lUCKY I THOUGHT WE WERE FRIENDS, WHAT HAPPEN U DONT APPRICIATE MY WORK.. AND MY CONCERN FOR MY NOMADS? i HOPE U REALIZE THAT U TOUCHED MY SENSITIVE HEART AND ALMOST BROKE IT... PEACE

lUCKY THE GIRLS INSULTS U AND CALLS U UNTRADITIONAL, AND ALL U SAY IS INTERESTING BUT IT IS OK ANYWAY I AGREE WITH dAWACO ON EVERY THING... PEACE

looooooooool@Maskiin macruuf Qabridahare aaa war ileen tanookale... sxb iiwaran lagu waa xagee kadhacday, and sports sxb they are a bit confused and u are right most come for mujaajilo that is why i said the sample is too small, so i can be wrong.... but u have to be in one group brother think hard... and place urself in one group....Dawaco me and u know what group u belong loooool war tanookale wali ma arag loool peace

oooh boy ohh boy .. this is the topic i wanted to post, it seems someone was thinking the way i was thinking and this someone is none than the smart and brave dawaco, see i was a bit afread nomads will attack me and forget the point of the topic, she is so right ... i like the phrase Dhulkii waan ka tagnay, cirka neh ma gaarin. thou i didnt quite understood the meaning but i am guessing she means the girls left their tradition and couldnt coupe up with the western life, so they are hunging in the middle, good point dawaco.... i can see our nomads specially the girls trying to tell the brothers we are the mistake when all we are doing is protect them and turn them to real somalis.. when i say girls i mean most not all.. this topic is what we need, lets discuss and lets come to common ground and see our point of views.. remember open minded person like me always welcome others point of view peace

I realized the following since i spend a lot of time in SOL, there are 5 types of Nomads, i checked everyone posts and my survey end up with grouping the nomads in 5 groups.. according to their characteristics.. 1. Like to be professional and serious : those who always visit Camel Milk Debate and post there.. 2. Those who are not serious at all & like to create debate and arguments: General & Women, jokes 3. Those who think nomads are less smart then themselves (very few) : Poetry, Teens 4. Those who believe they can make changes and have plans to gain political advantage and one day be someone huge in somalia: Politics, and Islam 5. Those who are confused, and entertainment is not an option and they do not know what is next: Techno, sports, Which Group do you belong? i did this survey with consultation with some nomads... the sample was so small so the findings may not be occurate.. peace

Bee u are one of the oldest cooloos people in SOL and i was wondering where u been, Hibo is right but we somalis waan isa sugnaa til its too late, and then we say most likely he/she forgot me and that ends a beautiful relationship we could have had....Caramal_kisses hard indeed but life is short do u guys take it too serious... walahi in western sociaties they plant in u that u have to run around to stay alife and pay bills and make some lazy asss rich man richer.. hey dont give a preeeek ..enjoy life and come back fully to SOL Rokko enjoy ur partner and make her happy bro... remember even if she seems dhagaxoos .. deep inside her she is still female... and she is ur somali queen that is if she is somali, if she is not, then forget whatever i told u.... guys lets bring the old excitement and enthusiasm ... bring it on... peace..

Waraa caramel kisses waraaa dhagaxoos, biroos, bulkeetiyoos, madax adeega aad wadid run bey kaatahay, somali aatahay, dhagaxnima iyo waryaa naga tag waad kudhalatay looooool, i decided i am going for Cambodian .. make her muslim and go Janna with her inshaAllah... i have found my bath did u nuune ? Libaax sanka? Lakkad? Rudy? Sophis? u know China planty of people 70% females... they all same school.. the school of men must be taken care of.. with PHDs so it ur call, i found heaven ... no more waryaaa, no more baasto darbi lagu dhufanaayo si loo fiiriyo iney kartad, no daaqada ka soo qeyli adigoo shaqo usocoto aa lagu leyhay waryaa ha soo iloobin hilibka, dumarka somalida hilib jeclaa, ma libaax bey ladhasheen... peace

