Jazaaki alaah khayar Hijabi sis... and welcome back to SOL

Opinionated,,, these are some Hadiith’s of our prophet Muhamad PBUH concerning the Maxram issue.. =========================================== Volume 2, Book 20, Number 194: Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel for one day and night except with a Mahram." =========================================== Book 007, Number 3096: Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: A woman should not set out on three (days' journey) except when she has a Mahram with her. =========================================== Book 20, Number 20.77.263: Malik said, concerning a woman who had never been on hajj, "If she doesn't have a mahram, or if she has, but he cannot come with her, she does not abandon Allah's making of the hajj obligatory for her. Let her go in a group of women." Malik related to me from Said ibn Abi Said al-Maqburi from Abu Hurayra that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "It is not halal for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to travel the distance of a day and night without a man who is her mahram." =========================================== Volume 3, Book 29, Number 85: Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet said, "A woman should not travel except with a Dhu-Mahram (her husband or a man with whom that woman cannot marry at all according to the Islamic Jurisprudence), and no man may visit her except in the presence of a Dhu-Mahram." A man got up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I intend to go to such and such an army and my wife wants to perform Hajj." The Prophet said (to him), "Go along with her (to Hajj)." =========================================== Volume 3, Book 29, Number 87: Narrated Qaza'a, the slave of Ziyad: Abu Said who participated in twelve Ghazawat with the Prophet said, "I heard four things from Allah's Apostle (or I narrate them from the Prophet ) which won my admiration and appreciation. They are: 1. "No lady should travel without her husband or without a Dhu-Mahram for a two-days' journey. 2. No fasting is permissible on two days of 'Id-al-Fitr, and 'Id-al-Adha. 3. No prayer (may be offered) after two prayers: after the 'Asr prayer till the sun set and after the morning prayer till the sun rises. 4. Not to travel (for visiting) except for three mosques: Masjid-al-Haram (in Mecca), my Mosque (in Medina), and Masjid-al-Aqsa (in Jerusalem)." =========================================== Now let me ask you this simple Yes or No question… Having read these hadiiths do you still think the Maxram issue is a bunch of crook?

For Carabta.. i know nothin beats the original ...... so here is the arabic version في قديم الزمان حيث لم يكن على الأرض بشر بعد .... كانت الفضائل والرذائل.. تطوف العالم معا".. وتشعر بالملل الشديد.... ذات يوم... وكحل لمشكلة الملل المستعصية... اقترح الأبداع.. لعبة.. وأسماها الأستغماية.. أو الغميمة.. أحب الجميع الفكرة... وصرخ الجنون: أريد أن أبدأ.. أريد أن أبدأ... أنا من سيغمض عينيه.. ويبدأ العدّ... وأنتم عليكم مباشرة الأختفاء.... ثم أنه اتكأ بمرفقيه..على شجرة.. وبدأ... واحد... اثنين.... ثلاثة.... وبدأت الفضائل والرذائل بالأختباء.. وأخفت الخيانة نفسها في كومة زبالة... ومضى الشوق الى باطن الأرض... الكذب قال بصوت عال: سأخفي نفسي تحت الحجارة.. ثم توجه لقعر البحيرة.. واستمر الجنون: تسعة وسبعون... ثمانون.... واحد وثمانون.. خلال ذلك أتمت كل الفضائل والرذائل تخفيها... ماعدا الحب... كعادته.. لم يكن صاحب قرار... وبالتالي لم يقرر أين يختفي.. وهذا غير مفاجيء لأحد... فنحن نعلم كم هو صعب اخفاء الحب.. تابع الجنون: خمسة وتسعون....... سبعة وتسعون.... وعندما وصل الجنون في تعداده الى: مائة ،،،،،، قفز الحب وسط أجمة من الورد.. واختفى بداخلها.. فتح الجنون عينيه.. وبدأ البحث صائحا": أنا آت اليكم.... أنا آت اليكم.... كان الكسل أول من أنكشف...لأنه لم يبذل أي جهد في إخفاء نفسه.. ثم ظهرت الرقّة المختفية في القمر... وبعدها.. خرج الكذب من قاع البحيرة مقطوع النفس ... !! واشار على الشوق ان يرجع من باطن الأرض... وجدهم الجنون جميعا".. واحدا بعد الآخر.... ماعدا الحب... كاد يصاب بالأحباط والبأس.. في بحثه عن الحب... الى ان اقترب منه الحسد ،،، وهمس في أذنه: الحب مختف في شجيرة الورد... التقط الجنون شوكة خشبية أشبه بالرمح.. وبدأ في طعن شجيرة الورد بشكل طائش ،،،،،، ليخرج منها الحب . ولم يتوقف الا عندما سمع صوت بكاء يمزق القلوب... ظهر الحب.. وهو يحجب عينيه بيديه.. والدم يقطر من بين أصابعه... صاح الجنون نادما": يا الهي ماذا فعلت؟.. ماذا أفعل كي أصلح غلطتي بعد أن أفقدتك البصر ؟... أجابه الحب: لن تستطيع إعادة النظر لي... لكن لازال هناك ماتستطيع فعله لأجلي... كن دليلي ... وهذا ماحصل من يومها.... يمضي الحب الأعمى... يقوده الجنون !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! مع خالص حبي وتحياتي ،

