship Allah alone...U will not be helped accountable for what happends in your dream...But in Life u are accountable for everything you do....thats is the difference....

Innalhamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum she did not say she did "zina" a'odu bellah. Sis May Allah shower you with his blessings..I did say She did it...it was a general advice and warning to all those who read it...Indeed our beloved Messageer (SaaS),said,'the religion is advice." Therefore i advice her to make tawbah(return to Allah)... Allaah – the Most High – has placed in everyone that He has created, a heart which must be filled; either with submission and servitude to Allaah, or with submission and servitude to other than Allaah. Every single heart has feelings, desires and inclinations. The question is: will those feelings, desires and inclinations be directed to Allaah alone, or will they be directed to other than Allaah?

Innalhamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum it was over a year ago, it will be 2 years in september since we broke-up HUh these words are foreign to me...what do you mean you broke up...You where not married to him? were You dating for two years...and your family was aware of this? May Allah save us from earning the wrath of Allah...Sister this is not love what your experiencing..By allah love is only produced when people love each other for the pleasure of Allah...and how can you love each other for the sake of Allah when your doing and act with is free from Islam? ...Sis the cure lies in returning to Allah...Seeking his forgiveness..pouring out your heart to him...and He will replace your lost with something better, that which is Halal...BEWARE OF ZINA...ITS ONE OF THE GREATEST SINS IN The SIGHT OF ALLAH!

Innalhamdulilah...Wa salamu alaykum baarakallahu feek akhee feelah!

Innalhamdulillah...Wa salamu alaykum Introspection: is the direct observation or rumination of one's own heart, mind and/or soul and its processes Baarakallahu feekum Mutakalim...May Allah grant you a lofty place in Jannah...

Innalhamdulillah...Wa Salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah Brothers and sisters...if you are among those who desire to shun your bad habits and looking for a cure...May I suggest you go and read one of my post on Salaat...It was an Advice By Imam Ahmed Ibn Hanbal...guaranteed it will increase ur iman..Inshallah.The Post is entitled: Come read it it will increase ur iman!Guaranteed! Try it out!

Innalhamdulillah..>Wa Salamu alaykum... Do you know that Islam does not have a system of governance? What do u mean by this sentence..Care to expand on it more! As for Abu Bakr Being the First Khalifah...It was not necessary for the Messenger of Allah to appoint him as such! Everyone knew abu Bakr's status,and how the Messenger saas Praised and spoke of ABu Bakr's virtue! EVen Umar Said HE competed with Abu Bakr in everythign and never beat him...HIs Status spoke for himself...As for the rest of the Companions they knew that no on was better then Abu Bakr to lead them...then Abu bakr Chose Umar..Then Umar CHose Six of them...why? cause they were all suitable for the position...All those six where guaranteeed Paradise while still alive by the messenger of Allah...So it was irrelevant who Became Khalifah after him...since they were all qualified to be one...Also...As for choosing a leader...the sunnah has also covered this aspect of Islam...Give me few days to find the correct documents! there is a system for electing a leader.