looooooooooooooooooooooooool underdog...I neither got the feeling you were juding me and was i trying to defend myself against anything...I said what i said, so that you would understand from what experience i am drawing my conclusion from, nothing more or less, really As to your "xishood," trust me man, you don't have anything to worry about...it's still around, but see what happens sometimes is that guys get turned off by "shy" girl cause they don't seem to have patience to wait around for them...But i do know that those special "xishood" ladies are around and kicking...I should know, one of my friend is like that...hmm who knows maybe when she is ready to settle down, i would point her toward ya

looooooooooooooooooooool hehehehehehe rudy, gosh your grandfather is honest about relationships between women and men. God whatever happened to men like those, instead of guys using fancy words like "i love you," where they don't know anything about love, just to get girls. And pretending they care :rolleyes: :rolleyes: . It's either you want a ride or you don't, and when each gets to their destination, ciao..ah good old days.

looooooooooool rudy wouldn't you knowing everything about the opposite sex really make the chase boring. Or those early parts of whatever relationship, when u just being on your toes to keep figuring out that person. P.s. Anyways, what works on one woman "soft spot" doesn't work on another, as can be seen by some replies here. whatever happened to Spontaneous actions/moments between people man i surely miss the good old days

looool underdog...Let's see, now i only went to a club once in my lifetime, but i would assumed that most of the clubs are darkly lit, except of course the stage where the performance is happening, so therefore it really doesn't matter which dark corner to stand in. Now as to the outfit, maybe you haven't seen somali weddings or social gatherings, but the outfits of women is getting shorter, more revealing, soon the scarf around the shoulder for those strapless or thin strap dress is gone. And yeah girls show up with short skirts to weddings...Therefore for me it isn't much different than in clubs. But my one time visit, i dressed in jeans+ turtle neck shirt, and a long sweater. Many people were dress also casually at this place. As to coming back tomorrow, unforuntaly women who are married and with children are doing so right now, where they go to weddings and don't come back till early next morning...Anyways, aren't all weddings ending now around 3 am or what not, when they started around 10 pm, so it's already tomorrow anyways. Now to me, i don't agree with the idea that people attending clubs don't have "Xishood" or "moral" because those things have nothing to do with clubs. But hey we will agree to disagree. au revoir

oh another relationship question...

Quiet a lot of people probably don't remember this post or this side of "DARMAN." for a newcomer like me, it's funny to see the image he has now, and the image he might have started off with.

Excatly when in july this event would be held? and where in t.dotz?

this seems like an appropriate topic to bring back in women section...Since it's relationship/dating/catching someone's attention/sex maniac month.

hehehehehe that's a good one. At least he wasn't turned into a woman who would be afraid to break a nail or what not

loooooooooooooooooool underdog so i see. But i hate chocolate chip cookies but tell you what, how about oreos, and you got urself a deal. P.s. if the movie is one of those mushy mushy types you better be aware that i am going to start reading to ya Captivating-Soul's list nice punishment hai nah

It's both. Humans are very complex and it's impossible to simplify effecting factors in their development. Parents and environments have equal input into a person's life, but it's the choice the "free will" concept that determines really how a person ends up. Both parents and environment provide sort of different sides or aspects of life, and how we take and implement those lessons into our lives, really gives the final results. Even those people who live in same environment, have similar life don't end up being effected the same way by their briging ups or circumstances.

Egypt...I enjoyed that country...even though they are racist toward foreigners, i liked the vast culture.

hehehehehehe Underdog why that specific amount!!!Don't tell me that's all you got in your account? Gee and everyone was singing how creative and what not you are, maybe you need to try it outside of SOL to earn some extra dinaro...

looooooool rudy, i got say this, i really love your avator, it's just sooooo funny Now back to the question, i think a lot of people are giving clubs way too much negative conetations. To me, weddings and somali social gathering at this age are much worse than clubs. I mean people doing the shake a booty dances and being taped and god knows how many people watching those videos. In my opinion, that's worse, than couple of girls going to a club and picking a dark corners and just dancing...Just in groups mind you...At least that's left behind, but in somali social events, there is always a tape of you dancing somewhere. I don't like guyz with beard, it's just too much hair for me. To me if a man wants hair, only keep it on his chest other than that, it needs to go babe. au revoir. P.S. i only respect people based on their personlities, ambitions, characters, not by their style of dressing!!!