I don’t know if this story i found on some arabic website will make sense to you y all or not, it was inspiring enough for me to translate to English just so i could share it with SOL nomads….. it goes like this…. Good and bad manners used to live together in a land called utopia in the form of regular people, one day they felt bored and wanted to play, “Creativeness” invented a game and called it hide and seek, everybody liked the idea, and before they chose someone to start the game, "Craziness" yelled “I will be the starter” none of the manners felt like confronting “Carziness” and end up in a fight, so they agreed to let him be the seeker, “Craziness” leaned on the wall closed his eyes and started counting.. 1, 2, 3, 4, …… all of the "good" and bad “manners” started taking a hiding spot. “Betrayal” was the first to find a spot, he hid himself in a pile of trash, “Innocence” was next, it took cover behind a nearby building, “Deception” told everybody he was going to to hide behind the mountain, and hid in the bottom of the lake. And so on with the rest of the good and bad manner, everybody found a hiding spot. Except “Love” who through out the count stood there on his spot, apparently indecisive and not sure where to hide, as “Craziness” was counting 95, 96, 97,,,, and in the last second, “Love” made up his mind and jumped into a near by flower basin. “Craziness” got done with the count..... opened his eyes..... and started looking around for the hiding "bad" and "good" manners. The first one to be found was “Laziness” simply because he did even bother to hide,....... “Innocence” was next to be found, everybody knew he’d be in this nearby kindergarten, then all the sudden “Deception” ,who ran out of breath, jumped out of the lake...... then the smell of trash lead “Craziness” to find “Betrayal”...... Craziness found everybody except “Love”, he looked everywhere to no avail, he got disappointed and decided to give up the search for “Love”, as he was about to call it quits, “Envy” approached him and said, “Love” is hiding in that basin of flowers, “Craziness” picked this spear shaped wooden stick and started sticking it aimlessly in the flower basin to find “Love”, then suddenly he heard someone weeping, he got closer to take a look and sure enough it was “Love” who’s been wounded by “Craziness” stick. Craziness asked, what happened to you love?. “you’ve hit me in the eyes, I cant see no more” replied love. Craziness was devastated with what he did to Love’s eyes, he wept and said. “I am so sorry love, I really didn’t mean to hurt you.. I will do anything to fix the damage I caused you” “Well there is nothing you can do that will bring me back the eyes you popped, but there is something u could do for me to help” What is that? Asked Craziness “Take my hand and be my guide” the wounded Love answered… So ever since that day.. The Blind Love was led by Craziness!!! Does this story make any sense to ya all ?? hit me with ya feed back..

Originally posted by Captivating_SouL: close this thread please! sounds like a good deal to me...

Wasn’t last night’s snow storm a trip or what..? Daamn my freaken car was almost buried in snow.. and its still snowing !!

Caramal.. marrying tow sisters is Xaraaam.. its stated in our holy quraan saxib.

Originally posted by rudy: yo, seriously, i got no time for hate business! so i love yall~~ its free just love babe! another goomba thread!! remember a good moslem thinks +ve always! plz!! :confused: 1 hour later.. honorable Rudy stated =>>>> Originally posted by rudy: do me a favor and plz dont compare to no Brits! i hate those ppl with passion!! they should called it land-of-fags!! :eek: Rudy.. what drug are you on Saxib?

Originally posted by Baashi: One more thing! Every time? honestly, No! but I know I should not be doing any gazing. There are even times when I make an effort to see their beautifull figures that proves I'm human. U don't hear me though saying I don't agree on this with Allah (MacaathAllah)- gazing opposite sex that is - or making statement akin to that. And when I'm reminded my mistakes I say IstiqfurAllah. point made real clear.. thanks Baashi.. and Jazaak alaah khayr..

Originally posted by Captivating_SouL: Darman, what happen to your realistic rational feedbacks? Yes sister Captivating soul, I am known for my realistic and rationalized feedbacks towards issues presented in SOL, but I am also known for humiliating and shattering those who violate Allah’s sanctities and try to indirectly criticize our beloved deen in a violent and acutely hostile manner. Opinionated Walaashiis.. looks like you fell prey to your egotism due to an utter ignorance, you basically view the all of the SOL nomads who replied on this thread thus far with contempt and consider their views as something superfluous and worthless, but obviously you are oblivious (or pretending to be) of the fact that your opinions towards Maxram have no basis or Daliil. You see people who’s eyesight is weak use eyeglasses to see better, but there are no glasses to compensate for those who have weakness of intellectual vision “like yourself”. To overcome that problem, I suggest that you learn more about islam and resort to an analytic examination of your attitude. Just carefully and vigilantly distinguish your true capacities from deceptive and harmful tendencies. One of the renowned SOL nomads (not sure whom it was) was telling us here in SOL about how she eye witnessed tow Malaysian students she knew get ran over to death by a car in their way back home from Taraawiix?!! Have you ever thought that could happen to you? With the exception that you are mouthing off words that like these >>> Originally posted by Opinionated: Repent, ha! [/QB] and Originally posted by Opinionated: I am not alien to islam and I still think this mahram Idea is a buncha crock. Alaaahum Ajcaal aakhir kalamanaa Laa Ilaaha Ila alaaah Maxamdaan Rasululah.. alaahum ya muthabit al quloob thabit qalbi cala diinik..

