^^acudubillah, isku xishow, what would you benifit from knowing it.

Being woman of faith means to me fulfilling the rights of Allah, rights of my parents and my husband, having pure heart and being kind to others.

lol that is funny, she speaks better somali than my husband who is somali. I didn't even grew in Somalia but I can still read, write and speak (don't know how I learned. But i would give her 9/10 for her somali.

^^It is obvious from this statement that he knows that Allah is the creator but he is being too dumb and arrogant.

quote: -------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------ Originally posted by GIGI: Johny B nothing an athiest person make sense....... "7. Allah has set a seal on their hearts and on their hearings, (i.e. they are closed from accepting Allah's Guidance), and on their eyes there is a covering. Theirs will be a great torment." -------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------ By Doing that, namly sealing the hearts and hearings of those who do not believe in 'him', he is beeing perfectly evil Johny B, this perfectly applies to you because you are turning away from God's word by calling him and denying the existince of God and calling names. How many nations before us have been destroyed and are repeated throughout the quran for us to take example from them and not to make the same mistake as they did. For instance when Allah saved bani Israel from the punishment of pharoah what did they do in turn, they started associating partners with Allah and Allah destroyed and ressurected them again. They are so many examples I can go on and on but it won't make sense to you because your heart is sealed from hearing Allah's words. Johny B "Then which of the favours of your Lord will ye deny?" Suruh Al-Rahman If you are denying Allah's favours then don't walk, eat sleep because these are favours from Allah (s.w.a).

Johny B nothing an athiest person make sense. The more you turn away from God's word the more your heart will become seal. As Allah said in surut Baqarah "6. Verily, those who disbelieve, it is the same to them whether you (O Muhammad Peace be upon him ) warn them or do not warn them, they will not believe." "7. Allah has set a seal on their hearts and on their hearings, (i.e. they are closed from accepting Allah's Guidance), and on their eyes there is a covering. Theirs will be a great torment."

Who cares if a man is fat all you have to do is tell him to attend gym. I belief every woman can change her man you just have to be smart and know how to do it. Besides, i would never let my friends judge someone that I am in love with, you know how girls are little evil and have always something to say.

What a good news for the community.

P, It is not only women that cannot be satisfied it is all humans (yes that includes u boys). Alhmamdulilah I am happy with my body but I like to attend the gym to be more healthier and to build some muscles. If you are not happy with something in your life count all the things that Allah have blessed you with and you would NEVER be depressed or sad.

Tell ur friend not to love her if she doesn't love him, then that would solve his PROBLEM!!!

^^atleat the masjid is better than meeting your mate at wedding or bus stop.

Justice, you have to remember that marriage is calaf, but you have to do ur part. The best place to meet potentials are @ the masjid or islamic lectures (that is where I met my huby). Also, you can meet them through families, especially if you have a brother it is easier. Remember to make sincere du'aa to Allah and be patient. May Allah bless you wiht a pious huband and to all the singles who are looking for.

The picture of Windsor is soo nice. I remember when I used to live there how I used to walk on the river front. Windsor is such a peaceful city and clean compare to our neighbouring Detroit. I hate Toronto, if it wasn't my husband's job I would have moved back to Windsor. KK I agree with you, Dixon is such a ghetto place full of baranbaro. I remember one time I visited my cousin who lives in Dixon, and baranbaros attacked me. I would never live such a place (acudubillah).

I agree that if a person commits and adultery that they should be executed. However, with the situation in Somalia, there is no real shariah law there. How many people do stealing, genocide, adultery but yet get away. If there was a real islamic court in Somalia all these people should be executed. Anways, if the deceased (may Allah for give her) sumbitted herself to be killed then may Allah forgive her. But if she didn't submit herself and the so called islamic court just excuted her, then that is unacceptable and they will be held accountable on the day of judgement. Allahu Wa'alam.

October is Islam history month in Canada, which was aprroved this year (alhamdullilah, and February is black history month in Canada and in America.

^^ Very good pionts sister. My fashion style got better when I got married. Before, I used to be casual and my mom used to complain about it. She would spend so much money buying the latest brand name purses, shoes and sometimes I would end not wearing them. When I got married I become a fashionista. I buy the latest abays, hijabs, purses. I get my hair done every two weeks, go the gym. The point is you don't have to look good for outside only. You should dress up well when your at home for your husband to make him proud . I know most of the somali ladies would wear baati at home and dress up so well when they are going outside :rolleyes: . Just because you got marry that doesn't mean you should give up your style look ugly.

I will be a registered nurse after this year insha'allah. But, I am not intrested in working overseas.

The first half of Ramadan went very well alhamdullilah. Although, it has been busy month for me I have been trying to go to tarawih four nights out of the whole week. It is so hard to pray tarawih when your full, it feels all the food is comming back to your throat when you make sajud. I now know why tarawih imans eat less afur than anybody else.

Tampons feel so uncomfartable, you can't even sit well if you are not used to it. When I was a teenage my mom who is a nurse warned me not to go near tampons. They are not good for your health and you can get some type of syndrome where you faint easily. Anyways if the guy your marrying likes you virginity wouldn't matter, like Allah mentioned in the quran good man will marry a good woman. So girl it is ur personal choice, if it feels comfortable you go for it.

Faynus, your sister might be frustrated with her husband, him marrying second wife. Just give her break and be nicer to her. Also, communicate with her the best times not when she is angry. I used hate my brother when I was in high school because he used to be over protective. All the guys used to be afraid to ask me anything cause they knew my brother would fight with them. One day I discussed with him how all this that he was doing was hurting me and embarrasing me. He opologize and promised to me, he would trust me. I knew my brother loved me cause he used give me half of his pay cheque when he got paid. But I hated him because of his over protectiveness. So faynuus abaya just don't give up on her, use nice tone of voice and always be the better when argiung. May Allah make it easy for you and her.

Being engages at 17 is pretty much similar to teaching a five year old how to make tea...What's the rush? ^^ Are you serious, I thought you were samrter than this. I don't care whether you think a 17 year old is not ready, but what matters is that I live in a happy life, alhamdullilah. Whether I rushed or not is nort up to you, I was old enough to make my own decision. Would it make difference if you get marry at age 20, 30, 40 no age is just a number. What matters the most is having a pious husband/wife.

I learned how to cook when I got engaged at the age of 17. I am the type of person who likes to clean but hate cooking. Alhamdullilah it might take me longer to cook but I make the best food. To the poster your crazy making a five year old make tea. What if she burns herself, I am sure you don't want to be involved with children's aid. Just give her the time and don't force to cook at young age because you don't want her to hate how to cook when she grows up.

Unkown, how do you know somali girls have boyfreinds, unless you dated one.

To the poster thank you and may Allah reward you for posting this, although I don't if all these lists are considered major. Major sins can take you out of islam, if you don't repent to Allah. If you go against something that Allah and his messenger said in the quran or the sunnah. Did you girls know shaping the eyebrows is considred as a major sin. The prophet s.a.w cursed a women who shapes her eyebrows and the one who does it.

Miskeen, this is very odd story and doesn't add up somehow. Anyways, if the lady was gabar i would have felt sorry for her but mac sokor bay kuteh. She should have known better. She should go a court and make him to take a DNA test and make to pay child support. As for the iman, he is liar (if he did it) and should be sued and taken out of the masjid. What kind of iman would do such a thing.