I like your reasoning my friend.

You are making a mockery of the Islamic faith!

Its haram for with those with a total disconnection with their host society and are removed from reality.

Originally posted by Canjeex: Best way to build your confidence to approach a girl is to remind yourself (or atleast qalbigaaga ka dhaa dhacsii just b4 the prey) that, women have hard time or don't have the balls to approach a man, therefore, you are doing them a favor by approaching them! And if that still does not help, keep reminding yourself. Also that, they want/need you more than you want/need them (as ciyaalka xaafada we call that playing reverse psychology on their a*s ) lol@nuune...For a sec i thought you were trying to send the man to a war (or sab wiido if he is ciyaalka xaafada) when you used words like, Strategically and tactics Yeah but this shouldnt just apply to Somali girls, I have approached Somali girls in the past but quite awkwardly most of the time. I have no problem with approaching others, especially blacks, because they will approach you most of the time, they don't play hard to get and act hot. Maybe I will just have to readjust my game plan or improve it all together but thanks my friend, you have given me a new insight into this.

Originally posted by NNC: What are your intentions towards this girl B? Btw, a night club is not the right setting to meet the "one", so you need to get on board with the program and get your priorities straight. Women like confident and respectful men. My advice is to find something you both have in common. That should be easy on your part, since you already know her every move. I just hope that you have halal intentions towards her. Good luck to you and her. In all honesty I haven't thought that far but I want to get to know her and see what happens. I need a relationship because I don't like my current circle of friends. I am trying to break free and be good again. I can assure you I have nothing but good intention but that depends on the way she receives me too.

^ My friend he is the one issuing threats. I have behaved orderly!

Originally posted by Sherban Shabeel: P.S.: If you would have called me a "simple Romanian" in real life, I would have given you a good smack. I have seen how you look, I reckon I can definitely take you out and give you a nose bleed. You might have a bravado but to be honest that's not really impressing anyone.

Originally posted by nuune: B , don't put much weight on this, it is natural, it can be described as the ashes of iceland that went over Europe but dissapeared within days, even if they made fun of you, it really doesn't matter, don't take everything into heart, it will die out voluntarily, aproach the one's your mind dictates you to say hello to, converse the one's your heart tells you to, forget about smiles, little laughs, and gigles, it is you who is the problem, you need to stand up and say what do I want, your answer will come from two distinguished guests, your heart and head, if your heart desires particular girl but your head tries to mess up things by saying man up or play hard to get, then you are disaster socota, nothing is awkward by not saying the right things at the right place without the right time, even if you say them at the wrong times, you can still get away with it by simply being strong enough to tackle the issue. Here you have a girl, don't be afraid to say hi to her even if you ain't interested in her, it is just greetings after all, you get it back, or don't, it doesn't mean your heart will desire every girl, it doesn't mean she hates you if she doesn't return the greeting, it doens't mean if she doesn't smile you are the problem, not at all, equate all girls as normal people, from your post, you are making them dinasours before they even said hi to you, of course all Somali girls are queens, but avoid at all cost to think they are all easy to get, even if they are, be specific and make your choices strategically, use your tactics to do the selection process, you don't need a girl that says hi and then giggles away, you need a girl that giggles at first then smiles and says hi to you without any involvement from your side, your body language is the main problem, xarakaat ma lihid, dhaqdhaqaaq samee, nuux nuuxso, lots of different manouvarements samee, dhoola-tus ciyaar. Much respect to you Nunne for this priceless advice my friend. I am have gained inspirations from your words and will hope to put them into actions. In all honest, in the wider of schemes of things, I am better than her, insofar as most things are concerned.

Originally posted by Haatu: Man this brings back memories. B they are not laughing at you. If it's like anything I know, I would say they are giggling So take it easy and act real smooth. You know that's the first time you have said something positive to me. They were giggling my friend, especially when I came back from my break.

It gives me great pleasure (literally) to be associate with you.

^ I understand you have been collecting information from these boards since you joined my friend. What you do with this information remains to be seen, whether you carefully annotating data at intelligence HQ or just simply reporting back to your bosses. What is a simple Romanian like you doing here, you have made a good attempt to ingratiate yourself with the Somali people, singing their songs, empathises with their plight and pretending you know about Somali history. Your story just doesn’t add. Others might overlook you being a spy but I will not.