Originally posted by rudy: read this this thread! i think, we shall we should repent....this remainds me of the concept kids incharge of an ice-cream shop! :confused: Saxib I don’t know when u are going to grow the brains to comprehend sophisticated threads

Thank you rahima for sharing that informative piece.. indeed a good friend is a mirror to his friend, if we only implement our islamic principles towards our social matters everyone of us will live a happy life.. Peppeles He is a big time Duluf once u get to know em

Originally posted by Rahima: Inshallah if things continue to go on this rocky road, this will be my last post for i believe all that needs to be said has been said and anymore bickering will not benefit anyone rather just satisfy the devil. [/QB] Nicely said sister Rahima, Jazaaki laaah khayr… I hope she takes your truthful advice and rebent to allah…

masha alaaaah.. quite impressive walaahi..

Congratualtions sister Caakifah.. i wish you a happy life and lots of kids insha alaah

and who said you are my friend??!! dulf foqal dulf

Originally posted by Opinionated: If you are mildly suggesting that I am not a muslim simply because I don't see it your way....then I feel sorry for you. So, let me shut up and follow everything I am told so I can be a muslim in your eyes. Acuuudu bilaaah min al shytaan al rajiiim.. walaahi I feel bad for this girl, qof sidaan danbii ku indha cad waligaay ma arag.. Ilaaahay ha ku hadaaeyu adiga ayo intii lunsaan..

We all avoid negative association with freinds whom we think are bad. those who u don’t think u’d ever get along with due to some bad qualities they have,,, so my question is what are the characteristics that makes you avoid someone to a point you don’t want to talk to her/him!! We are talking attitudes rather than particular people…. So is it The arrogant or The hypocrite or The selfish or The judgmental Or,, or,,, or,,, Myself.. I don’t find myself socializing much with :- The Arrogant, who talk about how smart, rich, cute or whatever they are.. and keep bragging about their achievements.. Judgmental, who is quick to accuse you of being someone you are not.. And those who are detached from deenta.. who just don’t give a shit.. So how about you.. what kind of freinds you rather not mingle with?

Originally posted by miz-unique: paki and indians cant say "W" and they cant say "TH" this is what a paki would say..Vad ( KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK lol.. U dhon dhok lik dhat lol waraa lakaad.. we seem to have problem with the number 6 too... yeah.. i mean Zikis lol and i once heared this brother saying.. waatsh aaut yoa are saalaaf lol he cracked me up lol.. good topic dawg..

Originally posted by x_quizit: Here's my top 4 slaves for my household: 1-Khayr (cook and clean) -at least ur #1 on my list. 2-Nur (to teach the youngsters about islam) 3-Mujahid (assist in sowing) 4-Underdog (youngsters secular teacher) Cheers! loool

lol Originally posted by Khayr: Salaamz, Ok I'm busted! :eek: So here is my list for my 4 wives: 1. Opinionated (cause we get along oh sooo well, its Magical at times!) 2. X-quizit-Cause she reminds of me Opinionated 3. Carmel Kisses-Cause she loves Somali Men to death. 4. Samiyah-To show her that Somali men are romantic. Now don't feel disappointed cause the 4 are not permanent and could be divorced. So maybe after a few yrs (if I can survive THAT MUCH LOVING for that long!) then I'll think about another group to become my 'STARTERS'. Samiyah, The prophet (salallahu caliyhe wasilm) had 12 wives and most of them were widows. The ones that weren't widows Aisha, Hafsa, Mariam, Zaynb etc. were real young muslimahs. If you want to use Khadijah (r.a.) just for her age, then Samiyha wait until 30 or 40, its your choice. ................... In anycase, keep the replies coming, Underdog, you're very good at calculating things. :cool:

Do u guys know the cheif engineer for the Madina Expansion project was a Russian educated somali engineer called AbdiWali Shikh Ahmed!!

Originally posted by Nazra: lolz@Lefty :rolleyes: @ Darman U never seem to amaze me. While you are concern about banana's i'm concern about you... First its "what's in ur wallet"...what were wallets desinged for? When you see no banana's in the super market please inform us...in the mean time show ur concern perhaps....to the enviroment. loooooool u forgot the Who would you like to shoot one lol wlcm back.. good to see ya again lol

kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk good one underdog loool

Ilaahu adaa muslim naga dhigay.. i was about to throw up.. cant believe there people like that walking around us acting normal!!!