Che-Guevara sxb u are a wise man, i might end up .. atleast lugahaa la iidhaqaa every day... Princess_Sexy dear All somali girls are the wrong Queens, if we are not happy with them with their dhagaxoos attitude whos Queen are they then.. war walee waa ibtilo.... Sophist loooooool OG Moti, Waraa duqa waxaa larabey inaa dhahdid, abaay adiga marka aan ku arko aa la'igu didaa-- yaad jar ka tuuri la igu didaa aa, taasi waaba idil socoto, waana ogtahay dumarka somalida hada weynaga waa weenaadeen sidey wax ulaqayeen, marka sxb hana dilin nee naga daa.. caramel_kisses og_moti lyrics ani horta maba igu socoto hadii mid oo ii maado cumar dhuule wannabe oo igu dhaho gacmahaaga xaada leh, waa kabeen lahaay saqajaanka. ma pakistani buu imooday. jaahil fooqal jaahil iga dheh dhagaxnimo intaa kabadan hagee lageeni... hadalkii macaanaa oo dhan lyrics aaba loobixiyey, waxaana lagu gaba gabeeyey igu ma socdo lyrics war waa iga bas, Indhoyar waan kabaqayey .. waxuu dhasho hadhasho indho yar baan usocdaa.. wan isdhiibi ilaah baa joogee.. peace

What Happen my dear Nomads? We use to discuss more, and we actually been closer before, we use to make SOL part of our daily activities, reply topics, send PMs, and Invent good topics for intellectual discussions, All that seems to be disappeared somehow, No missing each other, no funny messages, in my case i havent get PM for months, although i see my fav. people in here sometimes, What is Happening? Is it because life is getting harder Is it because we somalis "waan xiisa dhacnaa easily" Is it because we dont take online friendship that serious? by the way I do take them seriously Is it because we are getting older and we feel we need to keep in touch with real life and less in cyper life? IS it because some got married others got busy with partners? Is it is because we reached the point to say "What is the Point?" I think SOL was part of my life for 3 years now, and i enjoyed my stay here, and i truelly believe i made a lot of friends men and ladies and they all been great people and I MISS THEM, hope to see them one day, The relationship we build here is strong, was strong hope it is still strong, so WHAT IS HAPPENiNG? lets make organization for better somalia and i volunteer to make ID cards and send to everyone, the Purpose? is at least to keep in touch and to hope one day we all help each other and do something for SOMALIA, it is not a dream or it might be but it is not impossible it can happen, So fill me in here WHAT HAPPEN .. why everyone seem to be distance... i feel we losing our closeness ... if u have answers for what happen let me know? and tell me how can we over come this distance that is getting bigger every day.........peace

Walahi anigu ma garanayo dumarka somaliyeed ula jeedadooda, ma iney nadhibaan bey damceen, mise iyagaa u abuurmay iney raga somaliyeed dhibaan, war ileen tanookale, sidani si maba aha, Markaan weydiino .. How Would you know If she is the one? see what she says below Somali LAdy: she said what do you mean the one, kibirka iska dhaaf, dumarka aad kuciyaari iska daa, majiraan wax layiraahdo the one.. qofkaad kahesho waa laraaacaa.. and she finished her sentances with "Ala kani suaal xumaa" walee waa doqon Hadana waxey kuley hiin What if there was a person who loves you dearly, who is educated,and is willing to go an extra mile for you............. ...........but you had no interest whatsoever in them, how would you deal with that? Extra mile what is that? marrage? hayaay nin baa lagaadayaa .. tolow waa kuma... Extra miles kulahaa, anagey nooga dhigayaan in ey axsaan noo sameeyeen markey aqbalaan guur.... war ileen tanookale, Guur waa maxay? Nin caqli badan, wax bartay, oo isku filan oo muslim fiican ah, how come u are not interested, naga daaya ciyaarta, ee population aan badinee .. guurka yeela .. oo sidan si isu dhaama, sidan si ma aha, somalia waxba kama harin, waxaaba lagayaabaa in Somalida lagu daro endangered species by 2006, dying out, subject to extinction .. marka naga daaya sidan... peace

Rudy i always knew u were a wise man, bal usheeg kuwan waalan .. odey yaaba heli karo, meynan maqal odey adan madaxweynihii somalia ugu horeeyey iyo odey cabdille, ragii somaliya soo waday, war baalaayo, I dont think we reach the level of knowing that every man and a women Have the ONE that would make them happy,. waa kaa somali sister kadhaadhici waxaa.. balaayo walee anagaa wax aragnay.Africanu will end up with odey only if u lucky that goes to the rest. peace

