CB: LOL! What a typical Bachelor you are! (www.shaxaari.com) Dirac is a Lingerie. It should not be worn outside the house. Its for my man's eyes only.

Yawl need to be real. What's all this Wa Ku Jeclahay, Wa Ku Jeclahay If you know one another that well, might aswell share the bad and ugly side too. To: Poster above me. Interesting.

In my view to sit with your parent's guest (Male or Female) is inappropriate. As an adult child the least you'r expected to do is to greet them.

We no longer can afford the luxury of self-pity. Instead of keeping the spotlight on failure, lets try to focus on HOW (rather then WHY) we move forward as a community.

Like Rahma said, if you don't like it, don't click it. BTW, SOL should have a job or career center. This site is big enough for it and I am sure that it would be profitable for them? As well as a front Page.

Could be a Temp.Tattoo (henna or the likes.) Did anyone actually asked before judging her? It's not you who'r going to answer to the Almighty in the day of Judgement. Let people live their lives as they see it fit.

Weje Kalele.

Do men really know what they'r worth? Isn't true that the most intelligent man on earth's brain shuts down when it comes to matters of the heart and what not? In all fairness we both want something, just not the same things.

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said "Yes." She began to expound..." As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself." When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said "You are asking a lot." She replied "I'm worth a lot."

Reminder: SSM comes with a brand new Dodge Caravan, & a jar of warm Caano with Qorfe & Heyl. Never underestimate what she can offer.

Thank you for your responses. It means alot to me that someone out there understands what im going through. Mindstate, that makes me feel better to imagine.

1) Iimaanka Allah Kaa Qaad. 2) Dhimasho Kuuma Quuree, Dhinac Ka Maalayso.

Do people really think it helps, when they tell you to just move on and forget the person? Now I sit and cry, trying to figure out what in the hell just happened to my life. Tired of friends & family telling me I look like sh!t and to move the hell on "This guy is not worth all of this from you. You have got to put yourself first and take care of yourself." "Forget about him." "Just pretend you have never met him and find the old U." This needless to say, does not comfort me in any way. It only makes me think how if I could be able to forget about him just like that, then I would not be any better than he is It takes days, months, and at times years to give someone your love. Why do people think that you can turn it off faster than you turned it on?