Lol OPININIATED-and I wonder why that is? Ima go ahead and be a sellout-and say BLUE. Besides the fact that half my wardrobe comes in the color of blue,I associate it with being laidback-and even tho I like to look cute sometimes-I mostly like feeling oooh comfortable.

I think I'd stick to men closer to my age than further. Mainly for the reason that we can relate. What on earth am I go to speak to a 40-year-old about, besides politics? I'm a college student so I would definitely need somebody in that arena or not too far from it newayz.

I agree with the sista above- different strokes for different folks. but this is what works for me-on a first date-show some interest in topics that dont revolve around YOU. we all know that most guys favourite subjects is, well, themselves lol. thats my main pet peeves when it comes to the fellas. also, dont get too touchy when we've just met, a sista still needs her comfort space. oh yeah-flowers definitely look good from your end.

Ex-Dane its tite girl..but thats definitely a males version of a love song (wanting somebody to put with his bullshit lol. I heard FREE from 106 got a comeback called "21 ANSWERS"-heard it yet?

Ook..seeing as how we've deviated from tha topic at hand..I'ma bring it rite back. Yes I do think males and females can be friends. I have numerous male friends, and although I think some of them may see me as more than that, I have at least a few who are completely platonic (from both our ends). It can be done-if you know your intentions. Thats all its about-intention. Are you that individuals friend for hidden agenda or outta sincerity? My male friends provide an insight that you can only get from..males. Trust me ladies..they come in handy.

Lol..the new 50 cent and Foxxy Song "MAGIC STICK" naw..actually its been "We Cant Be Friends Cuz Im still in Love With You" by Deborah Cox but a sistahs cured now..can I get an AMEN...