who had been sipping coffees Coffee? Sounded suspicious before they barged in.

Hire, shmire. Why pay for a man when so many are gagging for it enough to even pay for it?

Imisa yuurow ayuu qaata? The Dutch women will find him a laker ding(help me out here with the spelling). My Lord, too funny. Anything to be on Tele.

^ Can u elaborate for those who may not know what u mean, pls?

^'shiq' dear, we have to get it right. It wouldn't be fair to misrepresent the man.

Originally posted by Xoogsade: For him, as I observed, It was like "Okey, there goes money, unquestionable love while I am here, and anything you need, now, reerkaaga dhaqo and shut the hell up" lool. Damn! That is indeed admirable. What's admirable about being married and not being there hands-on, helping with the kids, their upbringing, their morals? What good is 'unquestionable' love every few months? What good is an absent father? Every sailor wants a woman in every port but can marriage and fatherhood be just and fair when spread out between continents? U call his attitude cool, I call it COLD.

Red Sea, reality can be filthy. Burying our heads in the sand will not make the filth go away. In fact, we'll be more at risk of that filth damaging our lives. The UK government is launching a £300m campaign to deal with sexual health. The advertising campaign will be the most high-profile of its kind since the HIV and Aids awareness campaign in the 1980s, which featured TV commercials showing tombstones engraved with the words "Don't die of ignorance". Despite greater awareness of the major STIs, chlamydia rose by 9% last year to 89,818, genital warts went up by 2% to 70,883 and syphilis increased by 28% with 1,575 cases in England, Wales and Northern Ireland. Most of the cases are occurring in people aged 16-24. Health Secretary John Reid said: "Prevention messages are not getting through. "We need to act now on sexual health - and make it a priority. "We will run an advertising campaign which tells people, especially young people, of the consequences of irresponsible sexual behaviour and of sexually transmitted diseases." full article If more and more men are buying sex(and being reluctant to check themselves) and more women are providing this service(hence statistically more likely to be diseased) , don't you think their risks will filter into the rest of the community? Most prostitutes can not hide their lifestyles, a man that chooses to be in a relationship with one will be more likely to know of her every night activities than a woman in a relationship with a man who engages in sex buying and won't admit it to her let alone be honest enough with himself to get checked. Socod_badne, I know u want to travel the road well-travelled and travelled too much lately but I won't be following u there. If u want a fight(or a mock one), let's keep it relevant to the topic at least. I'll beat you, I promise. Don't be afraid. It's the taking part that counts.

Originally posted by Socod_badne: And I blame you . Yeah all you woman. Sex is rite of passage for us men, a right given to us by Allah. We're entitled to it when we want it, where ever want it, however we want it. Why should men pay for sex at all :mad: Why indeed? If it's a right of passage and u feel so strongly about it maybe u should find another like-minded man and keep one other busy; that way u won't feel so rejected by women in general and those expecting money in particular and u won't be accused of rape when u take it when u want it, wherever u want it, however u want it from a woman. Don't think too hard about that. Just a little. Then a little less. Then not at all. Then forget u ever came across this post and return to that soft, safe place in your head. Cause I'm coming to getchya. Bwahahahaha.

Only a fool would pay for sex. That doesn't mean all men ae fools, nor does it mean all fools are men. It just means only a fool would pay for sex.

I thought they were flirting.

"There are more men with money and more women looking for this type of work." Supply and demand.

a finger in the eye for Somalis.

I don't know that poets care about purpose necessarily when they write but write they do and if it's something positive about our culture I'm all for its proliferation, promotion and proanotherwordIcan'tthinkof. Square it with the owner first and go from there?

^grr annoying isn't it? Using apostrophes unnecessarily?

How much does self-publishing cost? A collection of the best of SOL poetry- a small pamphlet even sold for a small price(to cover publishing costs and earn a small profit) at Somali establishments with the profit going to a Somali-leaning charity sounds good. On paper. U'd need permission from all involved including the owner of the site and do a hell a lot of running around and organising. I like the sound of an SOL spin-off charity-poetry talent combo. It shouldn't be difficult to work out costs and potential profit; the exposure for the poets would be welcome I'm sure. Just how badly do you want to do this Duke? 1% inspiration, 99% perspiration, u know. And it is Somalis u're dealing with. Gotta factor that into the cost.

'Twice as many men' pay for sex The number of men paying women for sex has nearly doubled in a decade, UK research suggests. Surveys of 11,000 British adults in 1990 and 2000 found the rate increased from one in 20 to nearly one in 10 men. Rising divorce rates, sex tourism and increasing availability of commercial sex are blamed by the Sexually Transmitted Infections journal. It warns men's lifestyles put them at risk of catching sex diseases, yet few are getting checked in clinics. read in full

Originally posted by Daanyeer: Sheherezade (damn took me 6 times to type your name right) Oh no u didn't. Sheherazade. Flex that opposable thumb and try again. Tut, a chimp would have done better. Still wanna stay an orangutan? Brown, man. Ha is ku key wareerin.

If u'd rather be an O than a chimp(more intelligent), I'll take back my welcome as u don't deserve it. Enjoy your time here.

Welcome, chimp.

Here, there, everywhere and singing their own praises

Originally posted by Faarax Brown: quote:Originally posted by sheherazade: Didn't mean to ask a trick question. Did it hurt? Yes,Dear. You have to be Gentler[err Ladier] next time. Have you been chatting with castro lately? :mad: U can't handle it miya? Don't sweat it, better men can't.

Next time a 4-foot white-jeaned, white-shirted, greased up, non-English speaking Turkish stranger gesticulates suggestively at a bus top in the early evening of an otherwise delightful day in southern Turkey, I'll be sure to inquire as to why I was the chosen one. Though I dare say the intention may be lost in my make-shift sign language and misunderstood as a reciprocal and no doubt welcome rude gesture.

I didn't think I was that close to a Castro(secretly pleased) but anywhoo, we understand one another. Resisting temptation to make a double entendre.

Erm no, he's a Muslim. Certainly when it comes to bed action. Very Muslim. Didn't mean to ask a trick question. Did it hurt?

they'd be pumped with testosterone. To make them more 'manly'. So that they could give as good as they once got.