Ok..ok..I admit I lie quite frequently. For example, when a friend asks me why I havent returned a fone call- I'd say something like "I had a meetin that ran real late- U know how that goes" with a big genuine smile, hehe. (I find it works best when you add so much detail that the person can't follow along- lool, they'll jus smile and act like they understood what you said, when in fact, they got no clue wachu talking about.)

This part is oooh-soo-tru of practically every male I've come across. 6.Most men seem to think that marriage is one of those logical steps in the sequence of life. But just because you've got a great career and a nice house, that doesn't mean you should complete the package anytime soon. I can't hate tho cuz I've got my life game plan too ;- so should all you sistahs.

I came across this poem and I think its an inspiration to all Women (ok..fine, maybe just to me lol) Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size But when I start to tell them, They think I'm telling lies. I say, It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees. Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees. I say, It's the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. Men themselves have wondered What they see in me. They try so much But they can't touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them They say they still can't see. I say, It's the arch of my back, The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. Now you understand Just why my head's not bowed. I don't shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud. When you see me passing It ought to make you proud. I say, It's in the click of my heels, The bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, The need of my care. 'Cause I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. Now can I hear it for all my phenomenal women ... Written by: Maya Angelou

flying-still, i think the BLACK MAN RECIPE just topped my favorite poem of the month. Tres bien.

lol OG..do you know anything about Islam? Uhm..I think SUICIDE rates higher on the SIN-LIST than sex. But hey-thats just me. FirstLady- girl, trust me, you can tell how much a brotha loves by whether he's willing to wait or not. But ish happens, all we can do is learn from our experiences. Just give the guy some space and show him that you know that you're worth being pursued and dont feel HE, of all people, should judge you for your actions, since it takes to "two to make a thing go right". Don't act pressed-its hard cuz love makes you act foolish at times-but be strong, and it'll work out at the end. And if it doesn't-it wasn't written in the book of fate. My Two Cents ---------------------- Money cant buy love, but it can get you a great bargaining position

lol OG..do you know anything about Islam? Uhm..I think SUICIDE rates higher on the SIN-LIST than sex. But hey-thats just me. FirstLady- girl, trust me, you can tell how much a brotha loves by whether he's willing to wait or not. But ish happens, all we can do is learn from our experiences. Just give the guy some space and show him that you know that you're worth being pursued and dont feel HE, of all people, should judge you for your actions, since it takes to "two to make a thing go right". Don't act pressed-its hard cuz love makes you act foolish at times-but be strong, and it'll work out at the end. And if it doesn't-it wasn't written in the book of fate. My Two Cents ---------------------- Money cant buy love, but it can get you a great bargaining position

lol OG..do you know anything about Islam? Uhm..I think SUICIDE rates higher on the SIN-LIST than sex. But hey-thats just me. FirstLady- girl, trust me, you can tell how much a brotha loves by whether he's willing to wait or not. But ish happens, all we can do is learn from our experiences. Just give the guy some space and show him that you know that you're worth being pursued and dont feel HE, of all people, should judge you for your actions, since it takes to "two to make a thing go right". Don't act pressed-its hard cuz love makes you act foolish at times-but be strong, and it'll work out at the end. And if it doesn't-it wasn't written in the book of fate. My Two Cents ---------------------- Money cant buy love, but it can get you a great bargaining position

lol OG..do you know anything about Islam? Uhm..I think SUICIDE rates higher on the SIN-LIST than sex. But hey-thats just me. FirstLady- girl, trust me, you can tell how much a brotha loves by whether he's willing to wait or not. But ish happens, all we can do is learn from our experiences. Just give the guy some space and show him that you know that you're worth being pursued and dont feel HE, of all people, should judge you for your actions, since it takes to "two to make a thing go right". Don't act pressed-its hard cuz love makes you act foolish at times-but be strong, and it'll work out at the end. And if it doesn't-it wasn't written in the book of fate. My Two Cents ---------------------- Money cant buy love, but it can get you a great bargaining position

Ok..in THIS life..I wish I dont live this life in vain and end up in hell-fire..

I dont know what the big deal about statin ur location n major is- lol..can we say paranoia folks? Jus thru with my second yr as a psych major in Michigan.. two down, two to go, yaay me!!

If you really think of him as your "Best Friend", then you should have his best interest in mind. With that being said, I think it's only logic that you tell him the truth and let him decide for himself whether to stay or leave this woman. I think it would show your lack of honesty with your boy if you hide something of that magnitude. But hey, thats jus me...I would want my friend to tell me if my man was cheating. And you know what they say, Treat Others How You Wanna Be Treated. ---------------------------- Money cant buy love, but it can sure get you a great bargaining position

flying-still, Great post girl. I think we all see a little bit of ourselves in that description of a "Good Woman"-it's all about recognizing your worth and realizing that we grow and learn from our mistakes and experiences. she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons meant to bring her closer to self-knowledge and unconditional self-love. I'm feelin that-by the way underdog,the sista didn't offend or insult the brothas but praised "good women". you should've been the first in line brah- learn to appreciate the good sistahs while they're still around.Word of advice.

Lol heartless lady-thanks girl-ure the only one that's reached that conclusion. Honestly, if my daughter came up to me at 16 and wanted to get married, I'd let her know I dont advise it, but if it keeps her from doing xaraam, I'm all for it. Even tho we need to encourage EDUCATION, that doesn't necessarily mean we have to promote the XARAAM.. Just my two cents.

What wouldn't I do to my husband... (We all tell lil lies so plz dont front to all those who said they wouldn't-PUHLZ) 1. Cheat 2. Cause him any physical deformity from my beatings 3.HIS FREAKING LAUNDRY

I resent that y'all-my name is up there and I beg to differ. I think its a BUTIFUL name .

I have like this jean fetishd- everytime I go shopping, I have to buy a pair of pants so naturally my answer would be: JEAN MACHINE (sorry, only in CANADA folks)

I'll answer that question in one word NEVER Touch me and DIE!

Guys that are more laid-back than I am intimidate the heck outta me-I dont know, something about being real calm throws me off.

ok this game is completely uhm..(try to be nice malikah) whats the word, purpose-less. I think Nuune is mocking us...it has to be. Money can't buy love, but it sure gets you a great bargaining position

ok this game is completely uhm..(try to be nice malikah) whats the word, purpose-less. I think Nuune is mocking us...it has to be.

Note to self- dont forget to eat today AGAIN

looool Clown-thats hilarious. Sad yet soo soo tru.

I was watching DADDY DAYCARE this morning, and I started crackin up at the part when the kid thats not potty-trained comes out the washroom and says he "missed". Eddie Murphy goes in, and they got the TWILIGHT ZONE song on. He looks to this left, he looks to his right, he looks down..and then up lool. That was so hilarious to me.

Bari looool...i like how u put that.. Walaahi that was so freaky- I think my jaw dropped when I saw that. Strange man!

Bari looool...i like how u put that.. Walaahi that was so freaky- I think my jaw dropped when I saw that. Strange man!