Summer is definetly one of the most exciting period of the year. And it is soon coming. It is the period where most women usually like to show off what they got. Some women dress so provocatively that I naturally developed a wayward roving eye, it just seemed to happen instantly. Peeks were synonymous with unintentional thought. Whenever a woman happened across me, it was like ... I see breast ... sneak a peek I see legs ... sneak a peek I see a nice booty ... sneak a peek I see a mini skirt .... all out drool Stolen glances were my mental excursions, if I may. Although I knew it would never amount to more than a distant private stare, I have always received complains from my girlfriends. It is always ‘why are you disrespecting me kind of questions’ by staring at this girls. And I would usually come up with my classical defensive/offensive strategy turning the blame to them with a response like: ‘damn!, it’s all in your mind and why do you always worry about this little non sense details?’ This strategy worked perfectly well for me every time. However, few years ago, I decided to avoid peeking at other girls when I am with my sweathearts. Still, the uncontrollable urge to stare from afar and visually wander was still there. And the fresh sting of "getting the taste smacked out of your mouth" was there also. So I learned the hard way a new sequence of events ... It was now like ... I see breast ... sneak a peek, get a smack I see legs ... sneak a peek, get a smack I see a nice booty ... sneak a peek, get a double smack I see a mini skirt .... do nothing but whimper (from the rib punch) It was almost as if my stolen glances were the forbidden fruit. However, one thing became clear to me, although I love my sweathearts dearly, I can’t deny one part of me. If a roving eye is a sin........ then give me my sin. But from now on I will eventually revert to the defensive/offensive strategy. Le Harbism…..

Good for you girl....looooool Le Harbism.....

loool Jewel, Your personnality type shows you are more likely be dating a badboy than others... It's always the same music that is being played over and over again. Girls like you always end up with badboys, believe it or not... And guess what you will never know you are dating a badboy until it's too late anyway. So before, you point finger at me, do your homework....loool And by the way enjoy the ride honey... Le Harbism.....

Lil_miss_fine, whether a women is or is not circumcised is not an issue to most of the guys. If you haven't been getting an orgasam, it just mean you haven't met a guy who who can drive you to the promised territory. If you look for him, you will definetly find it. Maybe you should test drive this so called 'The Clown'. Hey!! you never know, he may deliver even on sundays.....lool Le Harbism..... ************************************************** This is not for the weaks of heart, if you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. **************************************************

Jewel wrote: My idea of an exciting man is one with a job, that is funny, respectable, intriguing, above all REAL...not a wannabe that wants to impress his boys with what he can get away with from being with frail women. I wonder how many bad boys would exist if all women thought of themselves as deserving of more than a pre-teen kid. Jewel, let face it, you are making allegations and stereotypes that doesn't hold water. The descriptions of your ideal man are the typical badboys, they are real, exciting, respectable, intriguing, financially stable,care less about impressing others. In fact they fit like a glove the description you gave us above. I think you got the wrong idea of what a boy is or isn't. They come from all walk of life. You remember O.J. Le Harbism.....

Hey Bambina, Are you stalking me again or what? Where ever I go you keep following me, Hmmmm. Honey, I know you like my wicked style, but let's solve this out of court...loool Le Harbism

FirstLady wrote: girls have been playing all along..read our rule book......it's in the stores..u might learn some things about us. looool, do you know that the women who wrote that book, Fein, could not even save her own marriage. I saw that book back in 95 and I didn't see anything that changed. Besides, some of thoses rules are unrealistic. Most badboys know the games women play and they will always adjust to that. Peace out Le Harbism..... ************************************************** This is not for the weaks of heart, if you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. **************************************************

Sista, it is not the same list....impossible. You must be mistaken, period. Peace out. Le Harbism..... ************************************************** This is not for the weak of heart, if can’t handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. **************************************************

1. The relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months we were going out. 2. Do not ask us why it’s different now, hey! That was a promotion, now you pay the full price. 3. If you think you are fat, you probably are. Do not ask us. Or we’ll tell you the opposite of what we think. 4. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to; expect an answer you do not want to hear. 5. Sometimes, we are not thinking about you. Live with it. 6. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really. 7. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question. 8. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor. 9. Anything we said 3 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after 7 days. 10. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one. 11. You can either ask us to do something OR tell us how you want it done - not both. 12. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials. 13. If it itches, it will be scratched. 14. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle Peace out. Le Harbism..... ************************************************** This is not for the weak of heart, if can’t handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. **************************************************

Darman, let me ask you : Damn!, are you planning to establish the new moral imperative for this forum? Do you think you are the new chief yahoo of this forum? Have you checked lately your mediocre rating? Obviously you haven't been listening to anyone in this forum. And what part of "if you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen" you don't understand? And if people don't share with you the same view, they are teenagers? What kind of old school mentality is this? Obviously, you rely too much on all instincts and no brain at all. Surely, your old school mentality would not allow you to see clearly. No doubt, with this mentality, you gonna get wacked everytime whether you like it or not. Peace out. Le Harbism..... ************************************************** This is not for the weaks of heart, if you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. **************************************************

I am the guy you always have a love / hate relationship with. I am always charming, say things you want to hear. Always full of excuses and give you false promises. I always manage to dominate your live partially or completly whether you know it or not. I always blame you for everything that goes wrong. I use intimidation to get my points accross. I belittle you, if you dare to challenge me to the point that you will never want to challenge me again. I always manipulate you, use you, abuse you, use lies to keep you prisonner. And whenever you had enough, I always turn on the charm side and heats up the romance. Time and again this has always worked because forgiving is your weakness number 3. You always believe that you can fix things up and that you have an obligation to make things work out. I treat you anyway I like because once I have established that I am wonderfull, exciting and fun, I know you can put up with anything and will forgive any bad things. There is no way out for you because nice guys never excite you to the same level. You love the excitement, you endure the pain and you always can’t get enough. This is who you are whether you want to admit it or not. This message may come to you as a shock, but remember, you are what you put up with. It is your decision, not mine. This message was declasified because I know, even if I told you all this, you will still be a bad boy lover. Old habits don’t change over night. Le Harbism….. ************************************************** This is not for the weak of heart, if can’t handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. **************************************************