You have seen 3 faces of Eve right? I mean it clearly shows that she developed those multiple personalities because she had to deal with death and how her husband was suppressive. Therefore, she had this really nice character, the wild one, and the weak one(which suppose to be the original person). So for me i don't believe that jin and multiple personlities have anything to do with each others. Even though jin effects on people might be the closet thing we had seen so far. You can't not therefore logically equate those two things and make that conclusion. I believe multiple personalities is more complex disease and a mind illness rather than outside forces. Best of luck with ur research, au revoir.

You have seen 3 faces of Eve right? I mean it clearly shows that she developed those multiple personalities because she had to deal with death and how her husband was suppressive. Therefore, she had this really nice character, the wild one, and the weak one(which suppose to be the original person). So for me i don't believe that jin and multiple personlities have anything to do with each others. Even though jin effects on people might be the closet thing we had seen so far. You can't not therefore logically equate those two things and make that conclusion. I believe multiple personalities is more complex disease and a mind illness rather than outside forces. Best of luck with ur research, au revoir.

Yes you have to tell him, even though you might end up losing your frienship with him. But i don't think so, he is your best friend isn't he!!! And as you being against her from the beginning, since when friends take that against each others. Each has their own personal opinions. If he choose to continue his relationship with her, atleast he did it with the full knowledge of what kind of woman his girlfriend is. And when he is cheated on and sees it with his own eyes he had no one to blame. But imagine you telling him then "well i knew she did this because i saw blah blah blah" he would probably blame you and get mad at u for not telling him, even though he might not have accepted it. Another thing you can do before telling him now directly, but it might require time, is to follow her and see her schedule or when she meets this guy, if there isn't more than one. U can take pictures as proof, or just have your friend and you go to this place, where it happened that she was with one of her other guys and you guys run into each others. I think your friend can handle it from there on. So i talked too long, but my finale answer is YES. But u can go with option B. Oh another thing, you can have your lady friend collabrate your story, since she noticed you noticing another woman. I am sure if u told her what the sitution was she would help you convince your best friend. p.s. you know i heard one time that 40% of women wouldn't date a guy if her friends didn't like him.

loooooooooooooooooooool i remember reading this list couple of weeks ago on msn.com and it's funny i was thinking about it earlier too. Somehow everything ends up being posted around here. my favorite is the 3rd one about loving your partners family "But it's not her family that you will have to share a bed with for the rest of your life."

Well Ruqiyah u have learned your first lesson. Notice how everyone who had responded didn't share with ya their real name and what not. So one thing u got to do, don't ask anyone about their age or real name, just keep ur eyes open and u shall find the answers on your own. No information comes for free here oh yeah welcome and enjoy ur stay. au revoir

U know what this web site hadn't had a new member joining for the past 4 days. I think that is some kind of new record. Maybe after all i would win the bet i had with my friend about this website.

"sis honestly how can u not fall inlove with a guy who threatz ya like a queen..who adores u and ya whole family? and i have been falling for lot worser guyz than him..so why can't I fall inlove with him?" Well Xayat there is so many logical arugments why things like those aren't enough but it's not important. I guess all i need to say now is i wish u best of luck and happy marital bless insha allah.

Well jewel i am glad it didn't turn out worse than that for ya. Sometimes events like those end up in gang rape or rape period. p.s. i found this topic, that might be a bit similar, while checking back files. http://www.somaliaonline.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=6;t=000398;p=1

unfortunatly u didn't make sense to me with ur last comment :confused: :confused: :confused: . Anyways thanks for giving it a shot.

loooooooooooooooool somealien. That's all i got to say

The ruling came back today and I am glad to report that the supreme court has ruled in the favor of affirmative action. I hope that my voting or signing the petition had helped in some way. au revoir

looooooooooooooooooooooool Darman, sometimes it seems some girls are naive about guys and how long they pine for a girl. One woman is just like the next one. au revoir

U know what i am confused about something here, but maybe flying-still would clearify for me...While i was checking old topics, i came across this one by CLOWN where he is talking about breaking up with this chick and how her friend told him the girl didn't love him at all and how he got revenage by dating the friend. And then in another topic, he made a statement if i remember correctly saying how he will never trust another somali woman ever in his life. But then there is your relationship and confessing love to each other. So what's the real deal here? I know it's personal, but confussion isn't something i like to be surrounded with..au revoir