OBVIOUS Did u say it is Personal? man wake up and read ur religion that is if u are muslim, personal beel, baraka beele... war qofkii diinta kabaxo Isagaa ku F u t o Xun laakinse waa qof duloobay waana in laga hadlaa oo wali haduu ka soo noqon wayey la dilaa oo ceebtiisa aduunka ladhaafiyaa.. balaayo, democratic iyo civilizedkii welfare maad meeshan keeni, waryaa hee war maad kadeysid .. yaanan hadaa kugu qaras bixin.. peace

nuunelooooooooooool i wonder waaban gartayee gabdhaha haba kasoo horjeestaan Moti, ee bal akhyaartiina ma gabdhaha ayey raaceen bilaa sabab, qulquluu wa raacuu bilaa micna lol, Ameenah Og Moti I'm not your friend no more- you bilaa axsaan so and so Give me back my samatar tape ..now!! naxariista iyo axsanka bal itus .. war waa yaab, goormee dumarkeena iyagoo flower kuu wada kuu iman ama .. ku oran walaal macaan iyagoo kudarin war nadhaaf? will that day come? DAwaco suuq uun baa dishaa .. awoowe beel,looool nuuune sxb mulaca "a Lizard" caruurta ciyaar bey udilaan, isagana naf bey katahay, means somali women call us lugo baasto, and they say it as a joke but what they dont know is some guys actually have lugo baasto and it hurts them to hear that from our queens.. peace

Dear I was in Somalia at that time, yes some rape happened and it was for tribe reasons and i admit it was so sick thing to do, but still we have less, dont forget we have war and war creates social problems, anyway I vote for death panalty for rapist whether he raped muslima or gaalad, we all human and Allah will judge us ... peace

hayaay sheekadu ma old dog bey gaartay, war ileen tanookale, war heedhe gediid ma gabar inaad ka farxiso baad ugaaskii dog ku tilmaamtay, walee waa aduun, waligey tanoo kale ma arag, .... STHLM_lady you are exceptional, you could be the only romantic somali girl, seriously the case is extreme, .. try paltalk and say Waan bixi lahaaa ee heblaayo baan sugayaa, markaa bey intey soo boodo, bey oran oo maxaad iisugi, war iska tag... bal taa kawarama... anigu waan yaabanahay, oo maahmaahdii oranjirtay "Caruur mulaca ciyaar bey udilaan, isaga naf bey katahay" Ayaan wadaa.. peace

Waar Og Moti - waaku sidee sheeko hindi baad noo shidee Because my king you lack that sincere vessel without it... I shall forever doubt You what is this ur the moon and ur my earth or something, come on bro...be urself...that's the one thing u guys dont get, somali girls don't fall for lines Salam Alaykum nomads, Hibo ,ur anwswers to OG_Moti questions made smile for a while , they were actually very good you are getting worse LOOOOOOOOL OG_MOTI, WALAAHI SHEEKO AA HAYSAA. sxb beerta aad ku jirtaa haye, waa kugu kaligaa. OG_MOTI jaceel xun aa ku haayo, ha kugu taagnaato kaabbo See What I mean Shukaansi xumida wey udhasheen, Dhagaxoos wada socdo, lagama yaabo inaad naxariis ka heshid.. balaayo, anagaa wax aragnay....peace

ooh boy i missed a lot of good discussions, ok .. she asked for it! yes i said that, cause i believe she asked for it when she invites a guy to her appartment but that doesnt mean he wont be punished, islamically they both committed Zina and must be punished if proven which is hard.. human law he must be punished cause simply he is an animal, he did could not control himself and beside how can u do someone who doesnt want u.. i mean that i never understood, anyway my urgements in here i am talking about who to blame the source of the problem, i say the girl, and who to be punished the man, only because the girl is already been punished for her little mistake with a big punishment which is getting raped.. i hope i make sense there!!! about QacQAAc sxb did u say a non muslim who rapes should be killed and muslim should not, listen brother, in terms of fairness and punishment law ,, Islam is fair and clear about it, every criminal or guilty part whether muslim or non muslim will be punished equally and islam does not discriminate.. that is why it is a way of life, governs human not only muslims but humans... so brother i dont understand ur point... i totally agree with Bulo the punishment methods... the girl who asked how did she asked for, i believe i answered that question many times, and how would he punished, maximum punishment, all i am saying is she shouldnt feel so bad about it since she invited the bahal to her appartment... and her case will be different than a girl who is dar Allah jidka isaga soco bahal kusoo booday... so majority ask for it, some are innocent but not many.... peace

Someone said rape happens in somalia more than western countries, nothing could be further than the truth, In somalia we still muslims and we still have some dignity and honor even thou we seem to be useless in the eyes of the world.. secondly Ali was framed .. i am sure the white girl wanted to stay with him and maybe she liked the appartment of Ali and she wanted to spend the rest of her life there... and he said no... otherwise how come the other man was not identified, and was he a ghost, Ali doesnt know him the girl doesnt remember his face or all farax looks the same for a white girl? come on give the brother benefit of doubt .. i feel he was framed his only mistake was he was offered a white meat free of charge and he decided to take a bite and when he said he cant eat it all, he was accused of rape... ... faraxoos stop saying yes whenever u are offered a bite of a white meat or any meat have some style.. get a job and marry a decent girl... peace

