Scorpion sista.....I read all of them too. try Karen Robards***she is awesome

"Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories an hour". uh huh.........something to think about

1st of all I must say;kuluco is off the hook****respect sista. Secondly, I am not thin or fat, however depending on what I am wearing it is hard to tell sometimes. I am Aaliya, I am a shopkaholic, and becuase of that I am constantly not happy with my weight because all the great clothes are smaller, and to be ones with y'all that is the only reason that I am not happy with my weight. I have been told that I have great legs, and my tits are to die for, that I am funny and beautiful by muslin and gaal. Guys hit on me all the time...as all somali girls are aware of, we are all beautiful no mater what anybody says. So what I am trying to say is I want to look even better for me, and that is why I am not happy with my weight.

My studio fix by m.a.c, some things I dont joke about,as my younger sister learned the hard way****lol. Just thinking about that day makes me all worked up again.

Wildcat*****what a fitting name........lol. Just relax, I may have got the wrong end of the stick as you have said previously, and re-reading the subject under discussion, came to the conclusion that I may have taken the "road less travelled"....and therefore apologize for un-due criticism. I like to admit when I am wrong, and I hope you take it as such. ciao

I can atest to #s 1,2,4 and most definitely 5..........and pple wonder why I am still single...lol How about " 6-1+4=9-5=4*2=8" (close to what I'm looking for....lol)

Point taken, there is no need for sarcasm. However, if you prefer the UST like Heathcliff and Catherine, which ended tragedy by the way, why did say the following: "...For me the priority is never to immediately find out whether the guy is interested in me or not...I prefer to have it pan out slowly...the more drawn out the better I like it...it's a process of savouring the... really building the tention until you can barely stand it...I've been known to keep it up for years (and no...I'm not jesting!) *wonders what will happen when I finally let myself go* ...." And if so, are you saying that eventually you would like the UST to be satisfied......just want to understand. You throw few word together which sound intelligent and well thought (for all I know you could be smart), but you come across as know-it-all, when in fact majority of people reading are either confused (including me) or have no clue what you are trying to say....(wadar iyo waaxid kee baa waalan), so my advice to you "big one" is revise your work so the majority can understand.......peace. This is all in good spirit......

Y'all cant be that naive.......give me a break. A virgin guy............please. I totally agree with indhadeeq (no american pie scenerio thank you very much.) But arent we all assuming that there are virgin girls and guys out there.....I for one DO NOT BELEIVE such thing exists anymore. And if you still believe all that, then you are either helplessly naive or blind. About the repenting (you cant have your cake and eat it too)..........that is just wrong. peace

I really dont understand what Heathcliff obsession with Catherine have to do with this topic....bad example Wildcat. On the other hand, if you were to use Pride and Prejudice(Mr. Darcy and Miss. Bennet), we have something to talk about. I think is it a turn off, when guys just give in too easily, this is a common syndrome to somali guys. And by giving in I mean, one date and they are soooo in love with you..........what the H***. there is no suspense to it, no mystery to it...In short BORING.