Daam...Waa iiga hormatay...Very unprotected indeed.

Only conformist capitlist fat pigs like Dat States would celebrate V-day. It is just a nice day to milk your wallet and why choose dat day only to express your love to your significant other. The whole thing is very scripted and very impersonal to say the least and not mention un-Islamic. Why follow the herd. Choose your own day....a perhaps a day dat represents a significant milestone in your relationship. Mine is 15 feb and it is great.....Less crowded places, empty resruarants, better service n da list goes on.

NG is on his hoenymoon in Seychelles with his second wife....Will be back soon Org...dats harsh...take it easy buddy

Originally posted by Ahura: QUOTE]* Points Che towards the politics forum * Over there, luv -----> Just disecting Somali behavior....Nothing political walaal!! Waterlily.....Facing the wrong of a gun would have definately changed anybody. Imagine getting wacked for no reason. The explanation for doing away somebody is supposedly that there are descents of mythical lost arab who came to the shores of Somalia....Geeze man, do I look Arab. MMA.....I understand where you are coming from, but there is real possiblity that he actually did it. Lets keep an open and let court deal with it.

Originally posted by The Rendezvous...: quote: TEN: I was particularly put off by this lady.I felt that we need to strive more to reduce tensions between our families.One issue that is normally forgotten is that Marriages and Love are "Nurtured" right from day one.Then there is "Sabar"(Patience).You must permit yourself to persevere a lot for "your loved one".. Do u think so? I think you are forgetting the fact it takes two to fail at relationships and marriages in particular. Be more reflective Saaxib and ask yourself is that Somali men are doing to put off our women. Don't just dump this at their feet and blame them for divorce rate.

Well Kat.....I was qabiilist and for good reason. As kid who saw the horrors of 91, everyone was forced to choose side and Hate the other side. Period, it is hard to like or respect the people who want to cut off your neck literally, or who rape your women not even leaving your 70 years granma. Before the war, I didn't know my qabiil and as kid who was born in Xamar, it didn't really matter to us. My ciyaal xaafad were more important to me than my qabiil, but sadly the very ciyaal I used to hang out with were calling me "Fa-q-ash" came 1991 and wanted my throat slit. Through experiences i do only came to dislike or even hate certain segments of Somali society soley based on their Qabiil background. Lucky for me, I grew older and wiser, and came to find out all Somalis were the same. Every Somali that took part in the massacres of innocent maryooley from Hargeysa to Kismayo can't tell why is that they had to murder their fellow Somalis and those in Xamar were no diffirent. I doubt anyone of them knew why he or she would want me dead considering the fact that I have never harmed anyone in my life and I was no fan of the Barre regime. Somalis have mob mentality. We need to break away from that and become our own individuals.

Iam just little puzzled people.....Everyone who replied to this post and that includes me sort of indicated that they are not tribalist N that's all good. Now the question is we ain't da hardcare qabiilists maryooley...who is?...n mind you we are good sample atleast to an extent of the larger somali people population that could used to measure our qabillist tendencies. What are the chances of this many Non-qabillist maryooley meeting in one place?.

When did Hannibal become the leader of The Carthaginians ? N let continue with da assissanation with theme...when was Che Guevara killed?

^^^^^Iam sure we do have a collection of sickos!!!!

Castro...We as Somalis Need Cultural Reformation. We use value system that has outlived its purpose. Essentially, the Somali race is unable to reform and move forward!!!

Very sad, but hilarious at times specially the Sikh dude, and the fat dude drove by house and saw the cops there, yet came back to the house looking for a victim...how perverted can you get. Even the presence of the cops didn't discourage this guy. N Iam happy they caught the school teacher!!!

^^^A point can be made....loooool

Well we could counter their support of sangub by coming out in support of the girl, and making our voices heard in the court and media. Hopefully Qabiilism won't undo our efforts since the brightest of us usually fall for that.

^^^^^Those were possible solutions. Somalis need to figure what is that they seek in a relationship first. Put the effort and time in your relationship and be honest with each other. These marriages fail coz the couple don't really know each other and each other's needs. As maryooley, we hurry through things,and tell each other what we want to hear not what need to be said. Only after the couple actually get married do our true personality shows up. I believe knowing the person you gonna is key to succesful marriage.

Every Society whether be Somalis or Non-Somalis are plagued by the same problems.Looking for someone else outside your culture to solve these issues is not bright idea as that someone is not immune to the very problems that you are running away from. If these women are looking for love for the right reasons.....We wish them luck and success, but if they believe men from cultures are diffirent than Faaraxs, then they might be in rude surpise. Either way, I hope they find Happiness. And as for the divorce problem among maryooley, I think Somalis jump in too quickly into everything. One must know what he or she is looking in a patner before actually commiting to marriage. Most Somalis don't take the time or make the effort to know each other's needs. You gotta figure out your own needs first and that of your patner, and then see if both of you are looking the same thing. N to do this, one must be honest!!!!!!..

Originally posted by Laba_Xiniinyood: Che , what have i said that could be counter-productive? That we should kill those who insult the prophet? Kill away buddy, Just do not say I and millions of fellow muslims don't love or respect The Prophet PBUH.

Laba...... you ain't in the hearts and minds of every Muslim Walaal. To make such statements is completely uncessesary and counter-productive.

Originally posted by Rahima: I hate the Simpson’s and all the other adult cartoons. [/QB] Try "King of the Hill"...I think it is decent n funny too.

I think Yeey and the warlords in xamar have a better chance of becoming a legimate Somali Gov than Ms Edna and her administration securing Somaliland her independence.The leadership of Somaliland can't take their masses to the promised land. They are simply out of steam and out of ideas.Picking up fights with Pland is the next best thing to feeling like a state. besides, that keep the Sland masses preoccupied, and gets the goverment off the hook for its incompatency.

