My point is clear on that: Its all about maturity process, we all must go back soon or later for good.
The phenomena taking back kids for dhaqan celis won't help from acculturation, it can only cause trauma in their minds.
If the parents don't forget to impress them sharply our defended values, i think they'll go consistently by their own will.
Those like me who saw the day in somalia, we just feel that as a natural call, no matters how far we are set apart from our culture.