Somali women complain about Somali men not being romantic and accuse them of being irrisponsible and unromantic....I have few Question for MY Somali Queen.... 1. Why do you have to say "War nadhaaf, qaab daranimada nagala tag" when i say you are the moon walking on earth to show me the path for happiness? 2. Why do u laugh when i say i feel full of life when i am with you? 3. Why Do you have to say "War nin iska dhig waa maxay jileeca" when i say i dream about u and i couldnt sleep for the strong feelings i have for u? 4. Why do you tell everyone when i tell u my heart is tik tik and my eyes are blik blik when i see u and u make a joke out of it? 5. Why do u reply "KIR" when i say i love u? 6. Why you so nice to every other nationality and rude to ur somali brothers? 7. Why do u smile when a foriegn man says a silly joke and when a brother says a good joke u say war nadhaaf dhaan dhaanyahow? 8. Why do you think it doesnt fit me when i am so romantic and when a japanese or even nepalis writes a silly poem and u say he is romantic and sweet, and when i write u telling me kuma fiicnid iska daa iska yeel yeelka, ? 9. Why you keep calling me lugo baaasto, when i all i think about is you and i see everything about u is perfect? 10. Why do you cry when hindi xun oo ooyaya aragtid in a movie and say that is romantic, and when i bring a flower to u and come to u with hamble heart and jeceel iga muuqdo u say war nadhaaf waa maxay flowerka maxaad imooday raqiis dhaan dhaan yahow...? WHY my dear Queen? when will u learn to accpet me as i am. like i accepted u as u are....and why dont you beleive i could be as romantic as Qeys of Leyla, or Antar of Abla, or even Romoe of Juliet, Answer me WHY Peace

Being as a chinese Somali, I will answer some of your questions... Why they dont put them in Jail?[/b] like one of the brothers said, it cost money to keep someone in jail...that reason one.. reason two a criminal is a criminal, and one day u have to release them and they will do it again, and it will cost more to punish him, again and maybe the crime he will do will be more damaging than the one before after experience in crime school called JAIL.. so the logical thing to do is send him back to his country.. and that solves the problem.. beside when u send him to somalia he wont last long... cause he will go to a place with real animals...he might join the masjid and start praying when he sees those people back home... they do the same thing for Cambodians criminals, every day there is a shipment of Cambodians from USA they all gangs deported to cambodia and i see them around .. they are like chickens .. cause people in poor countries dont have time for Whatz up and Dawg .. and fara taag, USA gangs talk too much then they shoot .. third word people have no energy to talk .. food is little so they shoot and walk away... so it is good idea to send them to their countries that is a good discipline for them... peace

OK wait the minute.... here... first of all, let me talk about "Xeer" in the sense of Somalia and Yemen is full of $hit and unislamic, let me tell u this story... it happen in yemen while i was studying there... this girl comes to visit her friend, the friend was not in the house so the brother was there and asked her to come in, and raped her, then for Xeer or xaar "as i like to call it" reasons they gave the girl to her raper, and they got married, and since the day he married her, he beats her and beats the shit out her, and abuses her more and it was heart breaking to see her kicked infront of the people, and the worse thing was people do blame her for the rape and they say she deserve it to be treated that way and no one deos anything about it. She was double victimized by a Bahal who is far from being human... walahi u can not count how many times i wanted to kick the shit out him, but it wasnt my country and yemen people will group on me... ... so It is wrong to give the raped girl to her abuser.. it is unislamic, inhumane and what is wrong with a raped girl to marry who she wants, she was raped and it was not her fault, she is victimized and need support, personality i wouldnt mind to marry a rape victim cause it was not her fault and i would have tried my best to make her forget what painful experience she had by understanding her and sporting her.. that is one thing... so xeer somaliyeed is wrong and dont tell me waa dhaqan it is a bad dhaqan and it has to stop... Second whether the girl invited to be raped or not... i said many cases yes.... make ups and fleshy dresses are invitations to be raped... dancing and asking a guy to drink a coffee in the middle of the night is a serious invitation for rape... Questions to the sister who opposes my point of view... 1. Why do u make up any way? so that men will be admiring u? men will say Woooooooooooow?? excuse me u are inviting for rape... 2. why u have to invite a man in the middle of the night for a coffee? to talk? yeah right!! 3. Why do u dance sexxy? to be intouch with your soul? get out of here... u are trying to stimulate those with weak control and u enjoy seeing them suffering desires to u.. and when they have the chance they attack like a lion... so dont tell me no women deserve to be raped .. i know no body is deserved to be raped, i did not say they deserve ... i said they invited... and it doesnt make right but they could have avoided the pain if they avoid the above 3 questions..... a decently dressed women will not be subject for rape... and every theory has exceptions but decent dress is a protection.. .. Peace............. Rape is a social desease shared by women and men.. that is why our religion says a woman and a man should not be alone in one place, cause shaytan will be there and play a major role....