Togane is no qabiilist.The old man might be vulgar and harsh in his approach when addressing the Somali masses, but he is right for most part. OLOL.....Yeey muxuu kaa galay.Asaga xamar kaama soo cayrin, but there is no denying inuu ibtilo yahe.I

^^^^True a boy can grow up to be useless to his parents. I think what is driving this sad the phenomena is financial burden parents endure when they are marrying off their daughters, and the simple fact that many people in India like most world believe girls are inferior sex. Sadly this deep-rooted cultural bias coupled with the abuse of modern technology is proving to be a deadly combination. India 'lost birth' study disputed India banned gender selection and selective abortion in 1994 A top Indian doctors' association has disputed a report which says more than 10m female births may have been lost over the past two decades. Researchers in India and Canada said in the Lancet journal prenatal selection and selective abortion was causing the loss of 500,000 girl births a year. But the Indian Medical Association said pre-birth gender checks had waned since a Supreme Court crackdown in 2001. There has been no reaction from the Indian government. A spokesman for the Indian Medical Association acknowledged that prenatal selections used to take place, but said they were not as widespread as before and that the Lancet report was exaggerated. "This has not been happening for the past four or five years after strict laws were put in place," the spokesman, Dr Narendra Saini, said. 'Sensational The research by Prabhat Jha of St Michael's Hospital at the University of Toronto, Canada, and Rajesh Kumar of the Postgraduate Institute of Medical Research in Chandigarh, India found that there was an increasing tendency to select boys when previous children had been girls. If there were half a million foeticides a year the sex ratio would have been very skewed indeed Prof SC Gulati, Delhi Institute of Economic Growth Indian experts differed over the findings. "It is a sensational piece of work," Sabu George, who campaigns against female foeticide, told the AFP news agency. "We are very, very concerned about this study." Others say it is impossible that India could have lost 10m females. "If there were half a million foeticides a year, the sex ratio would have been very skewed indeed," said Prof SC Gulati of Delhi's Institute of Economic Growth. In 1994, India banned the use of technology to determine the sex of unborn children and the termination of pregnancies on the basis of gender. However, research for the year 2001 showed that for every 1,000 male babies born in India, there were just 933 girls. Leading campaigners say many of India's fertility clinics continue to offer a seemingly legitimate facade for a multi-billion pound racket and that gender determination is still big business in India. The researchers said the "girl deficit" was more common among educated women but did not vary according to religion. Experts in India say female foeticide is mostly linked to socio-economic factors. It is an idea that many say carries over from the time India was a predominantly agrarian society where boys were considered an extra pair of hands on the farm. The girl child has traditionally been considered inferior and a liability - a bride's dowry can cripple a poor family financially.

^^^^^^^^^^^I n Mr Indhacade will need more evidence of Yeey salad record n I think da pic is altereed.Mr yeey pic might super-imposed on someone's else..........loooooooooooool

I thought I would share this article...kind disturbing but interesting read about human nature. Indian cultural tradition favours boys!!! More than 10m female births in India may have been lost to abortion and sex selection in the past 20 years, according to medical research. Researchers in India and Canada for the Lancet journal said prenatal selection and selective abortion was causing the loss of 500,000 girls a year. Their research was based on a national survey of 1.1m households in 1998. The researchers said the "girl deficit" was more common among educated women but did not vary according to religion. The unusual gender balance in India has been known about for some time. In most countries, women slightly outnumber men, but separate research for the year 2001 showed that for every 1,000 male babies born in India, there were just 933 girls. The sex ratio is so skewed in some states, men cannot find brides!!!! Ultrasound The latest research is by Prabhat Jha of St Michael's Hospital at the University of Toronto, Canada, and Rajesh Kumar of the Postgraduate Institute of Medical Research in Chandigarh, India. They found that there was an increasing tendency to select boys when previous children had been girls. The sex ratio is so skewed in some states, men cannot find brides In cases where the preceding child was a girl, the ratio of girls to boys in the next birth was 759 to 1,000. This fell even further when the two preceding children were both girls. Then the ratio for the third child born was just 719 girls to 1,000 boys. However, for a child following the birth of a male child, the gender ratio was roughly equal. Prabhat Jha said conservative estimates in the research suggested half a million girls were being lost each year. "If this practice has been common for most of the past two decades since access to ultrasound became widespread, then a figure of 10m missing female births would not be unreasonable." 'Shameful' Sex selective abortions have been banned in India for more than a decade. HAVE YOUR SAY This just means that girls will be far more sought after in future Christian Tiburtius, Reading Send us your comments Experts in India say female foeticide is mostly linked to socio-economic factors. It is an idea that many say carries over from the time India was a predominantly agrarian society where boys were considered an extra pair of hands on the farm. The girl child has traditionally been considered inferior and a liability - a bride's dowry can cripple a poor family financially. The BBC's Jill McGivering says the problem is complicated by advances in technology. Ultrasound machines must be officially registered but many are now so light and portable, they are hard to monitor. Although doctors in India must not tell couples the sex of a foetus, in practice, some just use coded signals instead, our correspondent says. Last year the well-known religious leader and social activist, Swami Agnivesh, began a campaign across five northern and western states against female foeticide. "There's no other form of violence that's more painful, more abhorrent, more shameful," he said. source: bbc.com

^^^ code: I pray inay dowladaan wax isku raacdo kasoo baxaan code: Amiin

^^^^.looooooooooool...dats first. Lets hope something good comes out of this even though Shariif carries no real wiegh in Xamar. AbdiQasim and Co are the real power in Xamar.