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  1. Who’s talking about beauty? She is a little girl you’re a perv. Afternoon old man.
  2. "The one on the right is yummy." Perv. Afro
  3. 1 medium camel 4 lambs 20 chickens (roasted) 150 eggs (boiled) 40 kilos tomatoes Salt and seasonings Stuff eggs into tomatoes, stuff tomatoes into chickens, stuff chickens into lambs, stuff lambs into camel. Roast until tender What the hell…. :eek:
  4. His circle of hawks. The Democratic nominee has a team of veteran warriors advising him on foreign policy issues. DURING HIS campaign to win the Democratic nomination for president, Barack Obama used a line that never failed to draw applause from the largely antiwar crowds that turned out to hear him. "I don't want to just end the war, but I want to end the mindset that got us into war in the first place," he said. "That's the kind of leadership that I think we need from the next president of the United States. That's what I intend to provide." Yet only days after clinching the nomination, here was the same Barack Obama performing one of the biggest rituals of conventional foreign policy thinking. On June 4, Obama addressed the American Israel Public Affairs Committee, pledging his fealty to the Zionist regime and even calling for an "undivided Jerusalem" as Israel's capital. In other words, he endorsed the annexation of East Jerusalem, the Palestinian capital--a position that no government, including George Bush's, supports. In an earlier appearance before that other favored foreign policy lobby, the far-right Cuban American National Foundation, Obama pledged to support the U.S. embargo on the island--a position that the Republican House of Representatives voted to rescind in 2005. Some may be tempted to write off these appeals to the right as political pandering to insulate him from the Republicans' planned assault on him as "weak on defense." But the people who believe this are burying their heads in the sand. LET'S STIPULATE a couple of points at the top. First, Obama is running to be the commander of the world's biggest imperial power. He will fill that role--and not that of anti-warrior in the White House. Second, aside from his well-publicized opposition to "the wrong war at the wrong time" in Iraq, there is nothing in his record to suggest that he plans any radical departures from the mainstream of the American foreign policy establishment. To review Obama's positions, it's well worth reviewing his almost year-old Foreign Affairs article, "Renewing American Leadership." The main aim of Obama's presidency, it seems from this article, will be to regain the leadership of the world that George Bush's reckless and dumb foreign policy has squandered. "In the wake of Iraq and Abu Ghraib, the world has lost trust in our purposes and our principles," Obama writes. "We must lead the world, by deed and by example." There's no disputing that the U.S. is more widely hated today than before Bush took office, and Obama's message recognizes that. And it's not surprising that Obama would urge "renewing American leadership," because "leading the world" has been the overriding U.S. foreign policy aim since at least the end of the Second World War. "This century's threats," he writes, "are at least as dangerous as and in some ways more complex than those we have confronted in the past," including "weapons that can kill on a mass scale," "global terrorists who respond to alienation or perceived injustice with murderous nihilism," "rogue states," "rising powers," "weak states that cannot control their territory" and global warming.Leaving aside the question of whether al-Qaeda is really the equal of Nazi Germany or thermonuclear holocaust--the last century's major threats--this is the standard issue from all sectors of the political establishment, including Bush. "We must become better prepared to put boots on the ground in order to take on foes that fight asymmetrical and highly adaptive campaigns on a global scale," Obama writes. "I will not hesitate to use force, unilaterally if necessary, to protect the American people or our vital interests whenever we are attacked or imminently threatened." In other words, it seems that the Bush Doctrine of endless war and unilateral intervention would not disappear under an Obama administration. It will simply be "repurposed" and given more lofty-sounding justifications.LEST ANYONE think that this kind of interventionism is just campaign rhetoric, one should consider who Obama's chief foreign policy advisers (and likely authors of the Foreign Affairs article) are. They include Anthony Lake, a one-time protégé of Henry Kissinger. As Bill Clinton's national security adviser, Lake devised the main strategy for U.S. intervention in the Balkans, including the NATO bombings of Serbia and aiding Croatia's ethnic cleansing of Serbs, which ultimately led to the 1999 NATO war. Lake and another ex-Clintonite, Susan