Good morning people......

[quoteBr DC - has the girl talked to her mother? Usually mothers are soft spots in a family conflict, she might be able to ease the fathers concerns. I say use all powers available - the mother, aunties, sisters and Imams. She must have a favourite aunty or two who will speak on her behalf if the need be. Insha'allah kheyr - you know it shouldnt be this hard, nevertheless its possibly yours and her trial. ] Typical mpendwa. We mwanamke wewe mbona unafunga ma fix huyu?

BRCD- despite all your who haa and silly thread/replies and ever growing frustration. The reality still stands-Brother Che has better chance of being accepted into the woman’s family than you. Now until you understand and appreciate the reason as to why such is so instead of ranting about your frustration; which frankly is tiresome, you won’t make any progress in your quest to marry a Somali chica. Silly man with silly problems……

think this is a relationship that went sour, I don't buy the rape story at all. Why didn't she report the rapist to the police before he published her pics? Ninkan inuu saqajaan yahay la iskuma haayo, aqlaaq iyo raxmadna ma laha qashinkaas. Waa nin ay u dhamaatey, intuu ceebey is lahaay asaga ayey ku soo noqotey. Bleachka ay cabteyna, I hope inuusan damage weyn u geysanin xubnaheeda. p.s. Ninkan abahiis waa Hindi ah, hooyadiisna waa Somali sida la sheegaayo. It’s not a relationship that went sour, but a man with ulterior motives who courted to abuse the poor woman. And the sad part is you-a woman ure basing your lack of support for her rape charges on her inability to report to the police? Seriously woman have you meet rape victims or abused women. Do you think it’s easy to break the silence and speak out? let alone to the police who often do not understand…and lets not even touch the self loathing and shame the victims feel. Not to mention the fact that the woman comes from a culture that penalizes the victims of rape and abuse. Don’t tell me if it was me I would have reported him to the police buls1dh; because that wasn’t you, and I pray it never becomes you. But in the meantime don’t deny her experience just because your ignorant of her experience/do not bare the scares of that ordeal. p.s let not start with “his dad is a Hindi and mother is a Somali” crap……pathetic attempt to dilute his Somali’ness credentials.

That sounds terrible. What happened-why the tear, why the sadness? And why didn’t you get in contact- i give amazing comfy hugs. I wish I had something new to report. Shako shako shako & juggling priorities at the moment. Looking forward to change in weather. p.s KK- Juxa’s can’t forget people and to me that’s her biggest sin.

KK-Juxa is one dimensional nooh-she saw this page and it was mwah on it hence the response.

eeeh@Juxa. it’s all rather robotic these days. How are you and how is life in lawyaradh school and saving old women from prisons.

Hello pople...

Mpendwa i was with polite company, hencewhy. Shitned still.

Why bombard us with this sh1t i ask? SOL isn’t an agony aunt corner-anyhow grow a pair and get on with it. p.s if she wanted your sorry self she would have married you by now. P.s.s your not being rejected for being a convert, the truth is your not somali and that is a fact of life, so live with it.

Just had the misfortune of being in the same room with that woman. To be expected she puked her typical nonsense, and I had to sit there and take it . Grrrrrr!!!!

Mpendwa-Surrender yourself to the nearest osteopath or my local Chinese. My life has been altered since I’ve discovered him. Back pain free for 3yrs and counting. Hello people....

Somalilanders: The 2011 Census On 27th March 2011 all households in England and Wales will be asked to complete the 2011 Census forms. The Census results will be used by public bodies to plan their services to the public. It is important that the Census results reflect accurately the various communities that live in the British diverse society. That is why questions about national origin, ethnic origin, religion ect are included in the Census. There is a campaign to make sure that you record and identify yourself as a Somalilander. The data generated from this census can be useful to us for the next 10years in terms statistical date and predictions for the future- particularly in areas of remittance, micro development, date on age, education and earnings of Somalilands and Diaspora lead development (or lack of them in the future). There is a large community of Somalilanders in the UK and considering they make up to almost 60% of Somaliland's income it is vital and important for practical reason and for academic reasons that we know how many in numbers are here. The 2011 Census gives the Somalilanders an opportunity, please don't just tick the African box and leave it at that. I will post relevant information closer to the time. But for the time being for anyone interested West London Somaliland community is launching their campaign this weekend. Bringing together many organisations and other Somalilanders, including Boon Hirsi, Somaliland Ambassador to UK and representatives of the Somaliland political parties. The campaign event will take place at: Uxbridge College (hayes Campus), College Way, Hayes, UB3 3BB and it will start at 5pm. Give us feed back if you go. God give me strength!!!

Tuambiane ukweli kwani akifika uko Somalia ata etwa sijui? Bora nietwa msonjo TZ kuliko ni tetemeshwe @the back of no end. Wala sitaki Asante sana-ata mia nakutakia mazuri mpendwa. After all maisha madogo sana kujipa drama. Mwenzako nipo tayare tu-yani nahamu ya kurudi wewe. Kwanza wewe unkwenda leni? Na hiyo mambo ya kwenda Somalia umeyatoa wapi? Wewe mwanamke wewe unaleta mambo ya ajabu sikuhizi? lol

WTH never expected you to post something in aff Somali Curly?

Mambo yangu simabaya kabisa. Subiri kwanza nikuchekeshe-majuzi nime-kutana na one confused sijui. Ana ongea kisomali lakini luga haipande siwajua wale. Anyhow alekua anataka tuongani kusaidia development ya Somaliland. Yani nime cheka pekeyangu we-mwesho nikamuliza yeye katoka wapi? Kichekesho ndo hapo-ni mtu wa arusha? Mungu atu saidia. Bada kusaidia watu waki wasonjo wa dar and mikoani ana kimebelia wasonjo. Kuna kazi nakwambia.

Habari za asubuhi mpendwa. Mwenzako mambo yangu wala si mabaya. Actually na mere meta leo. Zako wewe...za kazi na maisha ya mikoani?

Good morning people....

Lol Juxa i will have to come and drag you then soon. But not mantaa.

Ohh Malika- come on you know you want too...

The only Thai rest worth going to around that area is Busaba Eathai..........and i can physically come and drag you for that place.

mac mac kor iyo sideways mpendwa

^^caved in and enjoying Frank & Benny’s cheesecake

Mpendwa I am worst than you. Am sure of it. Oh my am now dreaming of white/dark choc cheesecake. Thank you malika ohh so very much. Is that another way of losing the cheesecake weight whilst making money scheme? I like I like. Lakini wazungu hawana viuno. Wana kitambi na megu ya carroti lakini viuno zero. Lakini tuna weza-summer ina kuja watu wana taka kupunguza uzito.

Exhausted, sleepy and without caffeine…not a got start. Morning people. ^^dreaming of cheesecake