Ayaan xirsida la sheego taas miyaa? And I thought She was pretty!

Bro Salafi-Online, It will serve your objectives better if you dealt with others on the basis of their human nature rather than expect them to be perfect, or for them to be like you. May be that way, you wouldn't react to others with horror or with the big disappointments you display as if people were supposed to be Macsuumiin. People are not beyond the realm of human nature and will make plenty of mistakes for whatever reason. And for the second time, Sareda's expression was one of surprise not because the Guy married four wives but all the wives lived under one roof.

Sareeda , Don't worry sis, I understood your remarks as an expression of surprise rather than one of rejection/disbelief. We become surprised at things that defy the norms or things that are uncommon. It is not unheard of for a man to marry more than one wife, but to bring all those women under one roof is a little bit strange to say the least. People get curious and ask how he does it or that sorta of thing. When I see Some of us who are prone into finding faults with other people's comments and there is nothing obvious to pick on, I remember a wise comment made in a political online magazine I often read: "Righteousness, if not rooted in humility and focused on results--on persuasive power--will offend more than it attracts and falls victim to its own arrogance" By DAVE LINDORFF.

Xarago, Ma carootey? My bad really.

Sponsor= Damaano Qaad ama Wakiil Qaad. Ha noqoto in terms of economics or other responsibilities I am interested to know if someone can translate what the disease Cagaarshoow is known in english?

Xarago, Gabadha si fiicaney kuugu jawaabtey ee haku xumeynin af-soomaaliga aysan Aqoon. In other words, ka qalley gabadha yar. OG-Girl Your sense of patriotism isn't that bad. No matter what a somali names himself, or where they live, they are somalis. These conflicts and devisions are hopefully not forever.

Juxa, lol@nine kids. That must be crazy!! Waaba lagu waalanaayaaye unless I am planning to do that ala some somali style, just show up and tell the wife, Naa quuqdooda naga aamusi waxa aan ka seexannee. That would be easy. My friend told me he has forty plus siblings. I didn't believe him at first and had to ask some people who know him. He said he doesn't even know all their names and has difficulty who is who calling early in the morning. When some of them call him, they introduce themselves and go: "Islaantii shanaad baa i dhashey, curadkii baan ahay Ismaaciil ma garaneysaa Aboowe, I hope you have heard about me" My plans are drastically different inshallah. That Number nine of yours is gonna come down drastically.

Classique, Thanks for the "doc" title though I am not One or was insinuating to be one. I was curious about the reasons you wrote the way you did, and now I see why All is well sis.

XU, I find your little knowledge and unawareness to be good and healthy for a good reason although others have disagreed with me. But anyway, good luck with your read. Baashi I thought If we can sum up the root cause of the problem in One word, should there be a need for reading a book about it? That is where I departed from in giving the advice. And I wasn't underestimating Xu's intelligence but was rather concerned for her as she correctly understood.

Bro Baashi, I thought Xu might be corrupted by reading some biased book who rants and raves about some somali segments as is the usual with these political books. She seems to have a heart that is not tainted with prejudice, and I wanted her to keep it that way, hence, my advice to her to stay incommunicado about the whole madness. Somali politics are not for everyone. By staying out of the political/tribal insanity, One is enabled to maintain their original SELF who likes and respects every somali regardless of tribal affliation whereas THOSE WHO GET INVOLVED TOO DEEP become selective in their discussion, trust, and openness towards Some other Somalis. So why bother?

Waryaa Dude , Sorry bro, My "Oh brother" comment was towards what the writer said about Somalis of being "Proudest, vainest, difficult, merciless". It seems their qualities are not meant for cohesion and co-existence but for perpetual aggression. That is what came to my mind as I read the comment. Seven of Nine Thanks

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Xu, You are better off not reading anything and keeping your awareness of the current somali situation to that minimum level. You are not missing anything to be honest with you Xu. Just hope that things eventually work for Somalis and they come together for the good of their country and of their people. That is all that matters in my opinion

Sis Classique , You are not like any other Somali woman out there, So for any man to judge you personally, based on every other somali woman he knows or doesn't know, would be both unfair and illogical. I can't say Classique is Bad because all Somali women are bad, or Classique is good because all somali women are Good. That would make no sense since There is no collective goodness or collective badness in Societies and Somalis are no exception to that rule. Btw, you are nice, I think somebody must have hurt your feelings Can you tell us about it? lol.

raula , you forgot one more thing about the Madi, Ilmo badan inuu dhalaa la rabaa, twins are preferred. Hadaa Gabdho kaliya dhashidna, naag kalaa loo guurinaa. Looks like sheekada Madiga Mid sahlan Ma'ahan. I thought Women didn't care about the Guy being Madi untill I saw your comment. Waaba sheeko cusub. That got my attention. Qacbaro Off topic and an abstract question for you, Hooyadaa hadey ku dhahdo Fur naagtaada, Ma furi Laheyd? How would you handle the situation?

Buubto , Okey Abaayo, Thanks for your enlightened reply.

Snow-The-Spy, That is you, the Spy. The meaning of informer in the dictionary says, informer is An informant, especially one who informs against others, often for compensation.

Buubto, You wouldn't write a letter or drop a hint? markaa waano bixiso, lama dhaho anigana ma raacaayo waanadaan bixiyey. Hadalkaa is burinaayo.

Boolbaro, Sorry saxib, I just thought you were pulling my leg here. Okey, I will take back my comment. Thanks to the unlimited editing Option, It will be gone in a second. I think the woman who named herself "Xoogsade" didn't know the Somali grammar very well. She can be forgiven for the blunder.

BoolBaro, Are you kidding me? " Xoogsade " is unmistakably Male Name. I don't know how such unforgivable blatant mixup can happen. But then again, Meeshaan waxbaa si ka ah nooh bro.

Mutakallim , Was the post that boring to you? And Btw, Have you read a book by the Name: Matter: The Other Name For Illusion By Harun Yahya?

Because of the "Juxa" stories we were told back in the days, Who was a Man, I thought This "Juxa" in Somaliaonline was a man too. Waxaan is leeyahay every time I visit and see "JUXA", Qofkaan waaba ninee sidee wax ka yihiin oo sheeko dumareedka uu qoraayaa. Mid Xarago la baxdeyna waa arkaayey. A male name again. Meeshaan waxbaa isku qasan.

Snow-The-Spy , What unsanitary lives?

Kool Kat, That is good advice and Thanks. Qacbaro. In wax la adkeyo ma fiicno, laakiin markaa aragto niman homeless ah oo ilmahooda aan loo oggoleen iney booqdaan, hal iyo labana ka badan, Ama gabdho yar yar oo caruur badan heysto nin la'aan, Don't you wonder if that was worth all the trouble? Negativkaa batey so some people are worried. Anyway, Qof walbo Ilaahey ha u fududeeyo. Kool Kat said it best.

You can be disappointed if you think of Marriage as something that will put to rest all your worries, problems and life's difficulties. It can be both pleasant(with hard work and a lot of patience) or the wrong decision you make for eternity. It is about Need. The need for the other is there always despite what people think of it.