Rice, co-authored a Washington Post op-ed in which they argued for unilateral U.S. intervention in the Darfur region of Sudan: "The United States acted without UN blessing in 1999 in Kosovo to confront a lesser humanitarian crisis (perhaps 10,000 killed) and a more formidable adversary." Beyond them are a number of ex-Clinton advisers, including Gregory Craig, who oversaw State Department policy planning around the expansion of NATO and the decision by the Clinton administration to endorse "regime change" in Iraq. Another Obama adviser was Samantha Power, a Pulitzer Prize-winning Harvard history professor who is a leading advocate of "humanitarian intervention" around the world. Power was what liberal blogger Joshua Micah Marshall called Obama's "Condi Rice"--that is, she played the same role in schooling Obama on foreign policy that Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice played in training candidate George Bush in 1999 and 2000. Although she was forced to resign from the campaign after calling Sen. Hillary Clinton a "monster" in print, Power's influence is still heavy. A second Harvard academic in the Obama brain trust is Sarah Sewell, who collaborated with Gen. David Petreaus in updating the army's counterinsurgency manual. Sewell advised Petreaus on human rights in counterinsurgency. "Her impact on the thinking about the war and the conduct of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan has been significant, and not without cost," Army counterinsurgency expert Lt. Col. John Nagl told American Prospect. "She has shown, in my eyes, great moral courage. I think Senator Obama is listening to someone who has thought long and hard about the use of force, and who understands the kinds of wars we're fighting today." Besides these bureaucrats and intellectuals are a coterie of generals and other ex-military types who have lent their names to the Obama campaign. One is Jonathan Scott Gration, a two-star Air Force general who commanded a task force in the 2003 invasion of Iraq. While Gration has endorsed Obama's stated support for withdrawing troops from Iraq, he has also hedged on this position. "If it's very clear that the al-Maliki government is making significant progress, that we're turning the tide, it would be crazy not to re-adjust" the plan to withdraw, he told the New York Sun. As Anthony Arnove pointed out in a recent Socialist Worker interview, "People who believe Barack Obama will end the occupation of Iraq are likely in for a rude awakening. Despite talking about withdrawal from Iraq, his plan would keep troops in the country for years to come, likely well beyond his potential first term. "Obama has also left open the possibility that if he reduces the overall troop levels in Iraq--something that from a military standpoint is very likely, given how overstretched the United States is now--he would increase the number of mercenaries in Iraq." As media speculation about Obama's vice presidential short list began, Team Obama made sure that the name of Ret. Gen. James Jones--one-time Marine Corps commandant and Supreme Allied Commander in NATO--was thrown into the mix. Jones, like Obama, has called for the U.S. to send more troops to Afghanistan. Finally, if Obama's Middle East policy remains fairly conventional, that might be because one of the most conventional Middle East foreign policy hands in the U.S. establishment is advising him. Dennis Ross, special Middle East adviser to both Presidents George H.W. Bush and Bill Clinton, is encouraging Obama to pursue diplomatic interactions with Iran and Syria. But this is hardly the "path to peace" in the Middle East that Obama's supporters might hope for.According to the Wall Street Journal's Jay Solomon, "Members of Sen. Obama's Middle East team, however, said they believed Damascus should be tested diplomatically because success could undermine Syria's military alliance with Iran. They said such a development could drastically shift the power balance in the Middle East while stanching the flow of arms to Hezbollah and Hamas. Syria also could become a partner in stabilizing Iraq, they say." In the Middle East, as in the rest of the world, Obama's foreign policy might mark a change from the disastrous and incompetent policies that the Bush administration has pursued. But the change will be one of style and form, not one of substance and content.Commenting on Obama's "fawning" speech before AIPAC, Israeli analyst Uri Avnery wrote that Obama's "dizzying success in the primaries was entirely due to his promise to bring about a change, to put an end to the rotten practices of Washington and to replace the old cynics with a young, brave person who does not compromise his principles. And lo and behold, the very first thing he does after securing the nomination of his party is to compromise his principles."Avnery is only partly right. Obama isn't betraying his principles. Those are his principles.