First of all Darman, you need to start toning down this attention seeking tactics of yours. We already checking the topic, so there is no need for this really huge font and red color writing. Unless of course, you are going blind and can't see, we then might have to make a special case for you. Now back to the topic. To me, to understand a person i have to know their past, because their experiences is reflection of who they are today. When i tell or he tells me about his past or mine, it is not meant to be used as a judgmental ways. Because that's between that individual and Allah. But rather as a way of creating a better understanding between two individuals. We as humans make mistakes throughout our life time and i am not expecting a goodie-two-shoes sort of a guy, but a real man. A man who can face and accept his past and not be apologetic...Confession is good for the soul...So i hear. But if one partner says explicitly they don't want to know about something, then the other partner should respect that and keep the past to themselves.

I always had this thing for older men. They quite interesting and one can have a great conversation with them often. My max was a guy who was older than me by 12 yrs at least. Now back to the topic, your old man is thinking to get you hitched ha. Well personally, i am not bothered about arranged marriage, i mean if the parents brought a delicious man, why would i shoot myself in the foot just cause it came from their side. But if I didn't like their choice, and there were really a supstancial differences in our personalities and goals, i would not concent and that should be the end. Now you want to study and have a lot of fun in life, so it's really important that the guy your old man brings understands those desires of yours and that you are nsync together about it. Best relationship is the one with a lot of communication and listening. Original poster, i got to say, i am getting the feeling that you are younger than 20 if not even yet 19. So in your case, i would suggest also that you discuss with this possible future mate of yours, if he would consider delaying the wedding atleast for two years or so. And use that time wisely. au revoir P.s. just a quick question, Xayat u assuming that you would love this man after you married him, but what if that is not the case? do u think he deserves to spend the rest of his life with someone who can't love him as a person deserves to be loved? Just a curious question, not meant to be taken in the wrong way.

loooooool Tagane i got a feeling you got something to say, but tooo ...... to get it out. just too bad

SINCE THIS IS A MAN'S SESSION AND I WALKED IN MISTAKENLY..I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO SAY "ANYONE WANTS SOME COFFEE"

PEEPS DID MOST OF YOU GUYS NOTICED THIS WAS LIKE 6 MONTHS AGO. HOW MANY OF YOU SEEN A GUY PINE FOR A WOMAN THAT LONG. HE WAY PAST THIS FEELINGS, RIGHT DARMAN!!!!!!

MY HEART ALMOST STOPPED.MY TRAINER SAID I GOT CUTE FEET AND BEEN SEEING THIS GUY HANGING AROUND. GLAD HE IS IN JAIL, ESPICALLY DURING THIS TIME OF YEAR. IT COULD BE DANGEROUS OUT THERE

yo that was off the hook for real..Keep it coming.

TELL IT LIKE IT IS AND LET IT GO AFTERWARD. AU REVOIR

You know what...We are suppose to be ourselves while saying our opinions...And i do agree that for some, tribalism and qabilism stuffs gets to them and they lose focus...And at those times, it is appropriate to delete or warn them...But what i don't understand is the admins problem with someone calling another a ****** ..Because lets face it, i seen ****** people around here..And if they met me in real life and made such comments I would have said "you so ****** " as a simple fact..So what i want to say..Admin are getting to paronoid and too strict and not creating a reaslitic environment..therefore forcing people to be not who they are in real life and therefore it defeats the purpose of "nomads expressing their opinions" because it's not really 100% their opionion. Au revoir.

looooooooooool i second that Gediid.I would get my adidas or nike shoes on and "bahag" if a guy put that on his list. As for me, i guess i do solemly swear i wouldn't do these: 1. Cut off his "P" while he was sleeping. 2. Rape him more than 3 times a night. 3. Let him buy me flowers for occassions. Yep that's it the rest is all negotiable.........

ayi karamba...Suite yourself...And yeah she has a "good personality"

Well underdog, it shows that sometimes being blonde and dumb pays off...Anyways, i wouldn't hire that lawyer for anything :mad: :mad: :eek: