Originally posted by JamaaL-11: The best way to attract a fella will be to " just cut a long chase short and be honest with him". Never attempt to confound a fella who has no clue how to read your emotional expressions. Always talk to him straight-forward about any issue you intend to discuss:) coz it'll save both parties lots of valuable time. you can't speak for every man, everyone had their own likes and dislikes.....but i must say, Jamaal-11's advice is something i have heard entirely too much, but once i started to go along with it, it has always worked for me..... ALWAYS REMEMBER::: 1)Be honest/open( no one expects you to spill out your life story, but it gets frustrating when a guy has to read your mind 24/7) 2) Be comfortable( this will ultimately bring out the TRUE you) 3)Be yourself( this should actually be rule number 1....dont put up a front/act....sooner or later the real you is going to come out, and i dont know anyone who is willing to date the jeckel/hyde type...plus its just a waste of time, b/c then you'll start complaining bout " how he doesnt understand me..blah, blah, blah"...well DUUHHH, he was too busy tryin to figure out your last act!!) just some simple strategies to enhance your dating life

aside from self-defense...its not OK for a man or woman to hit ANYONE

more of number four, with a hint of number five

My mother.....she ones person you dont want to get mad

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^^^LOL^^ simple woman, no your right, its actually dilemma.... is it just me, or am i spending entirely too much time on SOL.....

It's something i have thought about since my own aunt started adopting children.....there are so many unfortunate children in this world...and they are so couragoues to have gone through misfortunes and still keep their heads up high.....if in the future,(insha'allah) i am blessed enough to provide for one, i wouldnt think twice......

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Originally posted by ProudSista: I hope some of youz sister's can fill me in, I'm about to join the army this summer InshAllah! Fill you in?...about what? -about the training experiences -the negative outcomes -the positive outcomes -the effect personally -the overall experience -OR were you just referring to your subject headline "any sista's in the army"?.....if so, then you should have been clear about that, you can't EXPECT people to answer your questions the way you want them to do you see what could come out of that ONE question you asked YOU WERE A BIT VAGUE, and there really is no need for you or anyone else to be so defensive but im not tryin to hold you at fault here....sometimes your going to have people who are going to advice you or just tell you their opinion.....and yeah it may not be what your going to hear....but thats life i guess for all the rest, You can only advice those who are willing to listen.................

^^^^LOL^^^ Can you hear her now?

:eek: :eek: Acuudu billaahi mina sheydhaani rajiim Duniya, i really hope you get some help im speechless.....

Well if this story is true....then " to each its own" , ......only god can judge him but if its made up, then i found that very offensive

Originally posted by Simple Woman: i can't count how much times i cried.. but the day i cried the most was a time when everything was going bad.. my grades were dropping, someone i knew died, i wasn't getting along wit my family or friends, i was just depressed, life didn't make any sense at all. And i was starting to realize so much things that just made me more depressed.. n i had all that stored inside so i just started to cry n cry until tears couldn't come anymore i was depressed 4 a long time but i got over that alhamdulilah I went through something like that a few weeks ago myself......except no one i knew died.....but i its so weird how what u said was the exact same for me........im a little over it, but it still bothers me........ but anyways, i found what u wrote Moti kind of funny at first...but then i said i wouldnt like it if someone found my sorrow humorous.....so im sorry you had to witness that....but i have to say, you can really have a sense of humour when your in despairity... it was like the chicken owned him some money or stolen his girlfriend or something bigger than that,

Originally posted by CLOWN: quote:Originally posted by Princess_Sexy: 2)Clown ( he's so flirtatous and full of himself, its kind of cute) Princess_Sexy, that's definitely not me who you're talking about? i didn't flirt with you so callin' me flirtatous is understatement! am i full of myself? mmmhhh why do i feel that's not me either! it's kinda cute? i think you mistaking me for someone else! i wasn't expecting you to drop my shyt on the streets like that in other words you've disappointed me young Woman! Sorry to disappoint you there, but im not going to bite my tongue.........i said what i observed from you, and im not going to change that.....i do belive you are flirtatous...and i also believe that ur a bit full of yourself.....but instead of finding you "cocky" i found it pretty amusing, and cute.........but since you got all defensive...forget it then.......just act like i never wrote that about you

Originally posted by opinionated: Note 2 self: Don't forget to watch Sorority life #2 and Fraternity life season finale! You nailed that one................i dont know about you, but im getting a little freaked out here opinionated......i have to look up now to see who i'm signed in as, cause your starting to sound like me more and more everyday.....

Originally posted by opinionated: I guess I'm 2% of the population! I ended up with a cat in the Dominican republic ...but the part that got me was there was no fruit that started with T... OH my godd :eek: Now that freaked me out....thats exactly what i was thinking.....and my fruit was a tangerine....so im wondering, what happens when the "unique" people start thinking alike

LOL......i know this game too..........but im in a good mood......so here goes: 26

Well it may not be that these people are trying to portray a totally different person, it might just be that they're not willing to open up themselves enough, so that people like you would know their WHOLE true selves...........like me for example, i'm not sure what type of image you GUYS think im depicting, .....but as for me, i try real hard sometimes to just take the mature and nuetral approach......however in real life, its not that easy for me to make "smart" decisions and take the right approach about certain things......but anyways b4 i start to spill these confessions all out......i just wanted to say that i admire those who aren't afraid to show who they really are....