  5. In the great tradition, Obama is a hawk For the New Statesman, John Pilger In 1941, the editor Edward Dowling wrote: "The two greatest obstacles to democracy in the United States are, first, the widespread delusion among the poor that we have a democracy, and second, the chronic terror among the rich, lest we get it." What has changed? The terror of the rich is greater than ever, and the poor have passed on their delusion to those who believe that when George W Bush finally steps down next January, his numerous threats to the rest of humanity will diminish. The foregone nomination of Barack Obama, which, according to one breathless commentator, "marks a truly exciting and historic moment in US history", is a product of the new delusion. Actually, it just seems new. Truly exciting and historic moments have been fabricated around US presidential campaigns for as long as I can recall, generating what can only be described as bullshit on a grand scale. Race, gender, appearance, body language, rictal spouses and offspring, even bursts of tragic grandeur, are all subsumed by marketing and “image-making”, now magnified by "virtual" technology. Thanks to an undemocratic electoral college system (or, in Bush’s case, tampered voting machines) only those who both control and obey the system can win. This has been the case since the truly historic and exciting victory of Harry Truman, the liberal Democrat said to be a humble man of the people, who went on to show how tough he was by obliterating two cities with the atomic bomb. Understanding Obama as a likely president of the United States is not possible without understanding the demands of an essentially unchanged system of power: in effect a great media game. For example, since I compared Obama with Robert Kennedy in these pages, he has made two important statements, the implications of which have not been allowed to intrude on the celebrations. The first was at the conference of the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (Aipac), the Zionist lobby, which, as Ian Williams has pointed out, "will get you accused of anti-Semitism if you quote its own website about its power". Obama had already offered his genuflection, but on 4 June went further. He promised to support an “undivided Jerusalem” as Israel’s capital. Not a single government on earth supports the Israeli annexation of all of Jerusalem, including the Bush regime, which recognises the UN resolution designating Jerusalem an international city. His second statement, largely ignored, was made in Miami on 23 May. Speaking to the expatriate Cuban community – which over the years has faithfully produced terrorists, assassins and drug runners for US administrations – Obama promised to continue a 47-year crippling embargo on Cuba that has been declared illegal by the UN year after year. Again, Obama went further than Bush. He said the United States had "lost Latin America". He described the democratically elected governments in Venezuela, Bolivia and Nicaragua as a "vacuum" to be filled. He raised the nonsense of Iranian influence in Latin America, and he endorsed Colombia’s "right to strike terrorists who seek safe-havens across its borders". Translated, this means the "right" of a regime, whose president and leading politicians are linked to death squads, to invade its neighbours on behalf of Washington. He also endorsed the so-called Merida Initiative, which Amnesty International and others have condemned as the US bringing the "Colombian solution" to Mexico. He did not stop there. "We must press further south as well," he said. Not even Bush has said that. It is time the wishful-thinkers grew up politically and debated the world of great power as it is, not as they hope it will be. Like all serious presidential candidates, past and present, Obama is a hawk and an expansionist. He comes from an unbroken Democratic tradition, as the war-making of presidents Truman, Kennedy, Johnson, Carter and Clinton demonstrates. Obama’s difference may be that he feels an even greater need to show how tough he is. However much the colour of his skin draws out both racists and supporters, it is otherwise irrelevant to the great power game. The "truly exciting and historic moment in US history" will only occur when the game itself is challenged.
  6. Naa go and buy your own xalwaad @ xaaji yusuf
  7. Paragon, why are you not including CL and Malika in that list? :rolleyes: Old man
  8. Stoic-Are you saying that she must transform herself to your liking and all under the banner of being a good/understanding wife? She has to be receptive one; she has to catch on the full significance what she is getting herself into even though you never gave her the option/ choice in advance whilst courting her. If the issue never arose and you adhere to such view, don’t you think then the onus should be on you to inform her of your intentions in advance? and by the way what about the wife? Doesn’t she require an understanding husband and one who understands the “relationship building skills”? Whatever that is. p.s pass me the contact details of she who must be obeyed I need to warn her. p.s.s if the situation was reversed and she is now earning more than you and she wants a house husband but the issue was never discussed and at a later stage she enlightens you on her intentions. Would you respect that and stay home?
  9. Qst the choice for your wife to stay home and raise the kids, IST hers to make or? Would you disclose that fact at the courting stage or after she has the kid/ trapped? Mamboz btw.
  10. Why do the sound so confused? I don’t want a city man blah blah/ I don’t want the average Joe neither well he will resent me for my success.... p.s what on earth possessed them to marry/get involved with a man who earns less than them? Or someone who is not as driven/ ambitious as them?