pls don't tell me they went to the mosque and made duah... looooooooool they most likely did...duah... sister x_quizit dont get me wrong but i am talking about of research and survey, we did some survey in this issue and we found out most about 70% or more rape cases were invited by the women... some mental illed men do exist, but when we took a sample and did our most carefully done research, we came to conclusion that women do invite rape, for many reasons 1. What she wears or the make up she puts, and her physical actions .. teasing men.. 2. The offer a man to take them home or invite a man to get in the house in a cold night asking the dampest question "Would u like a cup of coffee"? any person would take that as invitation to come and do ur thing, dont say it is not... 3. she wants the experience and to see the feeling of stimulating a man and rejecting him afterwards, but things go out of control and the game turns to real 4. she talks dirty to him, and asks him have he done it and how many women, in the wrong time and at the wrong place... and many more.. if u want i can send u .. our report in this issue, u will be amazed how men are innocent in many cases, they just followed mixed signs ... so sister i am not saying all rape cases are the victems fault i am just saying 70% women initiate the whole thing... peace...

Is this only to say which is true and which is false... or we can discuss, cause i have seen discuss somewhere up... anyway, they all could be true, now adays anything could happen, of course it is difficult a somali couzin will rape his couzin since Somalis treat even neighbors as a real sister and never haweysan maayo, laakiinse .. with holland making drugs legal, with luck of education and shaqa la aaan, somali men get to the habit and when a man is high he can jump high too.. RAPE? the most abused word in western countries... mostly women ask for it.. i said mostly, ofcourse there are cases where women were raped without being her fault, but come on a women who shows her flesh and tease men with her sexual skills and pull away when things got heated .. i say she asked for it... beside 70% of RAPE cases are false and women either didnt like the activities or the man was not doing what he suppose to do well, or she turns off half way somehow and expect to say stop and he will stop... or she goes late night with a man or invites him in her house and when things happen she says i got raped, come why would u invite a man to ur house or go to his house in the middle of the night? Talk? i say get real... peace

Salaam, marka hore a man who did research can not be rejected and wuu iska hadlay lama orankaro... qaybta labaad Maxaad tahay Jacaylow ? Waxa weeye Jacayl iyo wixii la jeclaaday laakiin taas way ka balaadhan tahay wayna ka mugwayn tahay , jacaylku waxa weeye kalgacalka dhex yaala gabadha iyo ninkeeda Maxaatahay jeceelow? << waaba dagaal sidan .. ala afsomaliga jeceel maba loogu tala galin, waaban naxay markuu yiri maxaatahay jeceelow? waa nin dagaalamaya, naxariis kuma jirto hadalkaas, Qodobka sadaxaad what is this Balaarantahay, kana mugwey tahay waa dagaal kale, mug weyn aa ? war ileen anagaa wax aragnay.... Qodobka afaraad lamaanaha what is that? ma labada isqaba buu kawadaa... war waa cajiib, waligey hadal ka ad adag ma arag, hadalkani jeceel maba ku xaboona... mizz this is not jeceyl... inkastoo xikmad kujirto hadalka.. laakiin waa dhagax ... peace

looooooooooooooooooooooool@[/b]African[/b] Oday Gabooboow, (hadaan kaa daayo naanaystaa kabtayda wax iigu rid) and even more looooooooool@ bal meesha aad ku aragtay qoraalkan noo sheeg “beside i check the site, didnt you read well, it is about lady_boys, it says Niger men competing with women for beauty and expressing their feminant side...” first i like it when u call me Odey Gaboobay.... it shows how much u like me and how much u respect me.. dear i read something about beauty contest for feminen men in that country .. read it is i think in a link left side of the website... but dear we have a good somali men why look some where else... u havent find ur man till u find the somali man who will make u say alahayow iidaa rageena somaliyeed, wiil somali janadaat kutagi hadaad si fiican uula dhaqanto... respect to u sis.. peace