Question for the ladies here: Do women like being chatted up, or do they find it a nuisances. I have no issue talking to women in the right settings like a club or whatever but approaching them randomly is a little awkward to be honest.

Originally posted by Jacphar: Have the courage to stand up and look directly at her face. Make strong powerful eye contact. Ask her where you can reach her parents. It is much better to do it in Somali. Aabe ma joogaa? If she says no. Ask yaa kaa mas'uul ah. Let her respond. You speak no more. Be direct. Very direct. No smile or humor. Be real. That is a little too old fashioned so I think I will pass on this for the time being.

Originally posted by Mr Prince: First have short little convo's like Hi, hello, how are you? bla bla, then expand this further. Good stuff my friend.

Oh that's a serious allegation right there Adam. Please don't defame people like that. Its not nice Walahi. And anyway there is only home made brew in Somaliland they don't have alcohol there. Did anyone hear of how 80 people in Uganda died of a home made alcoholic brew. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/8640731.stm

There is this girl, I have on her facebook. She is hot, like super hot. We speak on facebook occasionally but I ignore her by trying to act busy when I see everyday. I mean I don't mean to but I just can’t seem to say hello to her. I know her routine, like when she comes in and where she sits. On Wednesday she smiled at me, all I could muster was a rise of the eyebrow. And Today we were sitting in the same area when she went for a break I spoke to her friend, telling her if she need a place to pray Maghrib there is a sister prayer room downstairs and she replied ‘ok ok ok’ in not so nice way, quite dismissive actually - I have no idea what possessed me to say that walahi. Then when I came back from my break, they had moved seats and were laughing at something – probably me. It’s so awkward

of course, this is an alternative view! must be respected regardless of the way the odey JB has conducted himself.

I currently live in Tower Hamlets. This is my rented flat with friends. yourself?

ok no problem my friend, its your lost that your conscious allows this but ok no problem... I am kinda of enjoying the weather too. London is sizzling today.

loool@Universal truths!

Originally posted by nuune: quote:Originally posted by B: I think what makes Somali women better than the ones mentioned in the video is that Somali women are religious and adhere to social customs/conventions. In the next 50 years, I reckon these values will be destroyed and they will become like those Alfa-female black women in the video. Hope you stopped looking girls in the Shiisha Clubs, then there is a chance the destruction could be stopped! B ii warran sxb, ninkan OZ la dhaho ha maqlin hadalkiisa, ee hawsha halkaa ka wad my friend, if these girls want to come to shisha places and have a good time, that is their choice. I don't have control over their choices and don't coerce them to do anything but its a public place and everyone who bring themselves there knows the score. Some of them are 'up for it', that is their choice to make. They are grown people, they can make their own choices. I am very well thank you. Today is Friday so I am quite happy. I went to Friday prayers and feel good inside.I wont waste any time with this oz person, he is a ciyaal brov.

Originally posted by Che -Guevara: B..So it's Ok with you 15yr old belly dancing for grown men not to mention explicit lyrics telling you what will happen to him later. My friend, I have already said my view on the matter. We need further clarifications and expert witnesses to tell us exactly what this custom actually involves.

Excellent site. I watched some of the documentaries on there. Cheers my friend.

I think what makes Somali women better than the ones mentioned in the video is that Somali women are religious and adhere to social customs/conventions. In the next 50 years, I reckon these values will be destroyed and they will become like those Alfa-female black women in the video.

I have never posted three topics per day, what are you talking about my friend. This is absolute nonsense. Its getting rather ridiculous now, with all sorts of allegations being made up. see below for my recent posts. 1 Who is B? April 19, 2010 2 Hotels and Escorts April 16, 2010 3 OMG! I have A Court Hearing! April 15, 2010 4 Battle of The Ideologies for Somalia April 12, 2010 5 Sad Day for Poland And Even Sadder We Somalis Don't Know It! April 10, 2010 6 Homeless!!!! I Think I will Be Evicted! April 08, 2010 7 Funny Somali Youtube Channel! April 03, 2010 8 Money = Power = Respect! March 29, 2010 9 Your Idea to Change The World! March 22, 2010 There is at least 5 days between my posts. Where is this allegation coming from therefore my friend.