  11. Woes of man whose chopped arm is held over Sh120,000 By Eaststandard As the rays of the sun grace over Taita District each morning, Mr David Sanguli and his family wake up to a gloomy future. Since his right arm was chopped off in an accident at the Taita Sisal Estate where he worked, life has been unbearable. Each day, Sanguli and his family expect to bury the arm, a year after a machine he was operating cut it off. Handicapped and distressed, he is fast losing hope. And what is more? Wesu District Hospital authorities have refused to surrender the severed limb for burial, a year down the line. The hospital has given the jobless Sanguli a Sh120,000 mortuary bill. He lives in the sisal farm’s house as he chases compensation for the loss of his arm and job. Sanguli accuses the management of treating him inhumanely, sacking him and being evasive over compensation. Apart from the physical challenges, Sanguli’s former colleagues shun him for fear that they, too, could be sacked. The former machine operator has almost given up the fight. "I’m leaving everything to God in the belief that he will soften the hearts of my tormentors," he says.Sanguli is appealing to Medical Services minister, Prof Anyang’ Nyong’o, to intervene so that he could get his severed limb back for burial.He fears that its continued detention in the mortuary will traumatise him further. Police acknowledge that Sanguli’s limb was chopped off by a machine at the sisal company. They are equally aware that the hospital authorities have stood their ground that the arm would only be released when the mortuary bills are paid. Conspiracy The Taita-Taveta Medical Officer of Health, Dr Shem Patta, reiterates this. He says Sanguli must pay Sh200 a day for the period his arm has lain at the mortuary. "The victim has not come to my office to ask for mortuary fees’ waiver. I have just been reading about him in the newspapers," said Dr Patta. Sanguli claims there is a conspiracy between the sisal farm and the hospital to dispose of the limb to conceal evidence for compensation. "The management has told me that I should prepare for more suffering for going to the Press to highlight my plight," he claimed in an interview.He goes on: "I’m now confused and spend sleepless nights agonising over my plight. I do not know where to go next," he says tearfully.Taita-Taveta OCPD, Mr Francis Kumut, says he ordered the sisal company to have the arm preserved in the mortuary. "I ordered the Wundanyi OCS, Chief Inspector Paul Odede, to take the arm to the mortuary as the two parties sorte out the matter," says Kumut.He, however, points out that the matter was essentially a labour dispute."We played our part and took the severed arm to the mortuary. We also opened an inquiry. Our hands are tied," say Kumut. But Sanguli wants the matter resolved: "I want to bury my arm. Once I do that, my soul and spirit will be appeased and I will lead a normal life." The 33-year-old father of four had worked for the sisal firm for eight years. He wonders the Labour Department has taken too long to solve the matter.Meanwhile, pressure has been mounting on the Government to release the arm for burial. A Human Rights Forum activist in Taita Taveta, Mr Haji Mwakio, has told the Government to ensure justice prevailed. He has sent an appeal to Nyong’o to direct Wesu District Hospital to waive Sanguli’s mortuary fees."The law is not fair to ordinary Kenyans. We wonder why health authorities charge fees for a mere arm, charges similar to a body’s," he says. Sanguli says he is devastated and now wants the arm released unconditionally, pending investigation.
  12. NO. I was enjoying an intimate gig last night, hands down Coldplay the best band ever. Chris Martin simply divine!
  13. Look at the stars, Look how they shine for you, And everything you do, Yeah they were all yellow, I came along I wrote a song for you And all the things you do And it was called yellow So then I took my turn Oh all the things I've done And it was all yellow Your skin Oh yeah your skin and bones Turn into something beautiful D'you know you know I love you so You know I love you so Morning
  14. CHU-Because his worth it. …
  15. Ibti- why wish them ill dear? I am dangerous in the kitchen and not in the street lengo kind of a way. Cara - add cyanide please.
  16. Ibti- thanks but no thanks. Been there & done than and never again. I repeat never. Unless am mistaken North, that place is dingy and small with loads of busy bodies i.e. Somalis men standing outside/some even sleeping near by. I am terrified to walk pass it let alone go inside. btw Isn’t it a male only restaurant? Anywhere else?
  17. Can anyone recommend good Somali restaurants in London? One with a good service. ??
  18. Bernard Shaw aduu wax weyn kula yahay! By no means do I ever allow myself to be judged by confused souls! And if he was right, perhaps he refers to the kind of 'imposed' knowledge and values you espouse! Highlighting your ignorance again? You seem to be suffering from hasty generalisations dear, so it’s advisable that you avoid it at once. For your information, I had a friend who would take all the quotes he sees on the cover of magazines and narrate to us in the middle of discussions; whether they are relevant or not! Just that he knows, we know he knows it! What has false knowledge got to do with the issue here? Avoid Its relevant how? p.s I think am doing a disservice to myself, with that I bow out.
  19. I finally understand what Shaw meant when he said Beware of False knowledge; it’s more dangerous than ignorance.
  20. Old man- :rolleyes: it takes one to know one Mr Pepé Le Pew. Mambos stoic. Malika, come on. It’s fashionable to trot around with a man half your age. Modern woman should aspire to be cougar’s you know
  21. **Simple conversation between Malika and Lily’s Brother on the way to the engagement**** He asked Malik a simple question...... "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking. "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said, "Yes." She began to expound... "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?" He looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I need something more." I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man." I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive. He just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself." When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You're asking a lot." She replied, "I'm worth a lot." The end