loooooooool you guys are cracking me up. Last time i checked "intimidates" meant someone that fills another person with fear or coerce others by threats. No if i only had to fear a man, that definitely was my pop, espically when i didn't get those grades i was suppose to Yah yah i was slacking off, i need break too. I have to say, i would never be intimated by somali guys. When some of them come of as ignonrant, they just amuse me. And when they pretend they know it all, i just take it one ear and send it off the other. said too much already later

looooooooooool Princess_Sexy, you should read the other one in general.

Well from my spending quite a lot of time reading old stuffs of some memebers who are not here anymore, my list as of this moment would be: 1. Che-Guevra 2. Baashi 3. Chikita 4. Laziegirl 5. Scorpion_Sista 6. Raxiil 7. lulla 8. Princess-Sexy that is it at this moment. au revoir

Glad to see you guyz coming from the underneath the rocks. Yah Stpaulchick i remember that movie it was a good. Sometimes i go back to the classics but it brings back a lot of memories of Somalia Also about Hirtik if you notice all his clothes, he has all of them cut in weird ways, espcially his shirts and sweaters :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Nafisa yeah i am looking forward to chalte chalte, i mean any movie of Rani is a must see, i have liked her since her first film, which i really suggest watching. I heard the soundtrack for it, and it really got some great songs in it. oh yeah nuune i forgot to mention one thing, i love hemi malini but one thing for sure her daught Esha Deol didn't inherite the talent of her mother :mad: :mad: P.s. TO THE FANS OF THE MOVIE "DIL TUMAHARE HAI" CHECK OUT this movie called "Kya Kehna" it's Preity zinta with the same director and really a fantastic story. I enjoyed it very much. au revoir

Well Silent-sista i did not say they wanted a child off the women because they love kids. Nah i said it because that's how they continue their own race espically tribe's names. Quiet often it's the idea of a man leaving something of himself in this world and knowing that his name or his clan's name would be continued along the way. It has nothing to do with love for either women or children, therefore i said women are not part of the equation, just a tool to be used. Anyways, we can agree to disagree on this issue.

Unfortunatly i don't really remember my first time of cooking. But i have this one early recollection of my cooking career, where a girl trying to show me one day how to cook and her dirac catching on fire. Maybe i should have paid attention, because that sort of set the stage for my cooking experience Burned myself everytime. I really am a take-out gal and if i would search for a husband, top number one on my list would is "is he a chef????"..

Ilhaam..Yeah i did, but seriously K3G to me was all about Kajol and Shahruh Khan. But did you see that so "gay" outfit of Hiritk when he arrived in london :eek: :eek: :eek: About his thumb, actually i did not noticed till one day a friend of mine mentioned it. I guess in suposedly all his perfection nature left him unperfect. But i heard this coming months he is coming with a new movie that might resemble "Forest Gum" we shall see i guess. If you want to watch some good new releases check these out: Bhoot, Andaaz, Hero P.s. Maybe it's me, but doesn't the new boy in "ishq visk" remind you of Sharuh khan!!!!

While i was catching up on some readings around this site i came across this topic which i find to be similar to yours. http://www.somaliaonline.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=6;t=000236;p=1

Barwaaqo u know what i really believe that movie belonged to Madhuri Dixit, she gave a great performance. Ilhaam, glad to see you joining the indian rank, I liked your lists, except i think Dil Ka Rishta could have been better movie if they developed the second half and aishawari wasn't in it. U said u like Hirthik, don't you laugh when that guy cries? He is a great dancer though.

IS THIS TRIP STILL ON OR WHAT? UPDATE THE NEWCOMERS PLEASE. AND IF IT IS STILL GOING ON, WHEN WILL BE AND HOW MUCH?

I would have to say i am #5, #8, and #9