NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO HIT ANY1, HITTING SOME1 MAY NOT BE SUCH A BIG DEAL AT THE BEGINNING BUT TRUST ME THERE ARE SOME VERY SICK PPL OUT THERE. 1 IN 4 WOMEN IN THE UK ARE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND SOMETHING LIE 43% OF ALL HOMOCIDE ARE VIOLENCE IN THE HOME. AND UNACCOUNTABLE WOMEN STILL LIVE IN FEAR OF BEING BEATEN FOR SOMETING AS STUPID AS THE TEA WAS TOO COLD. SO AS FOR YOUR QUESTION, NO IT IS NOT OK TO HIT A WOMAN

hey duniya, can i just point out that niether u or ur friend is allah, therefore neither one of you has the right to judge and punish the boy. ur friend, who did that to her boyfriend, is xasid, coz she cant even begin to imagine what he has to go through. as for you, i hope that allah shows u the right path and gives u the strenght to follow it, i pray that he shows u wrong from right. having aids does not make u better of at all. so a rapist might walk away with aids, but it dont change the fact that he has raped you. aids does not and cannot have advantages. i had to judge, so my advice to you is go and seek comfort and forgiveness in our relgion.

salam bro, very interestin questions. the following reason come to mind 1 - life has more meaning when you have one to share it with. marriage is the ultimate relationship as it is (or at least should be)the ultimate committment. 2 - marriage offers stability and security 3- it also provides the basis of startin your own family, and many women would like to have children one day. 4 - last, but most certainly not least, religious wise, marriage is seen as the ultimate goal.

hi guys, i just came across this topic which seems very interesting. education is a system that can only teach so much, and to me seems to be somewhat less wider than knowledge. however knowledge is a concept that knows no barriers. am finding hard to describe what am thinkin so am gonna come bck to this subject.

personally i dont really see the difference or what the big fuss is about. untill i came to the uk, i was convinced that any1 who says 'somali' had it wrong, because in most other european countries, especially in germany every1 uses 'somalian'. i cant actually remember why they used somalian, but i do know it has something to do wit grammer. let me get bck 2 u on this.

hey visist, wont u help sme of us out n try n translate 4 us. this seems like an interestin topic, n it would b even better if we understood wt they was sayin.

hmm interesting . . . how cumes am always stuck wit men dat like 2 do all the talkin? nyways, communication is key 2 relationships n best way 2 communicate is talkin. (r u gettin me drift here). talkin is the best way for sm1 2 express themselves, n believ it or not, it actually makes one feel much better havin talked thru smthin dat woz on their mind.

must totally agree wit opinionated, couldnt have said it any different. personally i believe in wt is in ur 'niyaed',wearin a jeans doesnt make u a bad person, or totally reflect on ur relationship wit allah.

personally i would consider 1st cousin 2 b 2 close, but there r ppl who do marry their 1st cousins. if u really wana marry her, try to change HER mind instead of goin 2 ur uncle. if she still says no, then bro u gotta let it go.

1)pray 2)sweat 3)taking deep breaths and remembering the fact there is more to life, ie, its just an exam,it does not cripple u, give u diseases or kill u just tryin 2 give u the bigger picture, so exams seem trival

hey superman, u know wt, i would think the best way 2 go about it is to actually ask her how she would like a guy to approach her. being honest seems to be ur best option, in my opinion. good luck

hi peeps, this just keeps gettin interestin. but i must agree wit hibo. 2 b honest i was just really curios because most guys (smthin like 90%) i know aint very interested in successful sistas, n blatenly say so. howeva, this forum clearly shows i was a little (smthin like 1%) wrong.

hi guys, am quite suprised that so many ppl told the truth. to b honest i was expectin the guys 2 b on the defensive side. howeva, lakad, bro the reason why sum gals wouldnt consider uneducated men is cuz of society. sorry 2 say but an uneducated man would neva help u realise ur ambitions and make u feel u have 2 keep ur achievements 2 urself so that u dont show him up. am late 4 class rite now, but i will cum bck 2 this topic

am thinking of wt me fave book woz and these cum 2 mind 1) bridget jones - really enjoyed it coz easy 2 identify wit without having 2 really think. 2) i think its called 'dont they hear my cries' by fauwziya k smthin. it tells story of gal who runs away from africa (togo) after her father dies cuz her relatives r tryin 2 circumstice her. she is v naive, n has 2 suffer in US 2 get 'freedom'. is really good n true story n she's muslim. 3) the power of 1 n sequal tandia. interestin n i think its true story. bout s africa n an english boy.

hey all, i have been tryin 2 figure out why somali men find their educucated sistas 'threatning'? am not sayin they all like dat, but i have been told many times dat the more successful a gal gets the less likely she's 2 b approached by somali men who aint 'lazy gold diggas'. whatcha all think?

according to the movie 'the brothers', u know wen a man truly loves, he will apparently give u the very last piece of what he was eatin. i think that u can neva really be 100% sure if the other person really trully loves u, but u can b sure of ur own feelings. wen u cant imagine wt ur life would be like without that person, then u know u in love wit dat person.

hi khayr, this is an interesting topic. firstly u have to clarify wt makes a man go bck home for a woman. i always had the impression dat they g bck because women here were not 'relegios' enuf. i reckon dat if u import a wifey, dan u ain't go no gurantee dat she will stay the same, exposed to the same environment, she might pose u the same 'threats' u supoosedly get from us. at least if u marry one from the west, u more sure of wt u r in 4. nywhows, wt r the chances dat u will have the same things in common with a gal dat experienced 10 yrs of war and tribalism? i believ dat if u go bck home, n by chance, fall 4 some1 fair enuf, but if u cum bck 2 west n u have daughters, how u gonna feel wen all the men r runnin bck home 4 wifeys? in a way it is an insult to us gals in the west dat u men go home 2 get ur wifeys. nwyays, hope i havent rambled on too much. ps - our standards aint dat high, am sure we can settle 4 a man dat dont drive a mercedes

hi all, what a controversial issue. clearly we are neva gonna see things eye to eye. howeva the way i see things, men need to realise that things have changed. not everything we do centers around u guys. women have higher ambitions, because we have opportunities that great women before us neva had. dont get me wrong, most women eventually want to settle down and have kids, but there is more to life. there are plenty of women out there who are happy with stayin home n takin care of their children. i cant speak for all women, but i 4 one dont need lessons in how to be a good wife. its important dat women r educated, after all its the women who spent most time with ur kids, n education starts at home. also, when the man decides to walk out on u, wt does the woman have to aid her, if not education? n did it occur 2 u guys dat mayb if u guys brought the girl from 'badiyo' here n expose her to this environment, her way of thinkin might change? just remember a good marriage is all about compromise. ps - shyham it's not just the women's looks dat deteriorate