Originally posted by CLOWN: i assume he was refering to your breasts huh? did he ever hit on you? come on you can tell me! he must have been retarded and no wonder he's her ex 2day! but i'd still like to know what made him say what he has said to his beloevd wife and your sister, i'm sure he said the devil made him say that! No he never hit on me.....he really wasn't all that bad of a guy, its just that he wasnt to smart....the saying" think b4 u say something" never occurred to him.......see this is how it went down........my sister is a babe....she's beautiful, she has it all, but she's not to blessed when it comes to that area......and she brought it up one day when we( me, her and her ex)were all together......she talked about how she wish she had bigger breasts..and she started joking about how she might want to get some implants.....of course i told her that she didnt really need it b/c her beauty takes the attention away from that.....but her knucklehead boyfriend told her that it might be a good idea, and that if she got it the same size as mine..."it would just be lovely", lol....well she got mad, and he kept saying "Baby, im sayin, u know your beautiful, but we all know your sisters breast are bigger than yours!!"......sooo i hope that explains it

Originally posted by AYOUB_SHEIKH: As a kid I used to say to myself 'i know what you've been upto' everytime I saw a pregnant woman . lololol, i use to say the same thing........and i couldnt help but cringe when it was a family member of mine pregnant, cause the thought just mortified me.........i still freak out when my cousin use to point it out about my parents when they had my younger brother............eeewwwww

Originally posted by mz-alpha-soup: princess...inshallah sis....wateva god has planned fo us would happen at the end of the day...but the way i see it is as responsible people we have to make our decision of our lives in this world to better our future in our eyes and Allah's eyes... Ms_Alpha=soup...at the end of the day, your totally right..........thats all that matters...

hmmm well let me see..... i would love to meet the following people 1)underdog(he's pretty intelligent, and he seems to have a sense of humor--have u seen the Jokes section lately, we might as well name it after him now) 2)Clown ( he's so flirtatous and full of himself, its kind of cute) 3)OG_Moti( he's a bit weird and i guess im tryin to find out if he's like that in person) 4)libaax_sankaatbte( he seems so mature, and thats a total plus) 5)Darman(he has a hint of creativeness, and a dash of humor, just the ingredients for my kind of guy) now as for the girls 1)Scorpion_Sista--i love her sincerity....and i always enjoyed reading her posts.....come to think of it, i havent seen her around??i wonder where she is 2)Cute_lilgirl--she reminds me of my little sister( which by the way is a good thing) 3)Simple_Woman--she was the only sweet one to admit that she wanted to meet me thanks a bunch 4)Kool_Kat--because she's cool....duhh need i say more 5)Ameenah--she's so compassionate, and everyone seems to love her....and i can see why 6)Barwaaqo--she's so smart, and i admire her passion to fight against injustice thats all i can think of for now,

Originally posted by Infatua.5an: Lool@ waxaan daran...ok I decided to do some research and apparently am SCORPIO..holding it down for NOVEMBER..sorry fouzia..just had to gate crash (u know how some xalimos tend to be... ) ohhh, another scorpio ....well please to meet you my fellow scorpion

My dear Paltalk, i admire your patriotic views, but you have a few things wrong with your subject line..............first i should tell you that you can't tell people how they should feel about a certain subject.....thats what makes us different and in a way unique....throughout your lifetime, your going to have people that dont agree with what you do/say.....u can't tell people what they should have supported or whatnot......if you feel that the Iraqi war was justified, then big ups to you, but dont try to convince others to think the way you did....Yes, you made some good points to validate your argument, but so did a COUPLE of other people out here..........the only thing i have to say is, there's always going to be Pros and Cons to every decision/action you make, and the Iraqi war is just an example of that...but thats where the arguments come in....do/did the pros outweight the cons in the Iraqi war, or vice-versa......??Unfortunately i can't answer that question, and what i've read so far, you nor anyone else has answered that either...instead people are arguing without setting aside their biased/personal views and they're backing it up with ONE or a FEW facts.........it's not that easy to convince people otherwise when they already have their one-sided views stored in their head............thats my advise to you and the rest of the people out here arguing.........Paltalk, next time make sure you pick your battles

Originally posted by somealien: communism is dead;islam is the new enemy. america wants to be an emperical power like 'england used to be(see India and the 'continent of Africa) and theyre succeeding by blinding people like you. theres a reason why they dont teach critical thinking in american schools, think about it. Actually they do teach critical thinking........i dont want to really want to get into this whole heated argument, but let me remind you that England supported this "invasion", and i find it a bit unfair that dont really seem to put Englands "past actions" at fault....but you and many others are quick to hold the U.S at fault for theirs (ie: putting Saddam and other dictators in office)