quote: Surah An-Nur The adulterer should not marry but an adulteress or an associatoress and marry not an adulteress but an adulterer or associator, and this deed is forbidden to the believers. And those who blame chaste women, then bring not four witnesses flog them with eighty stripes and never accept any evidence of theirs, and it is they that are the dis-obedients. But those who repent thereafter act aright, undoubtedly, then Allah is Forgiving, Merciful. AT-TAHRIM And Mary the daughter of 'Imran, who guarded her chastity; and We breathed into (her body) of Our spirit; and she testified to the truth of the words of her Lord and of His Revelations, and was one of the devout (servants). Al-mumenoon ( the believers) The believers must (eventually) win through,- Those who humble themselves in their prayers; Who avoid vain talk; Who are active in deeds of charity; Who abstain from sex, As you can see above sister Cynical. To be a believer equates to staying away from things that Allah swt prohibited and that includes intimate relationship before marriage. And, ofcourse Allah swt forgives and he's merciful. Unless am blind and in need of glasses, Aaliyah that’s not a sufficient answer to my question. CL I see you have been asking what is wrong with a non-virgin sister and if she is not pure. No one can pass verdict on purity, and certainly if she lost it without a marriage, she is not pure according to the social decorum and religion we subscribe to. If the Sawaxiil's don't care, it is their headache. I can tell you men would always value a virgin girl over a non-virgin one. That doesn't mean all non-virgins won't get husbands. No, I did not ask that. I have a problem with labelling women as unpure/bad sisters just because they are not “Virgins”. Secondly, what’s with the contradictions? You say “No one can pass verdict on purity” but then again you go and do just that. Stop passing judgement only god can. p.s there many ways one can lose ones virginity and not all involves consensual sex. So, careful with your name calling and branding all women who lost their virginity as unpure/bad. As for your last comment @ AT&T sadly it stinks stup1dity.

Aaliyah, are you saying people can’t repent? And BTW what is pure? p.s which surah in the quran says that ie “unpure” or “bad sistah”??? If the issue is she lied about it @Ibti, then wouldn’t that mean he only married her for her virginity and nothing more? And If that’s the case isn’t she is still lucky?

a clean good sister? So, if your not a virgin your unclean/bad sister?

How the hell did I walk into this one? Old man, old man........

@old man Malika from a woman I meet at the tz Embassy.

Old man- don’t let the green-eyes monster get you. P.s I don’t collect pensioners.

“I’ve been with many virgins and I know one when I see one” lol and his evidence is Blood Oh god help us from Ignorant faraaxs. But you gotta love the double standard though it’s hilarious. p.s She is better off without him.

Dee am responding to the title.

*I can’t watch the clip @ work But, I don’t want a Muslim leader in Europe, am quite happy with my Gordon Brown/David Cameroon thank you very much.

ATT-Nahi nahi... Hello MDD

-------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------ Originally posted by cynical lady: Who let the dogs out? -------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------ Good. You are also a slim Xalimo. Now maybe you can explain why it is you think a sponge can't hold water. Then again you may not be Sands. :rolleyes: AT&T- I was meaning to ask you something…..what was it mhhhhhhhhhh

Who let the dogs out?

That’s it lunch hour banking is a no no. the queue is worse than Westfield.

Tell him plz...

Energy level going down down down…….. Lol@Cave. Just had a mental image of you carrying a skinny faraax.

Nah Malika, its her latest stalker odeyweyn. Old man

Yes Old man that’s all it takes….Malika dacaas nah nah old man you have them confused. Ibti is the serial dacaas lady. WCS Ibtiz, what were you doing last night? p.s unless you fix the light in private, I refuse to go there…am scared of the dark

well, dont you dare me again.

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Yap Yap Mpenzi, how are you? Oz, bless Malika- but little naughtiness is allowed nooh? Anyway what has he done? Is that a dare old man?

Well, you can tell by the way I use my walk, I'm a woman's man, no time to talk. Music loud and women warm. I've been kicked around since I was born. And now it's all right, it's O.K. And you may look the other way. We can try to understand The New York Times' effect on man. Whether you're a brother Or whether you're a mother, You're stayin' alive, stayin' alive. Feel the city breakin' And ev'rybody shakin' And we're stayin' alive, stayin' alive. Ah, ha, ha, ha, Stayin' alive. Stayin' alive. Ah, ha, ha, ha, Stayin' alive. Morning ladies and gents....

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Whose we?

Malika- acha kuwa mshamba mpenzi, hayo ni matongozi ya kilendo, mwachi atafute mchumba.